All Activity
- Past hour
-
23 what is the 23rd flavor in dr. pepper?
-
First we have to have a defdeb - what comes under the light bulb spectrum? How many roads must a man walk down?
-
For the most part I will refrain from eating them because I am diabetic, the last thing I need is to eat the giant sugar pill. but on that same note if I am expecting to eat it anyways and have already taken some insulin to counteract the affects I would go for a custard filled or jelly filled.
-
Trying to understand reasons for sex
uhtred replied to MAnonB's topic in Asexual Musings and Rantings
Agree with above, people's experience of sex seems to be greatly varied, and even for the same person, sex may be a very different experience in different situations. I think that for most people, sex involves more than just the physical stimulation, that the interaction with their partner is an important part. Various forms of sex play, fantasy, including BDSM and role playing as you mention above, are even more complicated. Despite having both exotic fantasies, and enjoying (if I had the option) some non-traditional sexual activities, I can't really say *why*. Som -
Trying to understand reasons for sex
Fishandplants replied to MAnonB's topic in Asexual Musings and Rantings
Hello, asexual here. By sex, I think you are referring to partnered sex. I have no answer for you, because I do not understand it. I have been intrigued why people do it, and I have watched how people behave around it with a lot of interest over the years from real life context to love scenes in a movie etc. I have so far concluded that I am never going to understand it - and I am okay with that. So I am just here for moral support. I hope you will provoke some good discussion from this. -
Have you ever had a birthday party for your pet?
Phalena replied to Lilihierax's topic in Census Forum
That makes sense, I think. Every occasion to celebrate is a reason to have a good time with the people we like. -
Maybe one with chocolate frosting or a jelly donut or one with lemon filling.
-
ISTJ.
-
Not feeling secure in my relationship with my allosexual partner
uhtred replied to blue_night's topic in Asexual Relationships
For the first part, are you happy having sex when he wants it? That is something only you can know. Is he happy with your sex life? Some men are happy to simply have a wiling partner, for others being sexually desired in return is important. I guess the key is whether you can both be happy with your sex life as it is. As far as his wandering eye though - that isn't common. Many men, myself included, are aware of beautiful women in the vicinity, but don't stare at them or anything. Really though consider your last statement: "And then I ask myself, do I reall -
Yum! Dark roast coffee?
-
The characters in alphabetical order game
chronicallypessimistic replied to Pack-rat's topic in AVEN Arcade
Wakaba Isshiki - Persona 5 -
One random word in Alphabetical order
chronicallypessimistic replied to LaughingWolf's topic in AVEN Arcade
Dictatorship -
@alto
-
Have you ever had a birthday party for your pet?
Gloomy replied to Lilihierax's topic in Census Forum
Sometimes I buy them extra toys or treats if I remember, I don’t have a full on party thought. My older cat’s birthday is estimated anyway since the animal rescue I adopted him from didn’t know exactly when he was born. -
I’m glad someone watched it also hello goose, how are you?
-
I was replying to your statement that no one would know how to love until they'd tried it a couple of times.
-
chocolate covered with coconut on it
- Today
-
Covid downplay/nostalgia - has anyone been seeing this more lately?
MarRister replied to Frendo's topic in Off-A
I don't think I've noticed any serious uptick in these kinds of comments in my bubble. I'd say I heard a lot more vocal downplaying and whatnot during the later lockdowns than I do now. Now, I mostly hear sort of passing comments of lockdown times. It has almost become a quip, and I wouldn't say as something to play it down, but almost as a remembrance of it, a way to acknowledge. I think some of the nostalgia comes from unequal experiences of the pandemic and lockdowns. I know my one friend, while being very cautious about covid, felt she was doing better during the lockdowns tha -
How do your birthdays hold up against your happiest days? (CW: birthdays and happy memories)
chronicallypessimistic replied to Missing's topic in Off-A
My birthday isn't really that much of a significant day to me. It's just the day when my family goes over to my place and brings cake (!!) and presents. I mean, of course, I appreciate that, but I don't really feel signiciantly happier on my birthday, at least I don't think so. I never have birthday parties because there really isn't a point in them. I have basically three close offline friends that I actually trust and have respect for and I don't really know what we'd even do at my party. I'm also not a party person. My favourite way to spend my birthday is to play a Persona game -
How do your birthdays hold up against your happiest days? (CW: birthdays and happy memories)
Snao Cone replied to Missing's topic in Off-A
...anyway, birthdays are for losers. No cool people have birthdays anymore. -
How do your birthdays hold up against your happiest days? (CW: birthdays and happy memories)
Snao Cone replied to Missing's topic in Off-A
I don't think birthdays have felt any happier for me than other days. I don't really see value in making a calendar day significant, where there's an obligation to make it better than other days, instead of things beautifully falling into place. Sometimes (most of the time, I'd say) the best experiences and memories are simply serendipitous, without any tie to the day of the year (with some exceptions, of course, like reaching 69,420 posts on June 9th at 4:20 pm). -
Trying to understand reasons for sex
Lord Jade Cross replied to MAnonB's topic in Asexual Musings and Rantings
Sex can be very different for everyone. There is no way to isolate one reason and have it be the universal reason behind sex. Im asexual as well, and I have a knack of keeping track of other peoples reasonings and trust me, even that did not provide the answer I thought it would. -
Philip027 started following Trying to understand reasons for sex
-
Trying to understand reasons for sex
Philip027 replied to MAnonB's topic in Asexual Musings and Rantings
You're still intrinsically desiring it, so not really. Plus, all that is still basically among the reasons why sexual people have/desire sex anyway.