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  2. Lovingforboth

    anyone past 50 on here?

    I hope they are having a great time. Today it was a summer day... (at least here in Funchal, because if you go around the island you will most likely go through the four seasons 😂) And the Levadas aren't all scary, we have placed protection rails in some of them... just so that our visitors could enjoy them as well. Here's a video of fun things to do
  3. Like the smell of a new book while you caress the covers acompanied by the dead silence of there being noone around to bother you as you read and maybe have some coffee. Joke aside (well maybe half of it), love is an ambiguous emotion that can be described as pretty much anything and anything will go. People have tended to try and narrow it down to some of its most common reactions in interpersonal relations (feeling butterflies; stupidly smiling at nothing; being in a generally, more than usual, good mood; etc.) but thats more of a guideline so to speak.
  4. Pandalin

    Hi! I'm new here!

    Hi and welcome! 🍰
  5. ryn2

    anyone past 50 on here?

    They took the gate?? Was it special to them somehow?
  6. The cake is not a lie

    Let's play a game -- Online multiplayer game links/invites

    if anyone wants to play stick fight the game my steam is pianosquirrel8
  7. Pandalin


    Hi and welcome! 🍰🍰🍰
  8. Pandalin

    Hi, I’m new

    Hi and welcome! 🍰🍰🍰 I’m an introvert too, and it was scary for me to post at first, but it’s getting easier. Everyone here is welcoming 😀
  9. Woodworker1968

    Weird Stuff From Childhood

    The one decent thing my old man did was that he got my mother into building those Hubley die-cast metal model cars about 50 years ago when those kits were still produced. As a kid in the 1970s, some of us kids still built models back then (I eventually gravitated toward WW2 Japanese planes). Then home video game consoles became all the rage, and by middle school I was the only kid who still built models...
  10. Pandalin

    Hello all!

    Hi and welcome! 🍰🍰🍰
  11. Warmth. Safe. Happy. Bubbly. Like you’re overflowing with goodness.
  12. ItsRache

    Are We LGBT?

    Hi! I'm new on here, but I want to share that we are certainly 'queer' if that is the term you prefer! I didn't really like it for a while because I had only heard it used derogatorily by homophobic people. But now it is a term I like to use as an alternative or additionally to LGBTQIA+, because it is shorter. Certainly asexual and aromantic are more widely accepted by the queer and LGBTQIA+ community than ever before now, although of course it isn't perfect. There are times I feel uncomfortable or hurt that it is so little discussed even within the community. Nonetheless, as it isn't hetero or whatever society likes to call 'normal' then yes we are a part of the community. As asexuality and aromanticism become better known too, the A in LGBTQIA+ is increasingly recognized to represent us rather than 'ally', though some will still insist that is what it stands for, or should be, or they might say it is either. If it helps though, officially in my textbook on race, ethnicity, gender, and class, asexuality is recognized and mentioned as a sexual orientation of the community.
  13. KenshoBT21

    Incredibly Ace Moments

    Yeah 😅 Guys hardly ever notice me because I'm so quiet and the few that do talk to me get super touchy. I don't mind as long as it's a hug.
  14. Omega the Shadow

    Combine your username with the username above you

    Prismega the Shadream
  15. Omega the Shadow

    Change one letter (5 letters edition)

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    Change one letter

  17. Omega the Shadow

    Change one letter (3 letter variety)

  18. daveb


    I thought I was the only one who did that. My sister likes to open the blinds, but I like to keep them closed. I even put up curtains in some windows that didn't have curtains or blinds, so I could keep them closed.
  19. SarahSomeone

    Are you a collector?

    Same! I probably have close to 90 and I’ve managed to fit them all in an obscure shelf close to the ground in my room so that my family doesn’t walk in and immediately see them all haha. Once I get my own apartment/house it would be nice to get a big shelf and I even fantasize about having some sort of hidden reading room to keep all of my manga/novels in 😂
  20. catra


    wooooo, 200 posts!!

    1. Road


      Woo! I just hit 200 today too!

  21. Coddiwomple

    Dealing with Not Knowing + Help Me Figure It Out?

    I would have to disagree. I don't want to get into this eternal debate here, but in my opinion, there is more to being trans than dysphoria. For me, I found analyzing my euphoria much more helpful than analyzing my dysphoria, because it was like: Yeah, I don't like being female. But what do I like? So, OP, I would try that. If identifying as agender feels good, maybe that's what you are. Play around and see what makes you comfortable, and try not to worry too much about labels, because at the end of the day, they're not the most important thing in the world. This article might help with that.
  22. catra

    Might as well

    welcome to AVEN! i’m glad it’s been so progressive lately, too. take your time getting used to AVEN/asexuality/whatever you need to! we’ll be here when you’re ready
  23. Phoenix the II

    What does love feel like to you?

    I usually define it like: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Color_wheel_theory_of_love
  24. Anthracite_Impreza

    Am I actually Asexual?

    In fairness, you are 13. It's pretty common to not be interested in sex at your age. Of my three best mates one only started desiring sex after 17, the other two after 20. But yeah, we can't label you.
  25. Hotarugarde von Bingen

    What does love feel like to you?

    As an aromantic person, I've only ever really felt platonic love. I sort of define that love as a deep appreciation and connection with a certain person. It's like a force that makes you want to spend time with a person. I love people in the same sort of way I might love a pet. Someone who I enjoy the presence of and enjoy being with.
  26. catra

    Am I actually Asexual?

    identify with whatever works best for you! i started identifying as ace young, too. i talked to my friend about sexual attraction when we were 13. she said that although she wasn’t sure if she’d like to have sex just yet, she had imagined doing it with others and enjoyed the idea of having sex with specific people (i say specific to clarify it wasn’t an ambiguous/unidentified person in her mind, it was a person she knew). if you have never had the same thought process, it’s possible you could be ace. it’s also possible you just haven’t experienced sexual attraction yet, which is okay. either way, you can identify as ace right now and simply wait and see if your feelings change. they may change, and they may not. either way, we’ll be here to support you. (p.s. i saw that you responded to someone else in here, but did not @ them or quote what they said. if you want people to see what you said to them, make sure you do one of the methods mentioned )
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