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I wanted to know if a am the only person here on Aven, who is a aromantic nonlibidoist from the beginning. I mean is there are also other persons who doesn´t have romantic feelings, don´t masturbate, don´t have sex, don´t have any interests in partnerships, don´t have any interests in fetishes or porns. And that from the beginning (birth) too the rest of the life. This will sound weird, but I didn´t ever meet a person, except myself who thinks in the same way, because of that, I wanted to ask, if here are people who also think so.

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SciFiCinderella

*raises hand* Never had nor wanted a relationship, think masturbation sounds like a bigger waste of time than actual sex, thought that the odd bit of porn I've stumbled across through no fault of my own was completely and utterly stupid, never had a fetish, and couldn't even tell you what it feels like to have a libido. You are not alone. :lol:

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Not quite, but I'm getting there (oddly, since I don't particularly aim for it). I've always been aromantic and my libido is steadily dying for whatever reason. I reckon at this rate I'll have stopped bothering to masterbate out of old habits by summer.

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Yup.

Would rather clean the cat's litter box than bother with all that useless stuff.

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How do you define "partnership"? Depending on the definition, I might be with you. I've never wanted a really romantic relationship with someone, but I have wanted to be close friends with people. I fit all of the other descriptors.

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Another aromantic with no sex drive who doesn't masturbate here. You are not alone. ;)

When I first found this message board, I was actually pretty surprised with all the different classifications. Never even imagined that there was a difference between romantic and sexual feelings.

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Me, I'm also another aromantic nonlibidoist :P Always have been. Never even tried masturbation (wouldn't know how to do so)

I wanted to know if a am the only person here on Aven

One thing you should know about AVEN, you are never 'the only one', except in very rare circumstances.

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The Great WTF

This will sound odd considering how much I talk about my boyfriend, but I'm pretty sure I fit this category. I've never had an interest in relationships, romance, dating, certainly not sex or masturbation. When I do take an interest in romance, it's for other people, helping them form relationships that I don't really understand, but I do it anyway because it makes them happy. I've endured my best friend being called my boyfriend for so long that we both just started using the title.

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I'm anything but that. Pretty much asexy and everything else is the reverse of that.

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LetTheSunShineIn

I'm not sure if I'm aromantic, but I'm pretty sure that I am. I want to want a relationship, but . . . yeah.

So yes. I would say that this is probably me. I'm definitely a nonlibidoist.

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I'm aro-ace, and my libido is practically nonexistent. No masturbating, no porn, no fetishes. I've fantasized maybe three times, each about letting someone touch (not massage/caress/whatever, just touch) my boobs or (nonexistent outside of my mind) penis, and those thoughts got very boring after about five minutes. So yeah, I'd say I'm a nonlibidoist XD

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*Starfish*

I wanted to know if a am the only person here on Aven, who is a aromantic nonlibidoist from the beginning. I mean is there are also other persons who doesn´t have romantic feelings, don´t masturbate, don´t have sex, don´t have any interests in partnerships, don´t have any interests in fetishes or porns. And that from the beginning (birth) too the rest of the life. This will sound weird, but I didn´t ever meet a person, except myself who thinks in the same way, because of that, I wanted to ask, if here are people who also think so.

You are definitely not the only one

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How do you define "partnership"? Depending on the definition, I might be with you. I've never wanted a really romantic relationship with someone, but I have wanted to be close friends with people. I fit all of the other descriptors.

I want friends, a romantic/sexual partnership is completly different thing than friendship.

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I wanted to know if a am the only person here on Aven, who is a aromantic nonlibidoist from the beginning. I mean is there are also other persons who doesn´t have romantic feelings, don´t masturbate, don´t have sex, don´t have any interests in partnerships, don´t have any interests in fetishes or porns. And that from the beginning (birth) too the rest of the life. This will sound weird, but I didn´t ever meet a person, except myself who thinks in the same way, because of that, I wanted to ask, if here are people who also think so.

I am a Nonlibidoist Aromantic Repulsed Asexual and I've been like that since day one. I've never had romantic feelings, I don't masturbate, I don't have sex, I am not interested in partnerships, and I have no interest in fetishes or porn of any type. I am sure there are more people like you and me on this site, so you are not the only person. :)

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