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For me, almost the only coconut thing I like is coconut milk. (Plus, also - coconut pieces as a tea ingredient.) I hate the texture of coconut flakes (how is it called?) and never eat any desserts containing them. I like Maltesers, Twix, Galaxy Caramel (if I remember right which one it is... but generally, I love caramel as long as the whole bar is alcohol-free*) and Milky Way, and even more, specifically - Milky Way Crispy Rolls, the ones with milky cream inside. *There is a Polish brand of chocolate bars known as Pawełek (Paulie). Some flavours could be interesting, such as

I am 53 years old divorced wom woman.I stopped having sex when I was 40.Since then haad n relationship.But I would like to have one. Any one has experience and share with me...

Labels are convenient, but not everyone happens to fit an existing label. I think what matters is to think to yourself what it is you want and don't want from a relationship, and then go seek that out. Its all completely fine as long as you are honest with partners about your feelings. Also keep in mind that asexuality is not pledge or religion: If your feelings change in the future you can change how you describe yourself.

I think another general rule is that instead of telling a partner "I need you", tell them "I want to be with you". The first contains the idea that ending the relationship would harm them, while the second (at least to me) suggest that while you would be OK without the relationship, you are much happier with it. The first has a hint of emotional blackmail "I will be miserable if you leave" which to me is different from "I am happy when you are here". For myself, I want to feel that every day my partner has the option to leave, but every day they decide that that being with me m

mars, milky way, bounty - like. snickers, twix - dislike. other - haven't tried these.

It's neat having learned the numbers about the horizon and Earth curvature. For example at person height you can potentially see about 3 miles before things fall below the curvature of the earth (exceptions for very tall things of course). Then when up very high in buildings you can notice distant landmarks, find the distance, and learn that landmark would actually be hidden by the Earth if you were at ground level.

I volunteer at a community darkroom and love shooting with film! I do miss when film was the main thing.

I was putting together a museum exhibit and it featured an Apple IIE computer. I learned typing on those things and now it’s considered a museum exhibit. I felt old 😅

Keep in mind libido (this includes kinks) is not sexual attraction and that celibacy is not asexuality. Stimuli can cause arousal but there is no immediate desire to have sex with anyone, and a lack of libido or abstinence from sex with people one is sexually attracted to wouldn't directly mean asexuality.

It's not a trend and it dates back as far as using 'you' singularly.

thanks i got like 12-13 hours last night and im not going to school so that's good

They catched them all, so to speak. I'm trapped inside a tiny ball

They catched them all, so to speak. I'm trapped inside a tiny ball

those are both good! this is useful, as I'm getting ready to talk to a matchmaker and I'm trying to define some relationship goals and needs

You see power in the complexity of asexual identity spectrum. I view this as complexity paradox. The more we choose to define/identify ourselves (within our asexual space) in order to find simple terms to who we are, the more complexity we seem to create. If the “seeing (our)selves as whole” of which you speak, or including the “a-“ prefix that I allude to, might offer paths elegant and easy YES !

Agreed, but perhaps there should be promises in the other direction as well: #1 - I will never minimize the importance of sex to you, even if its not important to me #2 -I will never demean your sexuality just because I do not share it myself #3 - I will choose words wisely and think before I speak so that I don't say something that makes you feel "less than" or "broken". I will also own when I do mess up and it hurts your feelings. #4 - I promise to understand that that some forms of touch that are not sexual to me, are to you, and that you do

Isn't there a trend to using "they" / "them" as gender neutral pronouns in English? Humans process language at a pretty low level in their brains so it may take some time for this, or any other solution, to become universal. Some languages make it more difficult, where gender changes the usage of other words in a sentence, or where the language causes everything, including inanimate objects, to have gender.

no clue, could be either, clarify please

Welcome, welcome!

Hi, and welcome!

Don't worry, global warming will take care of that soon enough (: Someone stole all my Pokémon plushies!