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  2. [noize:injekktion]

    moving abroad - this time it's more serious. [aka my life in Belgium]

    since today I started working on my first department. their boss called our TC to ask specifically for me. but on the longest break I come to eat with my old workmates anyway. some say I should be proud of myself if everyone wants to work with me.
  3. Hi, I am looking for a long-term asexual relationship with someone 25- 45 in North-West England. I am in my mid-30s and live in Greater Manchester. I am fine with it being online at first, say for the first few months at most. Eventually I would wish to meet you, just as anyone would in a healthy relationship. I enjoy going to restaurants, documentaries and various genres of music - indie, house, soul and country. I am not the sort to dance on tables, I am fairly introverted but not completely socially inept.
  4. CustardCream

    #AsexualProblems

    Yeah... perfect way of thinking about it.
  5. I always did with my most recent ex. With previous exes usually one or the other of us suggested it. Other people I know talk about asking, or complain about (not) being asked, so I assume it’s not just a mixed couples thing and I’m not entirely unique in my experiences. I don’t mind the phrases that poke fun. A shared joke is fine.
  6. The Spoon Lord

    Introduction

    And I'll always have more cake
  7. Omega the Shadow

    Change what AVEN stands for.

    Adventurous Vessels of Exceeding Nobility
  8. That’s certainly fair. If you don’t perceive a difference between things done out of love and things done out of obligation (or if with him there isn’t a difference), or if “done out of love” is not sufficient for sex, then you probably have your answer. In all your discussions about it, have you asked him why he bothers to do it? Or is it better not to know?
  9. Omega the Shadow

    Virtual Fight Room

    Thanks to my shadow serving as a distraction, I am able to free myself and use the shards of crystals from the chandelier as deadly projectiles, taking out anyone who comes near me.
  10. The Spoon Lord

    Introduction

    My favorite kind of spoon is the spoon that is not so big that you can't fit it into your mouth, but not too small that when you hit people with it, it still hurts. And the material of the spoon matters as well. Stainless Steel is the best, but sometimes, Iron just has to do
  11. Omega the Shadow

    Continue the story

    after realizing that random pointless fact, Matilda was once again human and back in the fruit market, covered in cake bits. It turns out she didn't need that cheese covered chocolate after all.
  12. Omega the Shadow

    Change one letter (5 letters edition)

    Chirp
  13. Omega the Shadow

    Change one letter

    Made
  14. Omega the Shadow

    Change one letter (3 letter variety)

    Map
  15. Omega the Shadow

    How high can we count?

    120
  16. Omega the Shadow

    True or False

    I certainly don't hate tomato sauce. The person below me has hyperphantasia.
  17. Omega the Shadow

    Rename the member above you

    PieFilling
  18. Omega the Shadow

    Choose between two completely different things

    Shebleblum, because it sounds funny. A bottle of soda, or a soft blanket?
  19. Omega the Shadow

    Yum or Yuck!

    Yum Chocolate pudding cake?
  20. That. I don't see how that's not simply "not found the right person".
  21. Omega the Shadow

    corrupt the wish above.

    Granted, but you didn't wish for anything. I wish everything in the house was restored to perfect condition.
  22. ryn2

    anyone past 50 on here?

    Yep. Because of West Nile virus we are discouraged (not to the point of its being illegal, but strongly discouraged) from providing any source of standing water. It’s a little silly as we have a gazillion mosquitoes anyway.
  23. Omega the Shadow

    Alphabetical "Better than sex" game

    Liking posts is better than sex. Whether that post repeats a letter or not.
  24. Skycaptain

    Alphabetical "Better than sex" game

    Kalahari safaris are BTS
  25. Skycaptain

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

    One
  26. HonoraryJedi

    is this love?

    Ah yes, the eternal question. I am probably the worst person to answer this, I sought help from this forum over a similar thing once. I had just started to consider if I might be aromantic when I started having the extra feelings for one of my friends. Wondered if I was gonna have to admit to being in love with him, or if I only considered it was romantic because of heteronormativeity. We were together for a little over a month before I realized how uncomfortable I was and broke it off. So that is my experience, entirely anecdotal. I have concluded that it was not romantic love I felt, just from how badly I reacted to being in a romantic relationship. But I am of the opinion that 'love' is still a correct way to describe my feelings for my friends. Even if I don't want to date any of them.
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