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With me it is mostly B, but sometimes D and a few times A. But because I find masturbation unsatisfying, boring and hollow I intend never to do it again. Though I expect I will. But I want to be free of the habit.

i want to be free too.

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With me it is mostly B, but sometimes D and a few times A. But because I find masturbation unsatisfying, boring and hollow I intend never to do it again. Though I expect I will. But I want to be free of the habit.

i want to be free too.

Me too! :(

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Very definately B I concur with those who said they want to be free of the habit. Every so often anywhere from a few times a day(rare) to a couple wks apart I'll get hit by an undefined "distraction" that I know will go away if I take care of business. I can't say I derive any pleasure from doing it, but when I'm done I can go back to what I was doing without any further distraction.

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A and B. I don't seek it out, I guess, generally. Mainly, there's a feeling there, and I go take care of it, and I enjoy doing so.

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BIRDSBOROJOHN

I HAVE A QUESTION, I KNOW YOU ALL HAVE HEARD SOME OF THIS, PLEASE BARE WITH ME:

WHEN I WAS YOUNGER, 6 OR7 I KNEW I WAS DIFFERENT. I WASNT SURE WHY BUT I DO REMEMBER HAVING A CRUSH ON MY FRIEND KEVIN. ANYWAY I WAS TEASED ALOT IN SCHOOL FOR BEING GAY, I WAS ALWAYS FIGHTING AFTER SCHOOL. AS I GREW I THOUGHT I WAS GAY AND SO I DATED GUYS, BUT IT NEVER FELT RIGHT, SOME THING WAS WRONG BUT I COULDNT PUT MY FINGER ON IT. SO I STARTED DATING GIRLS AND AGAIN IT DID NOT FEEL RIGHT, I WAS NOT COMFORTABLE AT ALL. IALSO HAPPEN TO BE A DIABETIC, AND THUS HAD SEVERE NERVE DAMAGE TO MY GENATALS. IF I WANTED TO BE WITH SOMEONE I COULDNT, BUT MORE THAN THAT I LOST ALL SEXUAL DESIRE! ALL, NOW I CAN, AND DO ADMIRE BOTH BEUATIFUL WOMEN AND CUTE GUYS. ANYWAY I HAVE NEVER FELT SO CONTINTED BEFORE IN MY LIFE, THIS SOMEHOW FEELS RIGHT TO ME. LIKE I FOUND MYSELF. I NO LONGER WANT ANY SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS. HOWEVER I WOULD LOVE TO MEET SOMEONE TO SHARE MY LIFE WITH ME WITH OUT THE PRESSURE OF SEX. I MISS THE EMOTIONAL INTAMISCY, PLEASE FORGIVE THE SPELLING, THE THING I MISS IS KNOWING SOMEONE, KNOWING THIER MOOD FROM A LOOK FROM ACROSS THE ROOM. YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN I HOPE. I WOULD APPRICIATE ANY ONES SUGGESTION OR EDUCATED GUESS. MY EMAIL ADDRESS IS BIRDSBOROJOHN@AOL.COM

THANK YOU.

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Definately for any male, you should clean the pipes every once and a while for health reasons. It helps prevent prostate cancer

Several years ago I had a rather painful urinary tract infection. The urologist asked me how often I had an ejaculation. I told him maybe once a month. His eyebrows went way up, and he told me that at my age I should have two or three per week.

BTW... my answer is B. At least, B is the closest match. Every once in a long while the physical urge builds up to the point that it needs to be released. Once it's done, I'm good for another long while. It's entirely physiological.

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Am fairly new to this Group but my answer is I am a definite A, which seems to put me in the minority catagory? I am slightly puzzled why some respondents to this question do seem to express shame or possibly guilt about doing it?

I do not quite understand why? The issue surely is whether doing it makes you more or less asexual? My belief is as being asexual means not sharing your bed with another person and not having any desire for intercourse with another person? So enjoying masturbation nightly is surely not a factor one way or the other?

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I HAVE A QUESTION' date=' I KNOW YOU ALL HAVE HEARD SOME OF THIS, PLEASE BARE WITH ME:

WHEN I WAS YOUNGER, 6 OR7 I KNEW I WAS DIFFERENT. I WASNT SURE WHY BUT I DO REMEMBER HAVING A CRUSH ON MY FRIEND KEVIN. ANYWAY I WAS TEASED ALOT IN SCHOOL FOR BEING GAY, I WAS ALWAYS FIGHTING AFTER SCHOOL. AS I GREW I THOUGHT I WAS GAY AND SO I DATED GUYS, BUT IT NEVER FELT RIGHT, SOME THING WAS WRONG BUT I COULDNT PUT MY FINGER ON IT. SO I STARTED DATING GIRLS AND AGAIN IT DID NOT FEEL RIGHT, I WAS NOT COMFORTABLE AT ALL. IALSO HAPPEN TO BE A DIABETIC, AND THUS HAD SEVERE NERVE DAMAGE TO MY GENATALS. IF I WANTED TO BE WITH SOMEONE I COULDNT, BUT MORE THAN THAT I LOST ALL SEXUAL DESIRE! ALL, NOW I CAN, AND DO ADMIRE BOTH BEUATIFUL WOMEN AND CUTE GUYS. ANYWAY I HAVE NEVER FELT SO CONTINTED BEFORE IN MY LIFE, THIS SOMEHOW FEELS RIGHT TO ME. LIKE I FOUND MYSELF. I NO LONGER WANT ANY SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS. HOWEVER I WOULD LOVE TO MEET SOMEONE TO SHARE MY LIFE WITH ME WITH OUT THE PRESSURE OF SEX. I MISS THE EMOTIONAL INTAMISCY, PLEASE FORGIVE THE SPELLING, THE THING I MISS IS KNOWING SOMEONE, KNOWING THIER MOOD FROM A LOOK FROM ACROSS THE ROOM. YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN I HOPE. I WOULD APPRICIATE ANY ONES SUGGESTION OR EDUCATED GUESS. MY EMAIL ADDRESS IS BIRDSBOROJOHN@AOL.COM

