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  2. TheAP

    Quickly, Before They See!

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  3. timewarp

    Moon

    That's why nowadays space transportation is mostly done by Russia. Whereas the western world is completely obsessed with technical gimmicks, the Russian approach is still to keep it simple and easy to repair.
  4. Mediocre (I always thought it was medi-okra like the vegetable). Onyx (I was saying oinks). Although I tend to mumble everything so no one notices.
  5. InDefenseOfPOMO

    What does it mean to be a racist?

    According to the American Anthropological Association Statement on Race, the genetic variation within the racial categories we have constructed is greater than the genetic variation between them. Did The AAA miss some population that is, on the contrary, genetically unlike any other population?
  6. So it could be that you have anxiety at seeing porn/sex scenes now because of the experience when you were a kid, and it could also be that you were so upset about it then because of being ace. Both could even be true. I don't watch much television but if I get to a longish explicit scene in a book I skip it (or skim if I think there might be a plot point). It doesn't make me anxious, just annoyed, but that comes the ace.
  7. Yes, that's generally how being demiromantic works.
  8. CustardCream

    Quickly, Before They See!

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  9. That's that type of word after 2 attempts, you just give up and start describing it. "You know that thing that.." I know am not the only one who does this. I do this with names. Instead of butchering your name, I will recognize the region where it's from, then ask how it's pronounced in your country. That's essentially my secret to never butchering names. I had a client shocked I recognized the Polish descent in his name. I was told I was the first to pronounce it right. I got over confident and took a stab at the last name which had at least 20 characters. Post his laughter, and correction, I told myself never again. I felt like what Donald Trump's intelligent kids must feel like whenever he opens his mouth.
  10. I was in one long term romantic sexual relationship (although sex was infrequent) and a few very short ones. They were uniformly bad experiences and unsatisfying, but that's down to the men involved, who were basically all assholes and worse. I've thought a lot about it, and I don't recall being sexually or romantically attracted to any of them; what I wanted was for them to want me. Somehow I thought if the right person valued me I would be happy. In any case, when I was trying to find someone to want me, I did have criteria. Some people are repulsive, either by personality or by looks, or so insufferably boring or annoying or whiny as not to be tolerated. Some people with terrible tempers frightened me. That kind of thing. And, of course, they had to be interested in me, which cuts out most of the world, as in someone who tends to be invisible. Not that I'm complaining, it's actually a lot easier now. As far as sex itself...I noticed it mattered where I was at in my cycle; certain days were better than others. I had to play this dance in my head where I didn't think about exactly what we were doing, because that was gross, but I had to concentrate on feeling close to this person, or I would lose the thread entirely and it would become actively unpleasant. And there's a lot of trying to work out what you're supposed to be doing, like what you should be saying or feeling or how you should be moving. None of that ever came naturally, though I can't say if it does for other people.
  11. Lichley

    *cracks open closet door* Hello!

    Welcome! What genre/s of music do you like?
  12. I don't get over it. I've told people I've had my period at work, I wasn't planning on but coworker told me they had a stomach ache and they had their period and I said me too and that was it. It doesn't have to be a big deal its just a normal part of life. There is also nothing unusual about carrying a bag into a bathroom, no one could possibly know you have your period if you carry a bag into the bathroom. If you really don't want to do that. I wear men's cargo pants to work, because men's cargo pants have very deep and very plentiful pockets and I want to carry my belongs on my person. But you could put the period undies in one of the very deep and very plentiful pockets. But I promise you know will know you have your period if you carry a bag into the bathroom. Also I'm interested in period undies. Do you like them? 🍰
  13. Lichley

    Hi everyone!

    Welcome! I’m sue you’ll make tonnes of friends on here in no time
  14. Lichley

    Hiya!

    Welcome! Wow I love your name :0
  15. NylaTheWolf

    Frustrated Asexual Furry

    I'm in the same boat, buddy ...which is pretty obvious considering my username
  16. andreas1033

    Frustrated Asexual Furry

    Its what everyone does, ie project there own rubbish into your life. I find the more sexually driven the person is, the more they do this. They seem to think, everyone can only be like they are, and driven for sex. Totally agree its annoying, about how they always want to project sexual stuff into anything, or everything you do. Your not alone in having to live with such nonsense. Never heard of furry, but remember, alot of people are like the trolls you talk about, and you know it.
  17. TheAP

    The Banning Game!

    Banned for cosplaying as Ted.
  18. GenderfluidCatLover

    Frustrated Asexual Furry

    Note for people who may have misconceptions about the furry community: It is not about beastiality or specifically acting like animals. It’s more about art and expressing yourself creatively through an animalistic medium. Almost all the groups I’ve participated in are completely PG and non-sexual. That one CSI episode, Fur and Loathing, is extremely wrong. It’s very frustrating being asexual in the furry community. The actual people in the community are awesome. I never get any issues from them and they’re super accepting of almost everything. But the trolls/people outside the community are such a pain. People who think that being a furry means you have a kink for animals or doing it in a suit or something. They’re the worst. Not only do they harass us for being “deviants” they like deny my claims that I’m ace? Even though I don’t even like to be touched? Its just so annoying.
  19. will123

    Reaction To Your Coming Out

    No doubt and couldn't agree with you more! I mentioned this during my second meet up on Monday. I would hope any guys that sign up here that nobody is judging them because they're asexual. They shouldn't be hesitant to meet other aces, especially males. We are who we are, not 'what' we are.
  20. Ardoise

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  23. will123

    anyone past 50 on here?

    29* C (84* F) here in central Ontario according to the dash display in my truck..
  24. daveb

    anyone past 50 on here?

    Self-checkout for the win. But seriously, if people paid attention to what I buy I imagine I'd get some odd looks, too. But so what.
  25. I don't think all AMABs get the full "benefits" of male privilege. I'm not saying it isn't a real power imbalance, just that some people are "disqualified" from it for reasons like disability, race, and gender expression.
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