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  2. Strange-quark

    Chain Game – Geography

    Hithlum
  3. Strange-quark

    Guess who comes next...

    Yes! I'm back 😎 AP?
  4. Strange-quark

    Choose between two completely different things

    Ooh being blue would be cool! (At least it would reflect my mindset ) Getting to meet an ichtyosaur or finding the answer to question "what is cuteness"?
  5. Strange-quark

    How high can we count ... in Roman numerals?

    LXXXV
  6. Strange-quark

    Alphabetical edibles

    Hemp seeds
  7. Strange-quark

    Alphabetic Book Titles

    Ultima - Stephen Baxter
  8. Strange-quark

    A Sentence Forming Game

    Small, iridiscent lamps ken. (Couldn't resist a Finnish one, but that's cheating: Satunnaiset ilonaiheet lainehtivat kaukana. Sorry, carry on.)
  9. Strange-quark

    How high can we count...in binary?

    0001 0000 0001 0101
  10. Strange-quark

    Change one letter (3 letter variety)

    Gag
  11. Evobessive

    Favorite movie genre/style?

    Thanks, I'll look it up 😁
  12. Strange-quark

    Change one letter

    foam
  13. Strange-quark

    Combine your username with the username above you

    Duke Strange
  14. Steve Rogers

    What are you currently reading?

    The Last Snake Man, by Austin Stevens. Maybe you know him from the late TV shows "Austin Stevens: Snakemaster" and "Austin Stevens Adventures" on Animal Planet. He's my hero.
  15. Strange-quark

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

    Still the underdogs try: green 1, pretty please?
  16. Strange-quark

    Change one letter (5 letters edition)

    boast
  17. Arodash

    Extremely uncomfortable the male gaze..

    To this one I need to point out that the fact is being looked at sexually or being viewed as just a piece of meat is not based in gender it's based on the person who has made the decision to view another person in a certain way what I will concede is that men are way more guilty of this at least on the outside they are far more upfront about it just because someone happens to be a male does not mean that cannot have experienced something similar to the original posters experience but I don't think I can stress enough that any man coming here and seeing the post thinking that it was meant as an attack towards men are just wrong the poster was speaking of her personal experiences and her discomfort which I think should be addressed and she needs advice on how to deal with it and not only that how to express two men who may be making her uncomfortable that they are doing that because they cannot learn unless someone points out young people need guidance not to be chastised
  18. anisotrophic

    I'm seeking advice

    Something I think is hard for asexuals to appreciate is that, for sexual people, love is tied to sex. Wanting sex not connected love is entirely possible for many people -- but neither is it unusual to want to feel love and trust before feeling comfortable and desiring sex. "Demisexual" a reasonably common experience of sexuality -- and so many potential partners will think this is what you are experiencing (thus "not ready yet"). This means, yes, a sexual might be pressuring for sex, not coming from a place a love. Walk away from that. But on the other hand: a sexual that is in love, and their sexual attraction is not reciprocated, has the potential to feel rejected in a very deep and painful way. (My personal experience has been rejection is despair, a stabbing pain in my gut, and nausea.) That pain can become unintentionally "coercive". Can you maintain your own boundaries on this? (And worse yet, what if someone is faking that pain? How can we ever really know? "Trust me" is an approach manipulative people may use to get someone interested in sex -- when they, themselves, don't feel that connection.) Maintain your boundaries, but don't assume a partner isn't also feeling pain. Know that mixed relationships have a lot of potential to hurt one or both partners. Know that it's your responsibility to communicate if you have an asexual orientation, nobody is going to know that, it's not well understood, and they will (possibly reasonably) assume other things. You have a responsibility to communicate, with a lot of clarity, up and continuously -- or try to break it off, if that's not possible.
  19. SkyenAutowegCaptain

    Is a Modern Day Tiananmen Looming in Hong Kong?

    Believe that, and you'll believe Boris Johnson wants to abandon Brexit
  20. SkyenAutowegCaptain

    Trump`s pressure

    Not a good idea, especially as Venezuela is pally with Russia (The enemy of our enemy is our friend), all that will come out of that is bad, and an energy crisis in Europe when an irate Putin turns off the gas supply
  21. Glyn

    Incredibly Ace Moments

    I like both of them too. But I will joke around about it, jokingly pretending that I am 'offended' if anyone mentions Star Wars in my presence!
  22. DragonSpirit

    What offends you about the previous post?

    Banned for once again sexualizing a perfectly normal post!
  23. DragonSpirit

    The Banning Game!

    Banned for sexualizing my comment about a stringed bass.
  24. Moderne Jazzhanden

    What offends you about the previous post?

    Wordplay sounds a bit like foreplay (sort of) and I find that sort of blatant (sort of) sexual innuendo sort of offensive! 😋
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