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  2. The Abhorred

    The perfect single me vs me feeling alone.

    I didn't know that, I was hoping to be able to talk about this and how others deal with it but no one has come forth. How about you? Is this helping you with your desire to form a special kind of connection with someone? Would like to explain some more, what this means. I said that this issue of mine is my Achilles heel for many reasons, no one really knows that. Also welcome to the forum! 🍰
  3. timewarp

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

    One cornflower.
  4. Muledeer

    anyone past 50 on here?

    The Bear River in full spring runoff! The Oregon coast is sure a beautiful place. Sand dunes are interesting. Too bad you lost your hat. I assume that bridge spans the Columbia River?
  5. If there was any evidence at all that this was a bio weapon Putin and Trump would both be screaming for a meeting of the UN Security Council, as the USA and Russia are two of the three nations with the most confirmed cases
  6. How inaccurate can they be? Look at the graph I posted. Were the total number of deaths 10 times greater in reality, that's still not even 50k people, so about 0.003% of China's population - barely any casuality and only 1/7th of the total 350k+ deaths. Their data was surely misleading in March, but they have been open for 2 months now. If the data was so inaccurate, I'm sure we'd hear about it by now. Not to mention, the rest of Asia also seems barely affected, are they lying too? Meanwhile, out of those 350k dead people, about 140k is in Europe and 140k in Americas. That's proportionally 5-6 times of what China has suffered (and keep in mind that's still assuming their actual numbers are a whole 10x of what they reported, which is probably a huge exaggeration on my part). To be clear, I do not really believe China did it intentionally (and even if that was true, I don't automatically hate Chinese people for whatever their government does). I agree with @Arodash, that incompetence is usually a better target for blame. I just find that, and the fact that no one is talking about it, extremely weird. I would expect to have heard some conspiracy theories by now, yet nothing of the kind reached me. Dunno, maybe the 5G-conspiracy has monopolised the market. *shrug*
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  8. Ace-TheTimelordsCompanion

    Coffee and a Lack of Empathy (game)

    Borrow Sky's cat's. My cat is still grumpy with me for taking him to the dentist
  9. Lifesaver

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

    Oh no! No more red roses
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  11. grigor1860

    Flat-sharing with best friend

    This was my thinking as well. We’re already familiar.
  12. grigor1860

    Flat-sharing with best friend

    Right, that will probably be where our situations will differ. Nonetheless, very helpful.
  13. Chalce


    Pride Month.

    I'll support all of you guys from afar.

  14. grass_92

    Asexual in Vietnam

    Bạn có xài zalo không nhỉ. Username của mình là : grass_92. Nếu đc hãy kb với mình qua username trên zalo .uhm ... mình chờ mong đc xem ké những tấm hình" khoảnh khắc" đẹp ấy😂 . Mình cũng có đi du lịch, nhưng mình ít chụp hình.
  15. timewarp

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

    Only one left
  16. Lifesaver

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

  17. Lifesaver


    If that was used as a weapon one would say “ prepare to ‘meat’ your maker!”
  18. This thread has not been active for a long time and is now being locked. If anyone would like to discuss this topic further, feel free to start a new thread about it. Laurann, moderator
  19. @Perspektiv What if it's not about making excuses or the like? I am like you in that traumatic events seem to have made me stronger rather than the other way (though note also I didn't have it as hard as you portray), but I met many people like the OP, who are just as smart and hard-working, and who did attempt all sorts of typically recommended self-help methods, yet still cannot overcome their problems. I am not saying the issue doesn't lie in the mindset, but I also don't believe that the mind is separate from the body. So what if there is something in people like you and me that people like the OP simply don't have? If that's true, then no amount of talking will help them. What we need to do, is to find out what makes this difference and then try to somehow help them compensate for it.
  20. timewarp

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

  21. Kimchi Peanut

    Avatar: The Last Airbender fun poll

    76% water tribe according to this quiz!
  22. catpower

    Problem Drinking? (Gen X and others)

    I’m squeaky clean now but it’s always been a problem. I’m lucky in so much that I can quit a massive habit in a second, it would only last about 6 months tho and I’d be back on it. I made up the last time I stopped that I’d stay clean which was about 4 years now and I’m fine.
  23. Shanjace

    Hey there?

    Oof, well this is awkward because I also brought cake Eh, the more the merrier And welcome to Aven 😊
  24. ...AlexIsntdead...???

    aro/ace problems

    i really like this girl, and shes been my best friend since preschool. I dont know if its a squish or a crush, but ive always kinda felt pulled towards her. and I know she has some sort of crush on me, at least i think so. we literally call each other moony and padfoot. and if she doesnt feel the same I dont wanna make her feel bad for me. and if she does have a crush on me, I dont want her to think Ive been leading her on with my small signs I like her, because it could just be a squish. and Im scared of both of those because shes the only person Ive ever actually liked, and if someday all this dissapears or I break and stop feeling this, I might never be lovable or be able to love again. maybe thats just the anxiety talking.
  25. I can’t even remember when I had sex last, probably 15 years or so. I just really dislike the rituals people do, I get caught up in playing a game I don’t want to play.
  26. Moonman

    AceApp: smartphone ace dating app

    A good majority of people with smartphones are telling the world exactly where they are, who they are, who all their friends are and what their political opinions are with Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat and Twitter. *shrugs shoulders*
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