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  2. WhiteCatandcherries

    My aversion to sex could destroy my relationship.

    A part of the reason the asexual label exist is to say that we are not inherently wrong or broken and also that this is just how we are. You cant change your sexuality. If you cannot change your sexuality, and you are a sex repulsed asexual, then it is kinda wrong for him to hold out hope for you to change. It is not fair to either of you. I understand that you want to have the sex with him on an intellectual level. You probably also just want to be allosexual (non asexual). That is not uncommen. Being asexual (and sex averse) creates huge issues in a relationship with an allose
  3. I'm glad that I could help even just ease your mind a bit.
  4. Skycaptain

    The Banning Game!

    Banned for sending us all on a workout
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  6. Aceade

    The Banning Game!

    Banned for getting too animated worked up about banning.
  7. Yes, I do feel arousal towards females, am also romantically attracted by femals and yes, I do not experience arousal for every female. And yes, that's normal. For non-aces and aces (though maybe percentual a bit less for aces than for non-aces).
  8. Ksenia

    Do people actually "feel" like their gender?

    I think that the most important thing in life is to feel like a human. What does it mean to be a human? I think to be a human is to have ability for love, compassion, suffering. For trans people transition deepen their humanity, their ability for love, compassion. Also keep in mind that people don't live in biological reality because we are not plants or simple animals. We live in cultural reality, and this reality is based on symbols and language (system of symbols), so in order to be happy we need the best path in this symbolic reality. And gender is important part of such reality. System o
  9. WanderingPurpleDragon

    Quickly, Before They See!

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  10. I like boys with long or long-ish hair (enough in front around their face anyway) and pretty faces. For girls, it depends on their outfits more than their physical features. I find myself really liking girls with a punk or goth style, but that might be more me wanting to look like them X)
  11. Myssterry

    The Banning Game!

    Banned for expecting bans to be animated.
  12. Myssterry

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

    And now, red 2.
  13. Myssterry

    anyone past 50 on here?

    Areas of the UK have snow, and not just the north. This is from WildlifeKate on X. She is somewhere in the southwest. I know Dartmoor has snow and there is snow further north. We have had more rain here. Rain is just about daily and has been for weeks on end. It is sunny here at the moment, but the garden is too soaked to work in and the wind is meant to be picking up later with possible gales. Statistically, snow is more likely in the UK at Easter than Christmas, when Easter is in March.
  14. As I already said, my partner is ace and sex-repulsed. She was my first partner. I never had sex with anyone else than her, at the very begininng of our relationship 25 years ago. And that was not great memories, sex never was nice or satifying when we tried. But... that doesn't mean I don't know what I miss. I know. And worse, I imagine. So, no, don't believe that he doesn't fully know what he is missing out. He knows. And like Sally said, that's a very bad idea to continue to have the hope it will get better. That's horrible. He MUST understand you will NEVER change. And so do you. That's
  15. And to take it yet another step further: to some it is somewhere in between. I can have fun sex with a person I am not deeply in love with. But I have no interest in anonymous hookups , one night stands, that kind of sex. I need to have some bond in place. That does not have to be love. I do very much need to like her as a person. As so many other things it is not black and white. It feels more like a spectrum to me.
  16. allhailtheglowcloud

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

    The pogo stick should not have been trusted (red 3)
  17. Despite my not being really knowledgeable enough to be able to make this statement, I will: you will never get to that stage. Do not allow him to continue to have that hope. It is unfair to you, and unfair to him. Even without the difference in your sexual orientations, he wants children and you don't, and that's a recipe for unhappiness, whether you have them or don't have them. One of you will eventually transmit your unhappiness to the child. Don't add more frustrating years to the 7 you're already put in; please consider attempting to turn your frustrated relationship into friendshi
  18. Natifftoff

    Teen Corner

    Hey, nice to see you again! How have you been? Yeah, I joined in August too and it still feels like I'm new. Oh no, why is your support system crumbling apart? Are you okay? Also: I wasn't around much the last couple of days. School has been stressing me out. But now are holidays so I'm probably going to be more active...
  19. Autumn ace

    Word association game

    Springs
  20. Autumn ace

    Car colour

    Our family car is gray with a silverish tint
  21. Autumn ace

    Quickly, Before They See!

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  22. Anomaly Q3Xr

    Quickly, Before They See!

    25
  23. Blueberry Pie

    Car colour

    Haha! I’m going to steal that.
  24. WanderingPurpleDragon

    Quickly, Before They See!

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