Asexual Musings and Rantings

20515 topics in this forum

1. Do other asexuals have an acedar like how homosexuals have a gaydar?

   By Tynan Laird, March 23
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   • pointycatears
   • April 3

2. Someone that can explain the lore behind the customary welcome cake to me?

   By WhiteCatandcherries, April 1
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   • LeChat
   • April 1

3. Why is the white stripe in the ace pride flag for "sexuals"? 1 2

   By Kroete, February 18
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   • Frameshift07
   • April 1

4. Ranting About My Mom

   By Nana13, March 22
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   • emi00PM
   • April 1

5. Does anyone only experiences arousal towards the gender they're romantically interested in, and if yes, it's not everyone in that gender group, no?

   By KaiFive, March 28
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   • Lilihierax
   • March 30

6. OCD and asexuality

   By lassitude, March 29
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   • Network_Apparition
   • March 29

7. Problems/ annoyances when Coming out as asexual- possibly a grey ace

   By Others like me, March 27
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   • cat_lady
   • March 28

8. Being a formerly gay identified ace man, lack of ace male perception

   By Annatar, March 26
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   • Annatar
   • March 27

9. Told my crush I liked him

   By WritingMyColours, March 25
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   • WritingMyColours
   • March 26

10. Are our attitudes to sex societal or innate?

    By Dandelionsoup, March 24
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    • Svenni
    • March 25

11. My sabbatical review

    By Perin, March 23
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    • thebluestskye
    • March 23

12. Family desperately wants me to get married

    By MaryInTheMists, November 25, 2023
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    • Fishandplants
    • March 21

13. Fear of sex unless I'm completely in control

    By othered wren, March 20
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    • uhtred
    • March 21

14. Writing AroAce Characters

    By Yuuki_F, June 7, 2022
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    • Sileas
    • March 21

15. Anyone feel guilty for being ace + having a fetish?

    By aiba, March 11
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    • Tynan Laird
    • March 21

16. Aces Wild (Book Discussion)

    By VentiCoffe3, March 7
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    • oops_eddie
    • March 20

17. dreamt about ex, now i'm sad

    By Lulu48, March 19
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    • aafire
    • March 20

18. appreciate this community

    By ferberus, March 19
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    • TormentDubz
    • March 19

19. Super duper intimate bromance or overlooked romance???

    By Duno, March 18
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    • Monke Jimmy
    • March 19

20. you know what would be really funny?

    By aroace potato, February 11
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    • Mult
    • March 15

21. Does anyone else feel ashamed about sex?

    By waterwraithx, March 14
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    • waterwraithx
    • March 14

22. My asexuality feels like a "two-bladed sword"

    By M96-80 KENNY, March 13
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    • M96-80 KENNY
    • March 13

23. Asexual Art and Activism (looking for help!)

    By Jamie L, March 10
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    • what the face
    • March 11

24. The Misconceptions and Realities of Aromantic and Asexual Life - a personal story 

    By Andie Leonie Howard, March 8
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    • merganser
    • March 10

25. Sexual Pachinko

    By merganser, March 6
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    • merganser
    • March 7