Ayako Posted May 22, 2011 Share Posted May 22, 2011 I don't know if anyone else calls themselves that .__. but I was thinking about it, and if this is in the wrong place please tell me >w< I am Agendered (No gender), Aromantic and Asexual...And I feel kind of weird about it, I feel alone, but at the same time, I'm happy. I've tried relationships because I wanted to be like everyone else, but I wasn't making myself happy, I was freaking miserable. And another Ace friend of mine is Aromantic and felt Agendered, but he realized he is a male (He's trans*), but I don't know if I can talk to him about it because it might be awkward :c So I'm posting here...cuz I feel alone in a small town where there's a small number (me and my friend) who dress in Lolita (my friend is a female-bodied male who likes to crossdress in womens' clothing) and are Aromantic. :c Link to post Share on other sites
Pandoren Posted May 22, 2011 Share Posted May 22, 2011 Nearly but not quite. I'm mainly agender and grey-romantic verging on aromantic. Link to post Share on other sites
Member33070 Posted May 22, 2011 Share Posted May 22, 2011 (edited) I am not, but I know there's quite a few people here who are agender/neutrois, aromantic and asexual. *gives up editing this post to make it current* Edited August 22, 2011 by Birdwing Link to post Share on other sites
Almagest Posted May 22, 2011 Share Posted May 22, 2011 I'm triple A. ^_^ I'm seriously considering keeping a triple A battery with my four aces in my wallet for symbolic reasons. :P Link to post Share on other sites
Samael Posted May 22, 2011 Share Posted May 22, 2011 I'm an aromantic, asexual and... agnostic male? Does that count for a triple-A? :D Link to post Share on other sites
Ayako Posted May 22, 2011 Author Share Posted May 22, 2011 I'm triple A. ^_^ I'm seriously considering keeping a triple A battery with my four aces in my wallet for symbolic reasons. :P That's awesome :D If I had a wallet, I would do that too Link to post Share on other sites
Ayako Posted May 22, 2011 Author Share Posted May 22, 2011 I'm an aromantic, asexual and... agnostic male? Does that count for a triple-A? :D Sure! ~ Anything with three A's works :3 Link to post Share on other sites
Gloom Posted May 22, 2011 Share Posted May 22, 2011 I am triple A as well. Never thought of calling myself that though. :-) Link to post Share on other sites
Vampyremage Posted May 22, 2011 Share Posted May 22, 2011 Nearly but not quite. I'm mainly agender and grey-romantic verging on aromantic. That would pretty much be me as well. Agender, asexual, grey-romantic. Maybe a little more on the romantic side than the aromantic side, though. Link to post Share on other sites
Salmacis Posted May 22, 2011 Share Posted May 22, 2011 ...And there was me thinking you were talking about bra sizes. Doh! Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted May 22, 2011 Share Posted May 22, 2011 I'm an asexual anonymous aspiring artist! 4A! Does that count? :P Well... apart from that. I am a little curious about something. Do most aromantic asexuals feel they are genderless, genderfluid, pan-gendered or anything outside the gender binary? For some reason, I would be more surprised to hear about aromantic aces who identify with one gender precisely (although I know there are many of them). Link to post Share on other sites
PiF Posted May 22, 2011 Share Posted May 22, 2011 Evevery time I come into Aven there is a new category of asexual..who knew? Link to post Share on other sites
Ayako Posted May 22, 2011 Author Share Posted May 22, 2011 ...And there was me thinking you were talking about bra sizes. Doh! Haha~ You just made my day X3 Link to post Share on other sites
Ayako Posted May 22, 2011 Author Share Posted May 22, 2011 I'm an asexual anonymous aspiring artist! 4A! Does that count? :P Well... apart from that. I am a little curious about something. Do most aromantic asexuals feel they are genderless, genderfluid, pan-gendered or anything outside the gender binary? For some reason, I would be more surprised to hear about aromantic aces who identify with one gender precisely (although I know there are many of them). I don't know the only other Aromantic person I know, in daily life at school, is Trans*...that doesn't help much..I am deeply sorry DX Link to post Share on other sites
Gloom Posted May 23, 2011 Share Posted May 23, 2011 ...And there was me thinking you were talking about bra sizes. Doh! Haha~ You just made my day X3 Yeah, I originally thought that. And then I thought you were talking about batteries. 8) Link to post Share on other sites
Kurai-Tenshi_Niks Posted May 23, 2011 Share Posted May 23, 2011 I'm agendered asexual..bordering on aromantic.. Link to post Share on other sites
Stormy Wether Posted May 23, 2011 Share Posted May 23, 2011 yeah, though I find it difficult to live the agendered part in 3D-land. *hugs cyberspace* Link to post Share on other sites
Kalea Posted May 23, 2011 Share Posted May 23, 2011 I'm definitely asexual, probably aromantic, and agnostic. I am biologically female, and identify as female gendered as well, but that's just because I'm who/what I am and wouldn't know what feeling "male" or anything else would be like. Gender is basically a non-issue for me; I act like myself and really don't care about gender roles or such. Though I've been told I think more like a male than a female, and generally prefer male company to that of females.... I don't know what that "makes" me and I really don't care. Personally, I think gender should be obliterated and biological sex be the only one that matters - if everyone were to act like themselves, rather than act "male" or "female" or whatever, wouldn't that be preferable? Link to post Share on other sites
Laramie Posted May 23, 2011 Share Posted May 23, 2011 Definitely ace, almost certainly aromantic, and possibly agender. I'm still figuring myself out :) (I'm also Atheist. I sometimes think of myself as a-everything but that's kind of a joke ;)) Link to post Share on other sites
