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Am I the only one?

By Mandrewliter

At least since high school, I’ve been aware that I was sexually different from my peers. I don’t know if there was a first moment when I realized this, but I have a few memories that stand out. Once I was riding on a bus with a few other male students. The conversation turned to a topic many asexuals have come to dread: “Who do you think is hot?” Before this point, I had never been in such a conversation before. I had been asked who I liked, but I could answer that because I did occasionally get crushes on girls, which usually lasted a while. One of the guys on the bus answered the question, talking about this one girl. One of the other boys teased him about how he liked her. But he responded that he didn’t like her; he just thought she was hot. I was taken aback by this distinction. Everyone else understood it, but this meant that there was this experience of thinking someone was hot entirely separate from liking them that I had never felt. When it was my turn to answer the question, I said I didn’t think anyone was hot. No one believed me.

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Asexual Perspectives

Opening the door to self-discovery

By ~Acer~

As humans, we are in general a social species, programmed to support each other in family units and communities and it seems often mob rule dictates what is normal, expected or acceptable behaviour. Especially in a modern society where the media projects these ideas into every facet of our lives, we are now educated very early on as to how life apparently is. No matter what our true feelings inside, we may now attempt to adhere to the ‘rules’ that we have collectively set ourselves.

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Digest for 5th - 12th April 2021

Site News:

New moderators are needed. Nominations are now being taken.

International Asexuality Day:

Catch up on last week's IAD events on the official YouTube channel.

Requests:

The Ace Interviews project is looking for volunteers to help with tasks such as editing and promotion.

A student is looking for participants for an ace magazine project.

A content creator team is gauging interest in resources that explore asexual and autistic perspectives.

Visibility:

A current campaign proposes to introduce more Pride flag emojis, including asexual and aromantic flags.

World Watch:

India's ANI news website looks at Garima Kaul's 2020 film on asexuality, 'Desire?'.

YouTube channel Psych2Go deals with ten misconceptions about asexuality.

The Kathmandu Post explores asexuality in Nepal.

Insider examines what it's like to be asexual.

Newsweek reports on the first ever International Asexuality Day.

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