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I have a track record of bad things happening on my birthday. The day is cursed. Low lights include a surprise birthday party where none of my actual friends were invited, getting run off the road by a semi and almost rolling my car over, Getting hit in the face with a foul ball at a St. Louis Cardinals game and breaking my nose, and last year when I had a seizure and spent the entire day in the ER. So, when it comes to birthday vs happiest days my birthday typically ranks as some of my worst. This August is my 40th birthday. I shudder to think what the Birthday Curse has i

Today, I decided to go out and find 10 different types of flowers in my neighborhood. My favorite were these blackberry flowers I can across. Also here's a game of spot the frog

@DragonflytotheMoon Hi. Welcome back! Thank you, for sharing your hobbies and experiences. If it helps, as a friendly reminder, members are, also, welcome to report things to Admods by clicking on the three dots at the top right of a post. [a pic of a round purple cake (on a round, white surface) with a couple of lighter spots on the side and top edge, each with a blue and green dragonfly. There are some blue and purple swirls all around; the base has a black trim.]

when my main motivation for participating in sexual acts was to lower my rice purity score and not because I liked it.

My first ten years of working life was nothing but nights, weekends and holidays. I never missed getting to have predictable time off for partying or otherwise making a special occasion for myself personally. That ended years and years and years ago but I still almost never make a big deal out of my birthday. As often as not, when my family asks me what I'd like to do for my birthday, my answer is "nothing much" beyond a rare dinner out.

It seemed to me the question presumed someone would have more than one over time.

You do not need to label yourself, ever. You can choose a label if you want, when you figure out what seems the best, but AVEN actually recommends that no one should try to label anyone else. AVEN has resources to think about when you're trying to self-define -- they're very helpful.

gnarly!! another friend of mine got into spop a couple months back and they really liked mermista too!! np,glad you liked it:] and same lmao. I’ve only heard a few songs but they’re really catchy I’m too transfixed to be upset c r i k e y YELLOW NEWBIE. IS THAT AN OSEMANVERSE PFP I SEE

If I use the term incredibly loosely and think back to the friend I dated briefly (I mean, I did have off-and-on feelings for him for years; we met when we were 14 and the last time we were in touch was at 23), yeaaahhhhh. I'm sure we would still have some things in common, because we initially connected over an intense obsession with a cancelled Cold War era Canadian supersonic fighter plane, various other nerdy interests, and a deep love of very dark humour/snark/sarcasm (ok, I might have a bit of a personality type when it comes to men lol, given that Tele is a massive nerd who was obsessed

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Good question! Every ace person will arrive at the conclusion in a different way. For me, it took years of simply living in the world and comparing my desires and feelings to other people's, and then after some time I began to connect the dots and wonder if there was a word to describe how I am. See, nobody can be sure what will or will not happen in our personal futures. But 30 sounds like a fair age to find some certainty about your identity, based on your past. Sexual attraction means that others are sexually appealing to you; when you know you want to be sexually involved/

Hello. Demisexual and Greysexual. Figuring out out 😊

You get a Pokeball with a Psyduck in it! I put in an Air Bud VHS tape.

Ignore them, they're just being passive-aggressive. I can't tell if this milk has expired.

it's for the humans mainly, lol. My family made a special cake for our dog and got him new toys when he turned 1. It was a fun day 😂

Wanted to reply to this to update: we recently celebrated our four-year anniversary together! ❤️

i haven't had a good doughnut in a long time. i had two donuets in the mean time and they were midling hmmmmm I could eat only doughnuts domorrow if I wanted too couldn't I?

I dont really celebrate my birthdays. Its just one more day to go through, which almost always lands on a work day anyways. I have no friends so its not like I go do some group thing, plus, it seems that the only way people celebrate is by going out drinking which I dont do

@Pack-rat Yup!

Borrow the invisibility cloak from Harry Potter. What is the best way to draw a squirrel?

You're having a meeting in the break room and you get first dibs on a doughnut from the doughnut box. Which doughnut do you choose?

@Missing Like this?

One cent dry, 25 cents wet. I have this thing where if my hands are wet, or the item is wet, I do not want to touch anything because I feel like the germs stick to me more than when dry. I know, it's illogical but always how I've viewed it. There being nothing to dry my hands with in the restroom is a really big ordeal for me.