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  2. I see. Well I'm glad to hear it's not all you feel, even if like you say you're avoiding some things. There's some things we need to put aside for until later, I've seen it plenty. Honestly I like seeing people's hearts. There's all sorts of feelings there. And it makes sense that sometimes a part of us looks for expressing the negative so that we can actually.. voice it, I guess. I've had that lately, since there's some things I haven't been able to say about some of my feelings. I do think it would be nice if you would let someone in, though I don't know if it's that or yourself that you need to let in first. I have another friend who always is giving, and trying to help others, but doesn't let anyone helper her. She feels that it's not worth getting to her, and that she gets enough from giving out, but I do care and sometimes would like to help her as well or give her a place to share some of the pain I know she has in her, but really I don't know if that's the way to go at first. I don't know how I can tell her that she doesn't need to avoid her own feelings all the time. How would I tell her that she's worth being listened to and comforted as well? Oh, and hey, don't forget to check your PMs
  3. Ace boi

    Strange sensations in hands

    Hello, so I have this weird sensation in both of my hands that can only be described like energy or magnetic. It's almost always there but sometimes it gets really strong and it's uncomfortable. When it happens my hands sometimes get really hot or cold and sometimes the skin on my palms gets darker. Given all of that I'm guessing it's something to do with irregular bloodflow but all I can find online is either carpel tunnel or stuff like reiki energy healing and I'm pretty sure it's not either of those. Any idea what this is?
  4. Worst that I can remember was: Seriously could you just stop being so uptight and just accept your sexuality -- Friend of mine after I asked if the people in one WhatsApp group could maybe send less hentai pictures. Because I found it very annoying. Seriously most of the pictures they were not even aesthetically pleasing. Also not entirely sure what sexuality he thinks I have to accept. I was to baffled to asked. And since everybody else was really nice about it I don't know how to bring it up again.
  5. Skeletonducky

    Hello, I'm new here

    Lil' late to the party, but Hello and welcome from another UK ace!
  6. @Nowhere Girl I really like the thought that sex isn't objectively good, and the lettuce thing is a great point too. Thank you for taking the time to so pedagogical! It means a lot to hear these thoughts from someone else and to talk about it with people who understand.
  7. Leilamy

    Biology question

    If you do mean low genetic diversity like Memento said then yes, I don't have any example at the ready but low genetic diversity can easily lead to extinction or massive death because the population as a whole is more likely to all suffer through epidemics or other perturbations that modify their environnments. If a population is under a certain level, they probably won't be able to bring back up their numbers after a pandemic through evolutionnary rescue for one example.
  8. Any parent that thinks conversion abuse is acceptable is a terrible parent. Therapy exists to help people, not convince them they are wrong for just being what they are when it doesn’t harm anyone.
  9. MichaelTannock

    Greetings from the Welcome Lounge moderator

    @Madderhatter A very belated welcome to AVEN! Incidentally, it is a tradition here to welcome new members by offering cake, and here's a "Wonderland" cake (all edible), http://cakesdecor.com/cakes/179062-wonderland-1
  10. RobinHG03

    Hi! I'm Robin

    Hello everyone! My name is Robin and I am an agender aroace. I have already made a couple of posts but I thought I should introduce myself properly. I don't really know any ace people irl, so I made this account to hopefully interact with ace people online instead. My PMs are open to anyone who wants to talk!
  11. Iam9man

    Controversial video game opinions?

    Correction: I believe he wears a mushroom hat, but he’ll always be a mushroom to me 🍄
  12. Captain Jay

    Captain Jay

    How do you shake off the feeling that everyone's out to get you? I'm closer to thinking that that's the reason why I've been reluctant to use creative sites, never mind a lack of talent, uncertainty about what I'd even do, or most anything else...

  13. Iam9man

    Controversial video game opinions?

  14. ShinyhunterF

    Hello, I'm new here

    @RobinHG03 Hey! Thanks for welcoming me, I hope we can both make a lot of friends then!
  15. Iam9man

    Controversial video game opinions?

    He’s a mushroom. Enough said.
  16. ShinyhunterF

    Hello, I'm new here

    @TheTurtleMan Thank you! I do love delicious cake, so I appreciate that! Also thank you, currently hatching Pokemon eggs for a Shiny Sobble!
  17. MichaelTannock


    A very belated welcome to AVEN! Incidentally, it is a tradition here to welcome new members by offering cake, and here's a gravity-defying "Icecream" cake, http://cakesdecor.com/cakes/332555-an-icecream-cake
  18. TheTurtleMan

    Hello, I'm new here

    Heyo, Welcome to AVEN. Have some 🍰 and gool luck for your hunting
  19. MichaelTannock


    A very belated welcome to AVEN! I realised that I'm Asexual at around 14 and I'm now 34. Incidentally, it is a tradition here to welcome new members by offering cake, and here's a "Chemistry text book" cake (all edible), http://cakesdecor.com/cakes/197695-chemistry-text-book-cake
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  21. Catpaws

    Incredibly Ace Moments

    Well, it's 100% sexual. This one I actually do know! But...there's a specific season? Why?? And why now? Why not summer? Wouldn't this be an applicable activity all year? I...don't get that part of it.
  22. RobinHG03

    Hello, I'm new here

    Hi Freya! I'm new as well and I know very few ace people in real life. It can be really isolating, so I joined this site for the same reason as you. I hope we both make lots of friends here :))
  23. Memento1

    Biology question

    By collective genetic viability, do you mean species that have low genetic diversity because of a past population bottleneck, like the cheetah? It's certainly a giant concern.
  24. Some of my favourites are the ace flag (it reminds me of galaxies and I LOVE galaxies) and also the aro flag (The colours look really nice together) But I like a lot of them
  25. RobinHG03

    A(gender)vengers Assemble!

    Hi! I'm new and just found out I'm neutral good!
  26. i.r3beka

    Incredibly Ace Moments

    What does that mean? Someone made a snap about being cuffed by a cop this cuffing season and I am very confused. Unless it’s repugnant then don’t tell me. Not sure if I want to know. 50% don’t want to be confused and 50% think ignorance is bliss
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