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  2. robnrdbrd

    How do you, your relatives and friends sneeze like?

    Reminded me of this ...
  3. I think these are important points to emphasize. "That person is damn hot but I won't want to take my clothes off for the first month of dating them" is very different from "I have no desire to have sex with anyone right now, no matter how beautiful they are. The only person I've ever felt that way towards was my previous partner, and I didn't feel that way for a year." I will admit, I find it a little odd that some people with no experience in sexual relationships call themselves demisexual, because there is no evidence they are (yet). I acknowledge that we all have inklings of what we'd feel like in hypothetical situations, so if a functionally asexual person feels that in theory they could want sex with someone once a very close bond has been formed over time, I can see why they'd want to make that clear. But just as how there's a chance some asexual or umbrella identifying people will turn out to be sexual, there is a chance demisexual people who are yet to have that experience could turn out to be flat out ace.
  4. nineGardens

    Question to romantic asexuals

    .... so... just in case, P.U. you do realize this comes across as kind of combative and aggressive when Magie was just asking a question. Are you so sure of your knowledge of human relationships that you can say ALWAYS? Anyway- In answer to OP. I'm not sure I count for this question you are trying to ask, as I probably count as Demisexual more than full Ace... but your profile puts you at Gray Ace, so whatevs, I'll answer, you decide if it counts. Yes. If I actually like someone, I'm happy to have sex with them. They like It, and as far as I'm concerned its like cuddles, but with less clothes (and them being confused and overwhelmed and calling me pretty afterwards, which is nice). I don't mind doing things with someone just because they like it more than me. As long as I am not in a situation that throws up any of my "Woh- do not want" flags, then I'm happy enough. For someone who was sex averse, obviously that ain't gonna hold up, and as PU does point out, depending on the partner they may or may not be happy with me treating Sex vaugely the same way I treat cake (I like baking for/with other people, sure, but its not actually super important)
  5. Laplace

    Dere type

    Dandere, as expected (kuudere is the other that often comes up for me), though I’m much more engaging now that I was in the past. I’m not super talkative at times, and I only get animated when talking with close confidants. That and a lot of my more talkative outward persona is kinda disingenuous. Even when I’m talkative in public, I tend to only talk about superficial stuff and don’t really disclose a lot about myself, even to people I know really well. I’m basically a kuudere that’s transitioned to being a dandere.
  6. AllTimeBubble

    Aladdin (2019)

    I'm seeing it later today 🙌
  7. shyramary

    Had the sex talk with my grey-ace boyfriend, I'm terrified

    It is impossible for you to cause physical damage to yourself or him if you have normal sex. It is quite easy to fake enjoyment for his benefit. If he doesn't enjoy sex with you the relationship will end shortly after. You already committed to sex with him in the future. you need to apologize if you lied to him about having sex in the future so he can decide if he want to continue a sexless relationship. Good Luck with that resolution.
  8. TheAP

    The Banning Game!

    Banned for trying to sharpen thread.
  9. Fioryn

    Marvel

    Guardians of the Galaxy, Spider-Man: Homecoming, Captain America; Winter Soldier I love all the characters in some way, but my favorite is Rocket. (If you can't tell by my profile pic!)
  10. NoraGrace

    Aladdin (2019)

    I just saw the live action Aladdin yesterday and it exceeded my expectations. Granted, my expectations were pretty low, but I actually really liked it. If you’ve seen it, how did you feel about it?
  11. nineGardens

    Hi!

    Welcome welcome. Have fun, enjoy the sights and cake.
  12. Galactic Turtle

    Marvel

    I've enjoyed the Captain America and Spiderman movies but I typically only re-watch MCU films when they're playing on TV. Personally X-Men has always been my favorite.
  13. TheAP

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

    Blue three.
  14. nineGardens

    Marvel

    I've seen... half the marvel movies? Let's call it half. Loki is best Loki. Thor Ragnarok was silly and fun (And Kiwi driector!!) Hawkeye being the heart of the team in... age of Ultron (?) was cool. Less happy with character in more recent movies.
  15. Epiphany43

    Hi!

    Ha ha, thanks! 🤣
  16. Piotrek

    2020 U.S. Presidential Race

    A question from non-American so bear with my ignorance Does not getting into debates mean that a candidate is automatically eliminated (a primary of sorts), or is it up to them to decide?
  17. NoraGrace

    sexual or asexual? Just need clarity.

    I agree with @Star Lion. You are probably gray sexual.
  18. I don't know how helpful my ideas are since I've never actually put them to practice, but here goes: -baking/decorating cake, you can use lots of colours and share it with everyone (you might have to find out if anyone has special dietary needs, so that you can make sure nobody's being excluded) -karaoke with songs by lgbtiq+ people (or something like that) -matching lgbtiq+ terms that most people might not be familiar with to their definition -lgbtiq+ history quiz I hope this is useful in some way ^^
  19. Mz Terry

    The Banning Game!

    Banned for expecting this thread to have a point.
  20. NoraGrace

    Question to romantic asexuals

    I would not. Well I might try it once, but I will probably hate it since I am sex repulsed/averse, so I am going to try to get a partner that is ace or doesn’t need it that much.
  21. Star Lion

    sexual or asexual? Just need clarity.

    Well you recognize that you feel sexual attraction so you’re definitely not asexual. You’re also saying that you relate to asexuality so I’d say you’re gray hetero/homosexual (depending on your gender). A graysexual is generally known as a person who experiences sexual attraction rarely so I understand that frequency as referring to a person who knows they’ll more than likely experience sexual attraction in the future but not nearly as often as the average person. The rarity is to the point where they don’t have the asexual experience but it still would noticeably affect their sex life. Not to confuse with sex drive or libido which is basically an urge for masturbation/sex
  22. I can understand not wanting to do things your parents want, but it sounds like you want things hes not respecting and that is a whole other issue. :s
  23. Gentle Giant

    2020 U.S. Presidential Race

    I like many of the Democratic candidates and will vote for whoever gets the nomination. Who I like the most right now is Pete Buttigieg.
  24. Usernamethe2nd

    Homoromantic guys chat

    @PaganUnicorn Hmm well put. Though, I don't usually go around thinking that. I just thought some people were dumb, or just so into it, being hypersexual I mean. Lacking sensitivity makes sense. I don't know, there are those who are just more considerate. And, I also thought that kind of showboating was a two way street, again, at least for some.
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