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  2. I was just being a bit of a Shakespeare nerd... sorry
  3. Anthracite_Impreza


    That is a matter of debate. I don't think so, because I don't think sexuality/romance/attraction should be 'reserved' for humans. My romance with my car is just as romantic as it would be with a human, so I will not be called aromantic.
  4. I hate washing anything by hand due to my allergy (generally, doing it without gloves is dangerous for me) and I just don't want to wash something bloody. Sorry, as I said - I believe that I have a right to some comfort.
  5. Grey-Ace Ventura


    I'm pretty sure they do count. Ageosexuals are really similar to your definition and they count as asexuals, so fictosexuals should as well.
  6. 3Xi3X

    Give me some memes

  7. Anonymous Axolotl

    Incredibly Ace Moments

    I got a 99, but the only question I checked the box for was the "been skinny dipping" one.... which I had only done a couple of times with a friend of the same sex in her pool when we were probably around seven or eight... Considering it was on private property and happened a few years before the onset of puberty, I can't imagine that it counts in the context the test is implying.
  8. MaggieB


    Do fictosexuals count as asexuals? I heard that if someone isn't attracted to real people but to for example anime characters,then he is on asexual spectrum. Is it true?
  9. Ninouk

    Dating a sexual guy

    Exactly. This was the reason for us to break up. It's difficult, but it was the right thing to do.
  10. Anthracite_Impreza

    Question for the hetero and homoromantic aces

    There has to be a difference, otherwise how would trans people know they're trans? Brain scans have literally shown trans' brains are more similar to their actual gender than their assigned one.
  11. firewallflower

    Give me some memes

  12. PoeciMeta

    How often do you log onto AVEN?

    Several times per hour
  13. Stereotypes do exist, but have you noticed they are dying down over time? Society is definitely becoming more egalitarian and with less people believing there is a difference mentally.
  14. Ess-Kat


    Was filling out some paperwork and there was a box for sexual orientation. This was the first time I seen bisexual, queer, or another sexual orienation listed as choices. And for gender identity they listed transgender(both male to famale; and vise versa), non-binary and (or) another gender. I don't know why this made me so happy. 😊

  15. Lockylocks


    One thing I’ve noticed is that I never dream about the current place I’m living. It’s always the house/apartment I used to live in. I moved out a few months ago but so far I’m still dreaming about my childhood home and not the house I used to live in. So I guess my subconscious doesn’t believed I’ve fully moved yet. A lot of my weird dreams can be linked to a medication I was taking at the time. I used to have the best dreams on SSRIs. Dreams with soundtracks and backstories. A lot of them looked like the set of Crimson Peak. I’d try to write it down but would forget to and by the time I remembered I couldn’t really remember the dream. I get sleep paralysis when I’m stressed, taking migraine medication, or just because my brain likes to fuck with me. I sometimes have them back to back. Wake up with one, go back to sleep and do it all over again a few more times. It's always some dark shadow woman trying to choke me or shoving their fist down my throat.
  16. xstatic ☆゚°˖* ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ

    Sexual Compromise & Support

    I can't avoid feeling attraction. I'm brimming with it. But I am definitely going to avoid initiating it like I did the other night. I'm going back to what I know works. 👍
  17. uhtred

    Dating a sexual guy

    Agree - but I'd also add: recognize if the relationship is not making both of you happy. The goal of relationships is happiness, they have no value if they don't achieve that
  18. Quasar.w

    Incredibly Ace Moments

  19. imnotafreakofnature!

    Once Upon a Bus

    So are there any updates yet.......?
  20. The OP . That's why I added the phrase " that is @llychee' s reference" Thought that would make the "your" clear. Apologies to you @Star Lion if it didn't do so.
  21. Moony085

    Seeing "hot" people when you are aspec

    I love this answer so much. Well said!
  22. I've been immersing myself in Rilke again lately, particularly The Duino Elegies (several different translations). Recently read The Poet and the Princess, a biography of Rilke by one of his long-time friends, Princess Marie von Thurn und Taxis. I've also just purchased Rilke and Andreas-Salome: A Love Story in Letters; and The Dark Interval: Letters on Loss, Grief and Transformation. I'm having a hard time deciding which one to read next!
  23. AceMissBehaving

    Incredibly Ace Moments

    We’re not dead, there’s still time to commit a felony, or whatever the people on my Facebook friends list have been doing.
  24. MichaelTannock

    TIL The only interesting topic about sexuality is asexuality

    A belated welcome to AVEN! I didn't know any other Asexuals either until I joined the community. Incidentally, it is a tradition here to welcome new members by offering cake, and here's a Video Game Cake,
  25. Grey-Ace Ventura

    Am I Gray-A at all?

    Well to clarify, aromantics are people who don't feel romantic attraction, so basically, they don't want romantic relationships and would much prefer good friendships. And also I agree so much with because I'm also grey and I'm only not an ace because I experience sexual attraction maybe 0.5% of the time so I relate way more to aces than allosexuals. I also agree with your point about love because even for sexual people, most relationships are NOT based on sex, but rather based on companionship.
  26. Glyn

    Combine your username with the username above you

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