THANK YOU.[list']

It's just my opinion but all caps looks boring and makes people take you less serious.

There's a forum you must visit in particular. It's the meet-up forum, I think. If meeting an asexual is your goal.

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I HAVE A QUESTION' date=' I KNOW YOU ALL HAVE HEARD SOME OF THIS, PLEASE BARE WITH ME:

WHEN I WAS YOUNGER, 6 OR7 I KNEW I WAS DIFFERENT. I WASNT SURE WHY BUT I DO REMEMBER HAVING A CRUSH ON MY FRIEND KEVIN. ANYWAY I WAS TEASED ALOT IN SCHOOL FOR BEING GAY, I WAS ALWAYS FIGHTING AFTER SCHOOL. AS I GREW I THOUGHT I WAS GAY AND SO I DATED GUYS, BUT IT NEVER FELT RIGHT, SOME THING WAS WRONG BUT I COULDNT PUT MY FINGER ON IT. SO I STARTED DATING GIRLS AND AGAIN IT DID NOT FEEL RIGHT, I WAS NOT COMFORTABLE AT ALL. IALSO HAPPEN TO BE A DIABETIC, AND THUS HAD SEVERE NERVE DAMAGE TO MY GENATALS. IF I WANTED TO BE WITH SOMEONE I COULDNT, BUT MORE THAN THAT I LOST ALL SEXUAL DESIRE! ALL, NOW I CAN, AND DO ADMIRE BOTH BEUATIFUL WOMEN AND CUTE GUYS. ANYWAY I HAVE NEVER FELT SO CONTINTED BEFORE IN MY LIFE, THIS SOMEHOW FEELS RIGHT TO ME. LIKE I FOUND MYSELF. I NO LONGER WANT ANY SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS. HOWEVER I WOULD LOVE TO MEET SOMEONE TO SHARE MY LIFE WITH ME WITH OUT THE PRESSURE OF SEX. I MISS THE EMOTIONAL INTAMISCY, PLEASE FORGIVE THE SPELLING, THE THING I MISS IS KNOWING SOMEONE, KNOWING THIER MOOD FROM A LOOK FROM ACROSS THE ROOM. YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN I HOPE. I WOULD APPRICIATE ANY ONES SUGGESTION OR EDUCATED GUESS. MY EMAIL ADDRESS IS BIRDSBOROJOHN@AOL.COM

THANK YOU.[list']

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I can't see the pictures. :(

I right-clicked and said 'view image', they showed up after that.

Spock: *snerk* Do you happen to have the link to that site?

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A is my main reason, but I find that A and B overlap a lot. Relieving tension is in itself a satisfying thing to do. I'm much more inclined to seek that particular pleasure when I am aroused, but sometimes I do it just because it's nice.

TMI to follow

I don't know about others, but my for me sexual stimulation doesn't always start in the genitals. I love stroking my belly and sides - a delicious sensual feeling, and it often translates to genital arousal. As I can cause some kind of contraction and spasm in the pelvic muscles just by tensing my thighs, or even just by contracting deliberately, I don't have to touch my genitals at all to become aroused and release that tension. Does this count as masturbation?

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I just do it to avoid getting into a sexual relationship. Let off the pressure,and there's no need to bother.

What's interesting,is the less I prioritize desire as important,the less I have.

And the happier I am,since the energy can then be put to better purposes.

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Sometimes A, sometimes B.

It can be really annoying at times, and it can be pleasureable at other times as well. In general, it rates as more of a nuisance though.

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What turns me on?

Well, bondage doesn't do it.

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Nor does role-playing:

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Or spankin' for that matter:

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Nor battery-operated gadgets:

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But still nothin'. Nope, I'm a good girl:

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Sometimes B for me, but mostly A. I separated it from sex a long time ago. It's just something that feels good. I don't fantasize about anything sexual when I'm masturbating.

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I'm stuck with the habit. Now I just do it to get to sleep at night. I can't sleep because each night I feel like it's unfinished so I jerk-off and then fall asleep. I don't think of actually having sex while doing this. Though I do often put a picture in my head of a fully clothed woman. I find porn really gross btw.

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Occasionally A

Not very often.

Although it does help you get to sleep sometimes o.O

Torgo, that picture brought tears to my eyes. Thank you SO mucj XD

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