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Non-romantic Attraction to Attractive People


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I've felt very strange about this, but from what I can analyze myself, I seem to desire company of attractive people. Nothing sexual, nothing romantic, purely platonic.

Now this doesn't make sense to me, and I don't like being superficial, so I dislike this desire of mine. I hold views that conflict with this so it bothers me more.

Any idea what's wrong with me? How can I fix this?

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first of all welcome :cake:

secondly there is nothing wrong with you

feeling non romantic attraction to ppl is pretty normal

have you ever checked aesthetic or platonic attraction?

I personally feel aesthetic attraction for people, and it makes me want to be close to them, befriend them or just look at them. there is nothing romantic to that attraction I feel but I still feel it :)

take your time, relax and you will figure everything out I'm sure :)

Also you can't fix what you feel, you can choose to repress it as long as that makes you happy :cake:

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first of all welcome :cake:

secondly there is nothing wrong with you

feeling non romantic attraction to ppl is pretty normal

have you ever checked aesthetic or platonic attraction?

I personally feel aesthetic attraction for people, and it makes me want to be close to them, befriend them or just look at them. there is nothing romantic to that attraction I feel but I still feel it :)

take your time, relax and you will figure everything out I'm sure :)

Also you can't fix what you feel, you can choose to repress it as long as that makes you happy :cake:

Thank you for your insight.

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