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Welcome to the Asexual Visibility and Education Network. AVEN hosts the world's largest online asexual community as well as a large archive of resources on asexuality. AVEN strives to create open, honest discussion about asexuality among sexual and asexual people alike.

Unlike celibacy, which is a choice, asexuality is a sexual orientation. Asexual people have the same emotional needs as everybody else and are just as capable of forming intimate relationships. To find out more about asexuality, click here. For media and speaking requests please contact aven.pt@gmail.com.

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NEW! (Sept 2016) Academics, therapists and sexuality educators call for inclusion of asexuality in the UK 2021 census!

Recently, the Office of National Statistics held a consultation with LGBTQ activists, academics and therapists on the proposed addition of a sexual identity question in the 2021 UK census, at which it was argued that asexuality should be included as a sexual identity. Now, a group of sexuality researchers and educators have released an open letter supporting the inclusion of asexuality in the census.

To whom it may concern,

We, as social scientists, therapists and educators, all involved in sexuality and gender research, are writing to support the inclusion of asexuality in any question concerning sexual identity in the 2021 UK census.

Asexuality is a sexual orientation characterised by a lack of sexual attraction to people of any gender[1]. Despite being a potentially widespread and prevalent phenomenon, asexuality has suffered from a lack of visibility and awareness, partly due to a lack of data. The best known figure at present suggests that around one percent of the population is asexual[2]. Therefore, it is most likely that the best part of a million British residents are asexual, yet we have almost no data that sheds light on the causes of asexuality, its correlates, or the implications of identifying as asexual.

Despite the low visibility, asexuality has made enormous strides in recent years and is now an accepted term in popular culture. The BBC, the Guardian, and the Times, among others, have all published articles featuring asexuality, and other articles featuring asexuality around the world are appearing in the mainstream media. Many campus groups up and down the UK and beyond include asexuality in their Pride awareness campaigns, and, as of 2012, the National Union of Students LGBT+ campaign includes asexuality. The best known asexual online community and forum - the Asexual Visibility and Education Network, founded in 2001 - boasts over 100,000 members worldwide.

Researchers are increasingly responding to a need to investigate asexual identity-formations, and an increasing amount of professionals already include results of this research into their work. We have benefited from the demographic data which is available, but, as noted above, that data is limited in its scope. Indeed, most policy and other decisions relating to asexuality are made on the basis of the small amount of data and studies available.

As researchers and policymakers, we need good data to understand the special needs, if any, that asexual people have. There is evidence that asexuality might be more likely to be represented among individuals on the autism spectrum, and/or experiencing Asperger's disorder, for example, and data showing that asexuals face discrimination and stigma. There are also conflicting data showing a relationship between asexuality and gender dysphoria, and possibly higher rates of depression than in the non-asexual population. More good data would allow us to investigate and formulate policy around everyday problems that asexual people may face - or even to conclude that no changes are needed, if that is indeed the case.

No study of this size has ever before been attempted on a national scale. We believe that having data on this scale would, as noted above, be invaluable for research and policy purposes. In addition, this undertaking would undoubtedly make the UK a world leader in contributing to the understanding of this phenomenon and furthering our understanding of diversity.

We believe that including asexuality in any question on sexual identity on the census would not only validate the experience of asexual people and challenge the social assumption that all humans experience sexual attraction, but would also offer researchers an invaluable opportunity to gain further insights into this sexual identity. For this reason, and the reasons noted above, we therefore support, and request, the inclusion of asexuality in any question concerning sexual identity in the 2021 UK census.

Footnotes:

[1] Prause & Graham 2007; Bogaert 2015 [2] Wellings et al. (NATSAL) 1994; Bogaert, 2004

Yours sincerely,

Meg-John Barker, PhD Senior Lecturer in Psychology, The Open University

Anthony Bogaert, PhD Professor of Applied Health Sciences Brock University

Lori Brotto, PhD Professor in the Faculty of Medicine, Department of Obstetrics & Gynaecology The University of British Columbia Executive Director, Women's Health Research Institute and Canada Research Chair in Women's Sexual Health

Gavin Brown, PhD Associate Professor in Human Geography Department of Geography, University of Leicester,

Professor Katherine Browne Professor of Human Geography University of Brighton

Mark Carrigan, PhD Research fellow, Department of Sociology University of Warwick

Karen Cuthbert, MA MRes Doctoral Researcher Sociology University of Glasgow

Matt Dawson, PhD Lecturer in Sociology University of Glasgow.

Joseph DeLappe Doctoral Candidate Faculty of Education and Language Studies The Open University

Nick McGlynn, PhD Research Fellow, University of Brighton.

Nina Nouripanah Doctoral Student (DPsych Existential Phenomenological Counselling Psychology) Regent's University London

Nicole Prause, Ph.D. Research: www.span-lab.com Liberos LLC: www.liberoscenter.com

Joanna Russell, MSc (Advanced Practice) MBACP(Accred) Accredited Sexual Diversity Therapist (Pink Therapy)

Jasper Williams National Union of Students, Wales LGBT+ Officer and sexuality educator

Morag Yule, PhD Dept of Clinical Psychology University of British Columbia

If you are a sexuality researcher, educator or therapist and would like to add your name to the open letter, please contact the AVEN Project Team (info@asexuality.org) and we will put you in touch. For more information, visit www.asexuality.org, www.asexualawarenessweek.com or write to press@asexuality.org for general information and media requests.

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Asexual Perspectives

Opening the door to self-discovery

By ~Acer~

As humans, we are in general a social species, programmed to support each other in family units and communities and it seems often mob rule dictates what is normal, expected or acceptable behaviour. Especially in a modern society where the media projects these ideas into every facet of our lives, we are now educated very early on as to how life apparently is. No matter what our true feelings inside, we may now attempt to adhere to the ‘rules’ that we have collectively set ourselves.

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Digest for 27th June - 4th July 2016

Announcement:

AVEN has been informed of the sad news of the death of one of our members, Shockwave (aka Hound).

Site News:

Serran and OptimisticPessimist have been elected as moderators.

The July/August issue of AVENues is now available to view.

Visibility:

This year's Asexual Awareness Week will take place from 23rd-29th October.

An asexual memoir is being released for free on Amazon.

Asexuals recently marched in Oslo Pride in Norway.

Asexuals in Mexico have been sharing some of their visibility work.

Community:

A new asexuality zine has been published.

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