I would still say that it varies... at least if we should treat this topic seriously, because it has a bit of that aura of... I don't remember the names, but someone, yet in the early 90s, I think, trolling cultural studies by producing an intellectual-sounding, but essentially meaningless essay using their jargon. Anyway, I have an impression that for sex-averse asexuals, asexuality may often be easier to recognise. Our feelings are unmistakeable: fear and repulsion in place of that overwhelming desire we are "supposed" to feel. (That said, this too might easily be dismissed by others as "You