Asexual Musings and Rantings

20517 topics in this forum

1. Marriage normativity, "immaturity" shaming and asexuality as an alternative lifestyle

   By everywhere and nowhere, April 1
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   • MarRister
   • April 4

2. Do I like girls?

   By VentiCoffe3, April 3
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   • Frameshift07
   • April 4

3. Do other asexuals have an acedar like how homosexuals have a gaydar?

   By Tynan Laird, March 23
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   • pointycatears
   • April 3

4. Someone that can explain the lore behind the customary welcome cake to me?

   By WhiteCatandcherries, April 1
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   • LeChat
   • April 1

5. Why is the white stripe in the ace pride flag for "sexuals"? 1 2

   By Kroete, February 18
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   • Frameshift07
   • April 1

6. Ranting About My Mom

   By Nana13, March 22
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   • emi00PM
   • April 1

7. Does anyone only experiences arousal towards the gender they're romantically interested in, and if yes, it's not everyone in that gender group, no?

   By KaiFive, March 28
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   • Lilihierax
   • March 30

8. OCD and asexuality

   By lassitude, March 29
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   • Network_Apparition
   • March 29

9. Problems/ annoyances when Coming out as asexual- possibly a grey ace

   By Others like me, March 27
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   • cat_lady
   • March 28

10. Being a formerly gay identified ace man, lack of ace male perception

    By Annatar, March 26
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    • Annatar
    • March 27

11. Told my crush I liked him

    By WritingMyColours, March 25
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    • WritingMyColours
    • March 26

12. Are our attitudes to sex societal or innate?

    By Dandelionsoup, March 24
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    • Svenni
    • March 25

13. My sabbatical review

    By Perin, March 23
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    • thebluestskye
    • March 23

14. Family desperately wants me to get married

    By MaryInTheMists, November 25, 2023
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    • Fishandplants
    • March 21

15. Fear of sex unless I'm completely in control

    By othered wren, March 20
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    • uhtred
    • March 21

16. Writing AroAce Characters

    By Yuuki_F, June 7, 2022
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    • Sileas
    • March 21

17. Anyone feel guilty for being ace + having a fetish?

    By aiba, March 11
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    • Tynan Laird
    • March 21

18. Aces Wild (Book Discussion)

    By VentiCoffe3, March 7
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    • oops_eddie
    • March 20

19. dreamt about ex, now i'm sad

    By Lulu48, March 19
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    • aafire
    • March 20

20. appreciate this community

    By ferberus, March 19
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    • TormentDubz
    • March 19

21. Super duper intimate bromance or overlooked romance???

    By Duno, March 18
    • 3 replies
    • 154 views
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    • Monke Jimmy
    • March 19

22. you know what would be really funny?

    By aroace potato, February 11
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    • Mult
    • March 15

23. Does anyone else feel ashamed about sex?

    By waterwraithx, March 14
    • 4 replies
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    • waterwraithx
    • March 14

24. My asexuality feels like a "two-bladed sword"

    By M96-80 KENNY, March 13
    • 0 replies
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    • M96-80 KENNY
    • March 13

25. Asexual Art and Activism (looking for help!)

    By Jamie L, March 10
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    • what the face
    • March 11