PiF Posted May 23, 2011 Share Posted May 23, 2011 is this going to end up like the LGBTQIA where so many create additional groups to the point where the branches of the tree make you forget what the tree was in the first place? Link to post Share on other sites
Laramie Posted May 23, 2011 Share Posted May 23, 2011 I'm not sure that there is a tree. More of a big messy mush of seaweed being buffeted about by the waves. But I see what you mean :lol: Link to post Share on other sites
The Warden Posted May 24, 2011 Share Posted May 24, 2011 That is what my friend called me. Triple A that is X3 Yes I am Agender, Aromantic and Asexual until proven otherwise. :D Link to post Share on other sites
Ayako Posted May 24, 2011 Author Share Posted May 24, 2011 That is what my friend called me. Triple A that is X3 Yes I am Agender, Aromantic and Asexual until proven otherwise. :D I absolutley LOVE your name and picture :D And my friends don't really call me that .___. I'm not out yet as a Triple A Link to post Share on other sites
D.J. Posted May 24, 2011 Share Posted May 24, 2011 aromantic asexual (some times in)agender(mood) does that count? :lol: Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted May 24, 2011 Share Posted May 24, 2011 i am!!! let's see how many a words discribe me- asexual, agendered, androgynous, aromantic, artist, atheist, ( according to several people I know) antisocial, and sometimes annoying! Link to post Share on other sites
crazychick18 Posted May 25, 2011 Share Posted May 25, 2011 I'm more...bigender, but I'm absolutely aromantic and asexual. I'm very female in certain ways-I want to be percieved as female, and I'm a fashion model and love it. I relate to people in a female way-I'm cuddly with my parents (in a completely NON sexual way of course) my best friend is a straight female and we gossip and things, etc. I also played with dolls a lot when I was younger and loved barbies, teddy bears etc. Now for the male side- I used to be obsessed with reptiles when I was younger as well. In fact after my first modeling job when I was 13 I came home, changed clothes, and jumped into the mud after a turtle. I still have one I caught when I was 10 (I'm now 20) I have been known to keep pet snakes, and I'd rather be bitten by one than go shopping. I would still go out hunting reptiles for pets if my mom wouldn't kill me :) I may have a cuddly 7 lb lapdog, but I also feed her a hand-prepared raw meat diet and have eaten raw beef, chicken, and turkey myself before giving it to her when I was nervous it would make her sick. I don't know-if you mean agender like you have characteristics of both, than I guess I am Link to post Share on other sites
Rebuilder Posted May 25, 2011 Share Posted May 25, 2011 Okay, let's put it this way: I am physically male, an I have no intentions to modify that, but I am agendered/genderless on the inside. I often find how my opinions on many sexual cisgendered males of my age (and sometimes other age groups) quite border with disgust. Unfortunately, I absolutely cannot stand many of the male adolescents at my school, as many sexual young men these days are becoming 'over-sexualized', with this 'macho' persona. I am also aromantic and a grey-asexual, and have never had any serious interest in pursuing any form of relations with the opposite gender. Link to post Share on other sites
bromance Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 No... But I'm an Asian Atheist Asexual. Does that count? Link to post Share on other sites
Loosed Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 Sometimes I wonder...but I'm still exploring it. I am definitely asexual. No doubt or question about that. I think I'm agendered. I say "think" because I acknowledge and accept that my body is biologically female. On the other hand, I do not think of myself as female or male. I am not my body, I am not defined by my body. My body is a shell, a vehicle, and what I am transcends gender. I can take up traits of both genders and discard traits of both genders. I am not yet sure if this perspective is an agender-compatible perspective or not, so I am still exploring that. I'm also not sure if I am aromantic or gray-romantic. On one hand, I don't long to have romantic relationships with people...but on the other hand, if I met the right person and we hit it off really well, I definitely would be open to being in a romantic relationship if they reciprocated (I can be...a very touch-prone individual with snuggling, hand-holding, hugs, and so forth). So...yeah. Dunno. *shrug* Link to post Share on other sites
Almagest Posted May 27, 2011 Share Posted May 27, 2011 I think I'm agendered. I say "think" because I acknowledge and accept that my body is biologically female. On the other hand, I do not think of myself as female or male. I am not my body, I am not defined by my body. My body is a shell, a vehicle, and what I am transcends gender. I can take up traits of both genders and discard traits of both genders. I am not yet sure if this perspective is an agender-compatible perspective or not, so I am still exploring that. Actually, that's exactly how I see myself. I'm also not sure if I am aromantic or gray-romantic. On one hand, I don't long to have romantic relationships with people...but on the other hand, if I met the right person and we hit it off really well, I definitely would be open to being in a romantic relationship if they reciprocated (I can be...a very touch-prone individual with snuggling, hand-holding, hugs, and so forth). So...yeah. Dunno. *shrug* Aromantic just means you don't experience romantic attraction. You can still be in a romantic relationship and even fall in love despite a lack of attraction. Aromantic isn't about wanting or not wanting a relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
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