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Question for A's who masturbate

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CorruptDictatorNumber2   
CorruptDictatorNumber2

I don't know why this question popped into my head, but suddenly I feel like I need to know the answer. I hope you'll all forgive me for asking something so personal--I only do it because I know there are a lot of people who are open about this topic. For those A's who masturbate--why do you do it? Is it...

A. because you like to and want to

B. because it's the most effective way of getting rid of physical arousal

C. because of health reasons

D. because although you have neither the want nor the need, you feel somehow like you should be doing it

E. you don't want to be asexual (okay, I'm kind of reaching here)

or a combination thereof? Or none of the above?

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Cate Perfect   
Cate Perfect

Usually it's B. About once a year it's A.

Cate

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Rawphish   
Rawphish

Definately for any male, you should clean the pipes every once and a while for health reasons. It helps prevent prostate cancer

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Dargon   
Dargon

B for me. Though through it I take care of C as well.

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Zacher   
Zacher

Hiya, new to this and this is a good question. I personally do the thang nearly every night. Mostly because it helps releave tension in general and will put me in a sleepy mood. I guess being male it is a good practise, so C is an excellent answer as well. But is to much to much?

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Mycolicious   
Mycolicious

A.

I like it and want to do it, but I can't associate it with sex. o.O

As I said somewhere else one time, I mastrubate, because it's fun, like playing video games.

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honeyandthemoon   
honeyandthemoon

I suppose a little of A, but mostly B. There are 2-3 days a month when my hormones act funny, so I'll do it then, and once in a while at other times if I'm very bored or can't fall asleep.

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Yoda   
Yoda

A and B really, and that helps take care of C too

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Shion   
Shion

i guess A. but even so its sorta rare....compare to people i know.

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TheSMMG   
TheSMMG

A - and usually do so about once a week, getting a lot of enjoyment out of it.

However, the only way I can do this - or get aroused to this level at all for that matter - is by indulging in a fetish. Merely interfering with my bits and pieces has no effect at all.

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Live R Perfect   
Live R Perfect

Very occasionally, B. Even more rarely, A.

Having just read a few reports about the links between regular ejaculation and a decreased risk of prostate cancer, I'm thinking that I ought to start considering C.

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Yoda   
Yoda
A - and usually do so about once a week, getting a lot of enjoyment out of it.

However, the only way I can do this - or get aroused to this level at all for that matter - is by indulging in a fetish. Merely interfering with my bits and pieces has no effect at all.

I can identify with that. I can't just sit there and have fun :lol:

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Amcan   
Amcan

Mix of A and B but I find there's only certain things that will get me aroused (and porn ain't one of them).

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kbrd143   
kbrd143

C, generally.

Occasionally, yep, A.

But mostly C.

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(SP)   
(SP)
Definately for any male, you should clean the pipes every once and a while for health reasons. It helps prevent prostate cancer

I 'm going to have the biggest chunk of prostate cancer one day.

The cancer blob will later come to life and talk to me about how it's just misunderstood though.

When I have I guess A....

But not in the traditional way....

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bard of aven   
bard of aven

AAA.

boa

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Jesh   
Jesh

Almost always B. Maybe once or twice a year it's A.

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Rawphish   
Rawphish
Hiya, new to this and this is a good question. I personally do the thang nearly every night. Mostly because it helps releave tension in general and will put me in a sleepy mood. I guess being male it is a good practise, so C is an excellent answer as well. But is to much to much?

So true about needing a nap afterwards

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LonePiper   
LonePiper

It's mainly B but to a lesser extent its also A and C. I find if I don't do it every so often I get sort of pains in my bits.

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honeyandthemoon   
honeyandthemoon
...I've found that I lose "physical arousal" when thinking of any sort of interaction, whether between two others or between me and someone else, especially when I know the person. Because I remain aroused when fantasizing about the shape of a person (usually female, never genitalia of either) makes me feel like I fit in most with asexuality but not completely... it still describes me best, though. So, whatever :)

Can anyone relate?

Yes, I can relate! For instance, I collect some fashion/design magazines, and I can get turned on by some of the pictures of fully or mostly clothed female models. Like you said, the shape of a person. Porn, on the other hand, just makes me want to throw up...

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Hexpiral   
Hexpiral

A.

And I also like the shape of people more than porn (though I don't find it disgusting, just merely distasteful).

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Cate Perfect   
Cate Perfect

I hadn't thought about it in those terms before, but yeah, the 'shape' of a person is loads better than nudity. Unless it's in art--then it doesn't matter. Real people should be clothed, though.

Cate

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Jartan   
Jartan

A. It's simply good fun though I don't relate it to sex in my mind. I don't think I've been so aroused to need B for ages, and now I've read this thread I can see I should be thinking about C too.

Since we're on the topic, I don't really find porn disgusting, just simply boring and... a bit daft really. A tasteful (artistic) nude is fine, anything more than that and I just don't want to know.

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Shockwave   
Shockwave

I also appreciate the shape of certain people (women) under their clothes, though I tend to look more at the face.

My answer to the question is: none of the above. It started as A but became an addiction, one which I am trying to break because it often makes me feel ill after about half an hour.

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CorruptDictatorNumber2   
CorruptDictatorNumber2

Thank you all for your replies! It's interesting to me that there has not been a single D, since I have only tried it a couple of times since puberty, and the reason has always been a resounding D.

Hmm...but I wonder if the lack of Ds could be blamed on the title of this topic? Because I DEFINITELY don't consider myself to be an "A who masturbates" (since, er, I don't), and therefore I probably wouldn't bother looking at this topic.

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Hexpiral   
Hexpiral

I just noticed this:

AAA.

Around here AAA stands for Argentine Anti-Communist Alliance, a right-wing peronist terrorist group from the late 70s.

I swear I'm not trying to criticise everything you do or write boa! (I'm thinking about purple triangles now)

(And no, I'm not offended or anything. I just wanted to comment on it.)

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Damien Day   
Damien Day

How about "F" for stress relief:- I have never really masturbated for reasons of sexual arousal. It was merely a way, in the past, to release endorphins into the brain and relieve stress. Nowadays I have so little stress in my life that I hardly ever masturbate. Practically the only time I feel arousal is very occasionally in the mornings due to a full bladder, but this goes away once I have a piss. I do however very occasionally masturbate due to health reasons, as I believe that "if you don't use it, you lose it", and that I might well get prostate cancer otherwise. This belief is almost certainly groundless, but we all have our superstitions.

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bard of aven   
bard of aven
I just noticed this:
AAA.

Around here AAA stands for Argentine Anti-Communist Alliance, a right-wing peronist terrorist group from the late 70s.

I swear I'm not trying to criticise everything you do or write boa! (I'm thinking about purple triangles now)

(And no, I'm not offended or anything. I just wanted to comment on it.)

That's OK. Around here, it stands for American Automobile Association. If you belong, they come and start your car for free if it won't start, or tow your car if it breaks down, or change your tire if you get a puncture (or, as we say, a flat).

boa

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Hu   
Hu

I'm probably closest to D, to be honest, though at certain times it's B. I've also noticed an interesting correlation with loneliness. When I'm spending a lot of time with one of my close friends, I pretty much stop doing it. It's only when I'm by myself for a while, getting bored and lonely, that I feel like I need to do something. It's lame, but I guess it's good for me so I don't mind. But I'd really rather have prostate cancer and friends.

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