Members Questioning

17915 topics in this forum

1. How do I stop outing myself at ace when someone asks me to do something I don't want to?

   By Meatballhead, January 30
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   • Olallieberry
   • January 31

2. Where's the line between sensual and sexual attraction?

   By RustyCamo, January 29
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   • Sarah-Sylvia
   • January 30

3. confused about where i stand in this

   By forelude, January 28
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   • FitzyFitz
   • January 29

4. Trying to figure things out

   By doctormom, January 29
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   • uhtred
   • January 29

5. Aromantic label seems more appropriate lately, still confused about the rest

   By Ancient soul, January 28
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   • Ancient soul
   • January 28

6. is this wierd?

   By Makiducky, January 24
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   • Kroete
   • January 28

7. Trying To Figure Out What I Am

   By TheSimpleEevee, January 25
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   • 330 views
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   • Kroete
   • January 28

8. Complicated Identity Issues

   By flowerpetals, January 28
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   • flowerpetals
   • January 28

9. Long-ish post: Complex identity advice. 1 2

   By nep, January 18
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   • blueNeil
   • January 27

10. asexuality or just confused/inexperienced?

    By gene654, January 17
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    • apricotulip
    • January 25

11. Asexual or Not ?

    By Megamob, January 21
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    • LeChat
    • January 21

12. Annyone else hates the feeling of being aroused?

    By SoraRoxas12, November 29, 2016
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    • jay williams
    • January 21

13. Getting flustered-sexual attraction without sexual desire?

    By Frendo, January 19
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    • uhtred
    • January 19

14. Sex repulsed? Wanting control? What?

    By othered wren, January 17
    • 6 replies
    • 351 views
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    • othered wren
    • January 19

15. Anyone else unable to fantasize about anyone or anything? 1 2 3

    By Kiraisboring, June 26, 2019
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    • Theoryal
    • January 19

16. best dating apps for aces?

    By sanremi52890, January 18
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    • rubyBlueberries
    • January 18

17. I used to desire sex, I haven’t in a long time. Am I Ace?

    By rat.bastard, January 17
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    • LeChat
    • January 18

18. Am I on the asexual spectrum?

    By Elly.emm, January 16
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    • MoraDollie
    • January 17

19. interest and liking of genitals?

    By binary suns, April 19, 2023
    • 15 replies
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    • nessieac
    • January 16

20. Who is still questioning where they are on the Ace spectrum?

    By PotatoWithLegs18, November 25, 2019
    • 11 replies
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    • FlyingKai
    • January 15

21. I might to be asexual?

    By jesus dario, January 9
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    • Hurta
    • January 14

22. Is my understand of lithosexual correct? 1 2

    By Kaira Aitken, December 7, 2018
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    • ro482628
    • January 14

23. need some advice:)

    By ch5dh9hd, January 13
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    • arco_iris
    • January 13

24. [TERTIARY ATTRACTION] Do long sleeve T-shirts and shorts in women count as fetish?

    By M96-80 KENNY, January 4
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    • M96-80 KENNY
    • January 11

25. Lack of desire vs insecurities

    By mielkki, January 9
    • 4 replies
    • 341 views
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    • cauliSunflower
    • January 9