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If I use the term incredibly loosely and think back to the friend I dated briefly (I mean, I did have off-and-on feelings for him for years; we met when we were 14 and the last time we were in touch was at 23), yeaaahhhhh. I'm sure we would still have some things in common, because we initially connected over an intense obsession with a cancelled Cold War era Canadian supersonic fighter plane, various other nerdy interests, and a deep love of very dark humour/snark/sarcasm (ok, I might have a bit of a personality type when it comes to men lol, given that Tele is a massive nerd who was obsessed

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Good question! Every ace person will arrive at the conclusion in a different way. For me, it took years of simply living in the world and comparing my desires and feelings to other people's, and then after some time I began to connect the dots and wonder if there was a word to describe how I am. See, nobody can be sure what will or will not happen in our personal futures. But 30 sounds like a fair age to find some certainty about your identity, based on your past. Sexual attraction means that others are sexually appealing to you; when you know you want to be sexually involved/

Hello. Demisexual and Greysexual. Figuring out out 😊

You get a Pokeball with a Psyduck in it! I put in an Air Bud VHS tape.

Ignore them, they're just being passive-aggressive. I can't tell if this milk has expired.

it's for the humans mainly, lol. My family made a special cake for our dog and got him new toys when he turned 1. It was a fun day 😂

Wanted to reply to this to update: we recently celebrated our four-year anniversary together! ❤️

i haven't had a good doughnut in a long time. i had two donuets in the mean time and they were midling hmmmmm I could eat only doughnuts domorrow if I wanted too couldn't I?

I dont really celebrate my birthdays. Its just one more day to go through, which almost always lands on a work day anyways. I have no friends so its not like I go do some group thing, plus, it seems that the only way people celebrate is by going out drinking which I dont do

@Pack-rat Yup!

Borrow the invisibility cloak from Harry Potter. What is the best way to draw a squirrel?

You're having a meeting in the break room and you get first dibs on a doughnut from the doughnut box. Which doughnut do you choose?

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One cent dry, 25 cents wet. I have this thing where if my hands are wet, or the item is wet, I do not want to touch anything because I feel like the germs stick to me more than when dry. I know, it's illogical but always how I've viewed it. There being nothing to dry my hands with in the restroom is a really big ordeal for me.

My first love was my only love; it lasted 35+ years and I certainly knew how to love him even though I'd had no practice.

Yep. Still have my GBA, gamecube, PS2 slim, Wii, PSPgo (that console had an awful internet issue and could never be used properly so I turned it into an emulator and used it to play roms on the go), PS4, PS5, Quest 2, and Switch. Also a dreamcast that my mom bought on fb marketplace, it turns on but I couldn't ever get it to actually play a game : ( Sold my PS3 to a friend. Haven't been able to find my DS Lite or 3DS in a few years. Think my brother took those. My 3DS was a gift from my sister and I would play it between classes in college so I miss it for sentimental reasons.

I hate my birthdays. I almost never get to celebrate them with friends, I've never had a real birthday party, and I always have to do whatever my parents/grandparents want to do. Any random weekend day is miles better.

To me happy enough is happy enough, if that makes sense. I just try to do things I enjoy, with people I like (especially my best friend, when possible) or solo. I don't know if I think in terms of happiest days. Maybe more like happiest experiences? Which could take up a day or just a moment or even a longer time frame, such as a vacation/trip lasting days or even weeks (although that might be more like a series of experiences).

INFJ. Been taking the test for years to see if it ever changes but it never does.

Yeah, with turbo tax but I have my mom there to support me because I always feel like I'm doing them wrong even though it's just copying down all the information that the government already has.

If we're talking about romantic love, statistically people's first loves don't tend to be very deep, especially if they happen during the teen years, because that "love" is usually based on more superficial factors or may be idealized. It's very rare for two people to meet in youth and stay together for life (and back in the day, bear in mind how many people stayed in committed relationships out of duty or social pressure rather than love). For most people it takes being with several different people or years of experience to find deep love based on mutual need/respect, acceptance of the other

I sure do wish I were rich right now!

Not necessarily a party but I do celebrate... when I remember