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hiii wassup cut my hair myself yesterday messed up on the bangs and slightly in the back but otherwise a slay it make me look like Sam Winchester tho💀 especially w this outfit

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To be fair, it was very easy to read your comment that way (specifically, the amount of emphasis on the allo partner's suffering and not thinking much about how the ace partner feels trying to navigate an allo world that largely blames them for relationship problems). Additionally, even if someone knows they're ace, they may avoid coming out to anyone for the sake of their own safety, and although the partner matters, it is ultimately up to them in the end to decide if it's worth coming out. Before all, put yourself in the shoes of someone who is asexual and understand why they might make the

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Ha, no it's nothing, and I am just being cautious (incels bad) That makes sense. I may (just maybe) be about to meet my sorta imaginary gf for the first time in a while, so wish me luck asexuals, even-though they are very pretty lol

A bit late coming to this, but I'll mention that witnessing a total solar eclipse is the closest experience any of us will ever have in being immersed in an alien world. A partial eclipse is nothing compared to it. I'm lucky to have been through two of them, because I'm old. I watched a fifty-mile long chain of snowy mountains completely disappear into an oncoming dark void, then it washed over me and I was completely blind in darkness for a few seconds. Then my eyes adjusted, and I was in a weird place that my mind couldn't even have imagined. The wind was cold, the stars were out overhead,

I am so sorry!! I did not specify that it was actually people on the internet who told me that my requirement was an unreasonable thing to expect from a relationship. He personally did not say that to me. It's just that mentally I can't handle all that lust as a healthy impulse in a male allosexual partner. It makes me feel like I'm constantly competing with these other women. I cannot empathize with his constant attraction to others and I feel like the only way there is for me to feel secure in a relationship is to be with someone who is the same as me in this regard :/

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Most likely. I bet they saw it and just did not give a crap. It's hard to unscrew old pipes out of these radiators. I did all that work for nothing 😩

They could have been functionally illiterate, I guess. I don't see what you could do about it short of supervising them in person.

This comes from incompatibility. I don't think it's even about a sexual-demisexual mis-match at all. He's telling you that, according to what he personally wants and expects from a relationship, it's unreasonable not to have this. It's up to you whether to play along with satisfying his requirement. And he's being a dick about it. Maybe that's another source of incompatibility. It's another thing which - it's up to you to decide whether to play along with it or not.

I have a very low libido, I never masturbate, but I do want sex with him because it helps create intimacy, I view it as a spiritual experience. I don't really care about pleasure. I am in the mood only when he is too. I give him all the sex he wants but it's not like I feel pressured into it, I really just like feeling close to him. To answer the other question, he definitely cares about how I feel and he tries to make an effort but of course he can't help it. The wandering eyes will always be a problem because it's just his nature and he can't change that. And then I ask myself, do

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Hi! I'm new here, but glad to be here.

I don't think they would understand birthdays. So, it's pointless in my opinion. All I can do is tell them I love them, and that's it.

I see two different possible issues here. You describe yourself as demi-sexual, is that compatible with your partner's sexuality, or is there a difference in interest / desire for sex that is a source of tension. Separately, his wandering eyes are bothering you - as they would bother many women. Most people are able to see an attractive person but not let it completely disrupt their thinking, especially if they are with their romantic partner at the time. Do you think he is making an effort not to be distracted, but is unable to control it, or do you think he doesn't care abo

Hi guys 😅 I'm gonna be 28 this year, so I'm just chiming in as well... Getting older and learning more about myself has been eye opening...alot of the thoughts, goals, and issues that I had when I was younger have either disappeared or changed altogether now. For example, ten years ago, I thought that I wanted a really romantic relationship...like the stuff you'd see in romantic movies and shows. Just without the sex... But after ACTUALLY experiencing that kind of relationship...I realized that what I wanted wasn't the romance in the relationship, but the companion

I've seen some articles where someone says how much they enjoyed the lockdown because they could work from home and didn't have to deal with people too much. I know nobody likes offices, especially open offices, but fucking hell, consider how privileged you were to have a job where you could work from home and the fact that people were dying at the same time.

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What constitutes a party? Can there be only 2-3 guests, or maybe even just you and your pet? I've celebrated pet birthdays with family and my best friend when I was a kid, and with my ex-husband, and also just alone with the pet in question lol. But I'm not decorating my home and sending out invitations and hiring a DJ. Which I never do in general anyway cos I don't like parties and I don't like people in my space.