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That would be every 2 weeks and/or twice a week.

I've learned it doesn't actually matter how days go, it's all about your mindset. Because I can have days that go similarly but if I'm in a bad mood then I'll take things more personally and feel upset, but if I'm calmer then I just let things go. We have no control over how our days are going to go so it's just better to try to relax regardless, and if you're relaxed chances are things will go more smoothly because you'll react differently than you would if you were wound up with anxiety/anger. Personally I don't care that much about my birthday anymore but even if I did I'd know

Have you ever read the book Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski? If not, I would recommend it. If you still feel like you can have a desire for sex in the moment when your partner actually initiates, then it may that you just experience mainly responsive desire, as opposed to spontaneous desire, which can be quite confusing in a world that often totes spontaneous desire as being far more common and the 'normal' way one experiences desire. I consider myself sexual, but with a low libido, and some uniqueness lol. I feel desire for sex when I do have someone in my life who I

What are those flowers that look like black tulips?

She’s doing pretty good. I really need to schedule a vet appointment for her tho, I’m a bit worried because she’s been acting a bit weird, also her annual appointment should have been a couple months ago I think

I think there can be intention behind doing one's best to make a particular day a happy type of day, but it is never any guarantee, there are a lot of things out of our control so even with the best planning of the 'perfect' day, it could all go to shit. And some of the best times I find are when I least expect it, and it just ends up being a surprisingly super fun day. I don't have strong birthday memories really, nothing terrible, but none I remember as being my 'happiest days' or the like. But I never put much effort into celebrating my birthday so, maybe if I tried harder I cou

Necessities

When I am getting ready for work, every day. Lol

Nightmare On Elm Street

When you lose all of your socks and a rainbow suddenly appears out from the clouds above you. How do I know whether I am asexual or just gay?

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Would you mind moving it back, please? I put it in PPS because I was hoping for philosophical discussion on how well we're able to create happy days intentionally, as we're expected to do with birthdays. @LeChat Or if it can't be moved back to PPS, could you lock it instead, please? I feel like in Off-A it comes across as a thread just for talking about whether or not our birthdays were actually happy, which is kinda depressing and not at all the kind of thread I wanted to make. I might be overthinking it, but it would make me feel a lot better if it was either in PPS or

I met my spouse in 1989. We married in 1995. Asexuality wasn’t talked about then, I had no idea it was a thing. I assumed I was normal, that sex was for men. Women were too “submit” to sex, and i was fine with that. My own experience seemed to match what I saw on TV. Feigning sleep or headache, faking orgasm to hurry things along. Occasionally offering up sex as a gift. Thing is though that my husband wasn’t happy with a willing, compliant, submissive partner. He wanted to be wanted. He wanted passion or at least interest. He wanted it to mean something to me.

This is a fairly authoritative article in the NYT re whether Trump could -- if convicted of a felony in any of his cases -- still become President. It's depressing because this situation doesn't have precedents and the Constitution is silent on most questions. What is definite is that yes, he could serve as President if he were convicted, because the Constitution doesn't deny him that right. Generally, if there's no law forbidding something, it's legal. https://www.nytimes.com/article/trump-investigation-conviction.html?action=click&pgtype=Article&state=default&module=st

Do you know what India's response to COVID was and how good it was relative to the US? I don't mean this in a bad way, but India has higher rates of poverty, a lower cost of living/salary(and probably because of this the cost of healthcare would be lower), a more corrupt government, caste system(although I don't know how much this effects the country still), and a whole lot of people who live in rural villages with less access to healthcare or have little contact with the govt as a whole and therefore they probably couldn't be accounted for in case or death statistics. There are other issues a

and how is the little pookie??

True TPBM wants to write a book someday

Ask it politely and it might tell you. This sheep has committed tax fraud on multiple occasions, what should I do?

A fully romantic person can want and be in a QPR. What we feel and what we desire do not always match. Our identity and the situation we find ourself in doesn't always match.

I’m pretty good, been spending more time with my dog lately

@J. van Deijck

Aceade is the captain of his own pirate ship.

Kes is a great character, though some found her boring apparently. Voyager has some real quality stuff later on for you to look forward to (as well as at the start of course). You should definitely try DS9. I think it's good all the way through but it really finds its feet a few series in, with some amazing plotlines. It's also hands-down the darkest Trek series (though I believe Discovery comes close sometimes). Uhura is good, but doesn't get as much screen time as she perhaps deserved. It was the 60s to be fair and even having a black women in a position of power