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  2. Aldis Friedman

    Incredibly Ace Moments

    Now that you mention it, in Japanese hot springs, you bathe naked with other people! Nothing sexual about it though. Some of the activities on the test can be innocent, depending on the context.
  3. MichaelTannock

    Fictosexuality

    Yes, I'd say Fictosexuals count as Asexual, since fantasies, in general, don't count if they don't reflect what you want in reality.
  4. Are you more aesthetically attracted to guys or girls? Or maybe to both equally? Personally- I'm more aesthetically attracted to guys,but if some girl is really pretty, then I also like to take a look on her.
  5. KrystalLost

    Fictosexuality

    I mean even if I'm demi I still prefer fiction to people as it's much simpler. So idk.
  6. Chihiro

    The New Aromantic Thread (v.1.5)

    IMO, people who don't feel romantic feelings are aromantics. Its a different kind of feeling and differs somewhat from person to person. For me its an addictive, giddy feeling accompanied by weird sort of craving to be around the person. What a person wants to do as a result of these feelings again varies, some like cuddling, some like giving gifts, sexuals like to do sexual activity, etc. Many aromantics don't pursue relationships because they are just happy with friendships. Being aromantic doesn't necessarily mean not interested in relationships. On AVEN, relationships pursued by aromantics is called QPR. BTW, I have been romantically in love and also been in QPR. The feelings involved were vastly different. But its literally the same as romantic relationship in terms of the amount of effort you have to put into QPR. Lots of communication, planning etc. Lots of hard work. I am not sure what you mean by "more than friends". I call people who are more than friends as best friends (I dont have any unfortunately. If I ever find one, I can just happily live forever after). Someone with whom you can be yourself but don't have to deal with typical relationship stuff (relationships are a lot of work). Personally, I feel 'best friend' is the best of both worlds- friendships and relationships. No need to commit. Dont have to think about them all the time. Dont have to adjust my life around them, like moving in with them etc. Based on what little you have said, feels like you are an aromantic who just wants best friends.
  7. Ninouk

    #AsexualProblems

    Wow. That's rough. I can't even imagine a friend saying something like this.. If it were me, I would probably guess it's a joke. What an **shole!
  8. I have literally never looked at a person in my life (er, unless I already have a relationship with them) and thought immediately about having sex with them, sooooo...
  9. Dr. Beat

    #AsexualProblems

    my friend point blank told me that I 'was of no use' to him if he couldn't have sex with me. Me telling him I was ace ended a 10 year friendship.
  10. The thing is that you can argue that it mostly attribute-able to bodymapping function. Even science don't always agree that they're different to the point where the rules are always attributable to one or another. In psychology, APA don't support the notion that there's much difference. Gender similarities hypothesis haven't been ruled out at all, and it is still being looked into these day. I did found this, but I'd have to check my earlier post to find some more - https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0959438816300083 They found that males and females are most certainly similar.
  11. PoeciMeta

    Favorite obscure Animal?

    My profile pic 😂 It's a Gooty sapphire tarantula! Also, the blood-squirting lizard is so cool :3 To be honest, I have many, many more...
  12. Omega the Shadow

    Alphabetical "Better than sex" game

    Purring kitties are better than sex.
  13. I don’t think I've explained this very well- I just left it here to be mysterious and whimsical. 😂 My interpretation has always been that Macbeth looks back on his actions and realises it has all been for nothing. His wife is dead. He too faces death. He has no heir. He has betrayed and murdered all the people he held dear. Essentially, he’s having a bit of a mid-life crisis. This was my convoluted way of saying that how nothing means anything in a vague response to the original post. But I mainly just wanted to talk about Macbeth, because hey, Macbeth.
  14. 3Xi3X

    Give me some memes

  15. Grey-Ace Ventura

    Give me some memes

  16. I was just being a bit of a Shakespeare nerd... sorry
  17. Anthracite_Impreza

    Fictosexuality

    That is a matter of debate. I don't think so, because I don't think sexuality/romance/attraction should be 'reserved' for humans. My romance with my car is just as romantic as it would be with a human, so I will not be called aromantic.
  18. I hate washing anything by hand due to my allergy (generally, doing it without gloves is dangerous for me) and I just don't want to wash something bloody. Sorry, as I said - I believe that I have a right to some comfort.
  19. Grey-Ace Ventura

    Fictosexuality

    I'm pretty sure they do count. Ageosexuals are really similar to your definition and they count as asexuals, so fictosexuals should as well.
  20. 3Xi3X

    Give me some memes

  21. Anonymous Axolotl

    Incredibly Ace Moments

    I got a 99, but the only question I checked the box for was the "been skinny dipping" one.... which I had only done a couple of times with a friend of the same sex in her pool when we were probably around seven or eight... Considering it was on private property and happened a few years before the onset of puberty, I can't imagine that it counts in the context the test is implying.
  22. MaggieB

    Fictosexuality

    Do fictosexuals count as asexuals? I heard that if someone isn't attracted to real people but to for example anime characters,then he is on asexual spectrum. Is it true?
  23. Ninouk

    Dating a sexual guy

    Exactly. This was the reason for us to break up. It's difficult, but it was the right thing to do.
  24. Anthracite_Impreza

    Question for the hetero and homoromantic aces

    There has to be a difference, otherwise how would trans people know they're trans? Brain scans have literally shown trans' brains are more similar to their actual gender than their assigned one.
  25. firewallflower

    Give me some memes

  26. PoeciMeta

    How often do you log onto AVEN?

    Several times per hour
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