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  2. PrismaticDream

    I think I might actually be ace?

    You could be asexual, or it could be dysphoria causing you to not want to have sex as a male. Either way, don't pressure yourself into doing anything sexual that you're not comfortable with.
  3. paladude

    Yum or Yuck!

    Yum But it depends on the fruit Buttermilk fried chicken?
  4. Nima

    Yum or Yuck!

    yum at times. used to live off ramen, so it can get old quickly. fruit salad?
  5. Perspektiv

    Master Trump Thread

    I think Joe Biden can do some serious damage to Trump. I don't know him politically well enough to know whether he has the intestinal fortitude to go against Trump head on.
  6. Nima

    Change one letter

  7. Hunji Qi

    Hi! I'm new!

    Hello and welcome to AVEN! 🍰🍰🍰 I am a graduating college senior, joined in the middle of March. I never experienced sexual attraction but had experienced romantic attraction once in high school. When people around me talk about sex or relationship, I feel left out of group since I can't relate. When I expressed my lack of interest, they called me weird. Also I hold sex positive attitude and respect other people for enjoying it despite that I can't relate. I am personally touch aversive, and feel uncomfortable if people touch me, even if not intimate. I hope that you enjoy it here, this is a very inclusive community and it had been such a relief for me, knowing that I am not alone anymore.
  8. Jon A.

    Incredibly Ace Moments

    As far as I know, yes. In those cases though a receiver in the bedroom would be redundant. I'm guessing that some placed it elsewhere in the home for daytime use, and then forgot to turn off the transmitter at night. 🤔
  9. PrismaticDream

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

  10. timewarp

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

    But blue one.
  11. MichaelTannock

    Hey everyone!!!

    @Happyuku A belated welcome to AVEN! In my case, I realised that I'm Asexual in my early teens, around 14 when I started hearing sexual comments from my peers and in media and found that they bewildered me. If you don't mind me asking, have you come out to your Mom? Incidentally, it is a tradition here to welcome new members by offering cake, and here's a Swimming And Music Cake,
  12. Laplace

    "You'll regret later."

    Yeah, I’ll really regret not getting my **** wet for an experience that a lot of people experience on a daily basis; it’s such a rare and transformative event /s 🤦🏻‍♂️😒. I hate how sex is treated like this miracle cure for stuff completely unrelated to it or even things that aren’t even disorders at all like social awkwardness and being quiet/serious. Like thanks for completely diminishing the struggles and sometimes positive characteristics of millions of people.
  13. Hunji Qi

    Do you believe in the Zodiacs?

    According to the traits of cancer, I am sensitive and domesticated, family centered. Sensitive? Yes, but I am not at all domesticated, I value intellectual freedom and spiritual detachment.
  14. Hunji Qi

    Blossoming Spring Flowers

    The vigorous beginning of life cycle, beautiful but transient. Sign of rebirth and rejuvenation.
  15. MichaelTannock

    Hi! I'm new!

    @Ileeca A belated welcome to AVEN! I'm 33, and I've never had or desired either sex or a relationship, but the hardest thing I have ever done was come out to my Dad on the 12th of February this year, so as cliche as it sounds, I know how you must have felt. I've also had a traumatic sexual experience in my childhood, but as it was only a single incident, it doesn't compare, though it did add to my self-doubt. Incidentally, it is a tradition here to welcome new members by offering cake, and here's a Proud Cake,
  16. Interactive puke buckets are annoying and still everywhere. My stance is that if that's what people want to spend their very much limited time on this planet with, mmmkay. For everyone who tells a story there's someone who wants to be a dick about it. Says more about them than about me I don't have a "soul" to begin with and I take being called "not human" as a compliment.
  17. The “sexual attraction makes us human” bull**** pisses me off so much. Like okay, **** you all too. To a portion of people, we’re apparently soulless automatons who don’t deserve to be recognized. I’ve posted this a few times but in college, I took philosophy classes where we’d discuss what characteristics some creature/AI would require to pass as “human” or sentient. I’ve witnessed people in a college philosophy class say stuff like, “Romantic and sexual attraction are part of what make us human. If XYZ can’t experience those feelings, then it’s not human enough.” I normally don’t really make any verbal outbursts but I objected to that even though I had no idea what asexuality was. I just knew there had to be people who weren’t into sex, so I was mad that people would just dismiss that possibility out of hand. I expected more open-mindedness in college of all places 😒.
  18. hotflamincheeto

    I think I may be asexual. help?

    That is a difficult question. I may try to explain how I feel about it. All the sensual pleasures... I don't think that most of them would even be felt if not for the romantic feeling I have for her. It is both physical and emotional pleasure and I dount that the former could ever exist without the latter. is it sexual though? I have no concept of sexual pleasure in my mind. I can't really imagine it. any tips?
  19. Star Lion

    In Disneyland of all places

    🤣 I hope he gets a ticket acting a fool at a kids park
  20. So I had a moment which changed the way I view attraction to people. I had a chance to talk to a hot girl and get to know her reasonably well, and she even understood how society is judgemental based on looks. We talked about how attractive people are assumed to be stupid, and some other things. Throughout my life, being raised male, I was accustomed that hot girls are some inaccessible type of human. Post-coming out, things didn't change much until this encounter. Now that I know what hot, desirable girls are actually like in person instead of just outside observations, I am confused whether I actually am sexually attracted to them or just have internalized male socialization. Notice: I have neurodiversity so descriptions ahead may seem "cringy" or hard to understand to some people. I do find people aesthetically attractive, but I am confused on the sexual part. Like I am confused is your sexual preference dependent on raising? Many trans people say they are "naturally trans" and every their behavior goes counter to their socialization, but this doesn't appear to be the case with me. Also could be due to lack of knowledge of what is sex between 2 cis women like. When I see a hot girl, my male organs respond, but my brain is like "No, no, not interested in this way, you aren't a part of this body, I am getting sex reassignment to get rid of you". I also lithromantically fantasized from a female perspective about a relationship with a man, and "experienced attraction" towards men. But since all of the words describing attraction are made by cishet neurotypicals, I have no idea what it actually is. What would the planet be like where 90% of people are of same sexuality as me? I have no idea how to answer. I know that I am aromantic omni-something, but sexual, aesthetic, i don't know. It has something to do with the body but I am confused.
  21. The cake is not a lie

    In Disneyland of all places

    Last night I was going to Disneyland and the car next to us was plastered with stickers of nude women in extremely sexual poses. There was not a foot of that car that didn't have images of nude women. I even saw two body pillows in the back seat. I'm fine with people having that kind of thing but do you really need to bring that to Disneyland.
  22. Moonman

    Unusual Situation with Friend/Crush

    I think she needs to know that if she wants to speak about her sexuality then you'll be there for her. She may well want to figure out her feelings without expressing herself but it's possible she has nobody else she feels comfortable talking to. Outside of taking this route there's nothing else I'd recommend you do. A form of inaction may well be the best option here because it's the only one that will stop matters from being more complicated and muddled up than they are already are. But I would say she needs a friend more than a girlfriend right now and you'll never be her girlfriend in the future if you can't be her friend now. Best of luck. I hope you both end up in a good place when this situation comes to pass.
  23. CajunAce

    Quickly, Before They See!

  24. Fallen Unicorn

    Asexuality and Doctor Visits

    Maybe find new doctors? 😆
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