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I wonder if he's now down to the bottom of the barrel, lawyer-wise, since he doesn't follow advice and doesn't always pay. But as I said, if they can pull it off. they will be considered the top of the heap.
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What if one's pronouns doesn't align with one's gender identity because one has no gender?
Snao Cone replied to Snarkyaxolotl's topic in Gender Discussion
There are a lot of ways people describe themselves in these situations - cis-by-default, cis-genderless, agender, demigender, etc. No shortage. I know a lot of people who have never felt the need to distinguish themselves as their assigned gender at birth or feel particularly attached to it, but are still comfortable being perceived in that general way and get by through daily life without much challenge in that department, and so they accept that they're cis by nature of receiving cis privilege. But then there are some people who want to distance themselves more from the institutions of gende -
If you're asexual and aromantic, does it means you'll always be lonely?
blerghhh replied to lily6780's topic in Asexual Relationships
I agree with this, it feels like I'll never be a priority unless I'm in a romantic relationship. My friends do care for me, but it seems like I can't ever get as close as I would like to because they will always value their romantic relationships over a platonic one -
What if one's pronouns doesn't align with one's gender identity because one has no gender?
Lilihierax replied to Snarkyaxolotl's topic in Gender Discussion
You mean what happens? Well, nothing. People can use the pronouns they feel are right for them, even if they don't how to explain their decision. I use she/her because that just I've always been - it's my default, due to being born female. I don't have any strong sentimental connection to those pronouns, they are simply the only ones I've ever been know as, and it doesn't bother me, so I have no reason to change them. - Today
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Quasimodo -Hunchback of notre dame
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Was the experience nice at the teacher? Hope you like GoT this time around!! Im so bad at watching tv shows actually lol I never have the motivation to start them and most that I do start I never finish. Huh, maybe you give off a vibe, but yeah still weird. My mom got me a rug for this exam reason. Sometimes Floor Time is me, lying down, trying to understand my notes as I’m studying or taking breaks when it gets too much. Oh no! Feel better soon! and sleep. Sleep is very, very important (I’m actually going to bed now, because running
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Philip027 started following What if one's pronouns doesn't align with one's gender identity because one has no gender?
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What if one's pronouns doesn't align with one's gender identity because one has no gender?
Philip027 replied to Snarkyaxolotl's topic in Gender Discussion
The universe would end, obviously. I'm not sure what sort of answer you're looking for, sorry. -
From what I've seen they haven't been doing themselves any favors.
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A blog in which every day, I try to find a new experience
BigBassFox replied to BigBassFox's topic in Off-A
Apologies for the lack of posting here's a rundown of the last couple days: On Monday, I went into the woods behind my mom's house and found a pile of bones Yesterday, I asked my waitress at my favorite sushi restaurant to order me her favorite dish and this is what she brought: And today, I decided to spend time with my next door neighbors. They're a lesbian couple and we talked a lot about their work as a police officer and a mental health nurse. Here's some bracelets I made today: -
What if one's pronouns doesn't align with one's gender identity because one has no gender?
Snarkyaxolotl posted a topic in Gender Discussion
Like what if one has no gender that aligns with one's birth sex because one has no gender, but one still has grammatical pronouns that relate to the birth sex, but one doesn't view that as one's gender identity? What if one uses the label man, but doesn't view his own manhood as a gender? -
If it's someone I knew well and liked I don't have too much trouble coming up with something brief but pertinent to write. Otherwise, a "congrats" or "best wishes" seems to be enough to me. That sort of thing would probably make me laugh.
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I'm not into remasters, because the graphic style which was "in" when I was an early teenager and we (my family) got our first computer, still happens to be my favourite. I don't like the direction mainstream games took after that - for example, for me 3D graphics were a big step backwards compared to pixel art. If anything, I'd be happy to see some "demakes", although I don't like that word, because, again - for me 3D-to-VGA or 3D-to-EGA is an improvement! But there are games which I... haven't really played, because their graphics style put me off too much, and I'd be happy to see them
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I'm sorry you feel like that... Get better soon. I made this ace patch for my bag today and I'm really happy with it! Also this is my first time using AVEN on a computer so don't judge if the size of the photo turns out weird.
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Yum! Pan-fried chicken pieces?
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That cake reminds me that i forgot to add ‘once upon a time’ as one of my fave tv shows.
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Pretty much, yeah. @Speeedy01 Of course you can call yourself myrrose, but I would advise being realistic and don't expect people to know what it means. At that point, it's probably easier to skip the jargon and just describe what it means.
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I have a cold and a headache and i got 4 hours of sleep last night and i feel awful
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Hello and welcome to AVEN.🍰 It’s ok to be nervous. Maybe you don’t like labels, or perhaps the term asexual is too wide a spectrum for you. Not everyone likes using it. Have you tried looking up microlabels to see if they fit better?
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In which Asexual Spectrum you Fall In?
Lilihierax replied to Daniel Cohen's topic in Members Questioning
I have to agree with this. It is more logical that sexuality would have a spectrum, rather than asexuality, seen as we can't really make a spectrum out of nothingness. We can't say, "from a scale of nothing to nothing, how much nothing do you feel?" Sexuality however, there is something, and there are degrees of it. -
The New Aromantic Thread (v.1.5)
Lilihierax replied to Lambda Corvus's topic in Romantic and Aromantic Orientations
This is really similar to me! Though I never considered using the term loveless, I think because I still feel love for my family, friends, my pet, my interests. I wasn't sure if loveless refers only to romantic love or to all love. 🤔 - Yesterday
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@LeChat I didn't realize we're supposed to put multi responses all under one reply. Even before Facebook & other social I kept each answer separate because I felt it was more personal that way. But, I do try my best to follow the guidelines a group/forum has. I will be more mindful of putting them all in one. @victorian221b I appreciate you saying that. There's days it's not so easy. Especially when my depression hits extra hard. How are you doing?