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gypsy_princess

Poll about sex

Sex  

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  1. 1. Have you ever had sex?

    • yes
      31
    • no
      43
  2. 2. Did (do) you like it?

    • yes
      9
    • no
      18
    • undecided
      10
    • never had it
      42
  3. 3. Why did (do) you have it?

    • because I wanted (want) to
      8
    • because my partner wanted (wants) to
      16
    • because my partner and I wanted (want) to
      11
    • never had it
      43
  4. 4. How did (do) you feel it?

    • amazing
      3
    • nice
      11
    • not impressing
      23
    • awful
      9
    • never had it
      42
  5. 5. To the people who haven't already had sex, would you like having it soon?

    • yes
      3
    • no
      29
    • undecided
      11
    • I've already had it
      31
  6. 6. with whom would you (did you, do you) have it?

    • with my partner
      36
    • with a person of the same sex
      3
    • with a person of the opposite sex
      26
    • with others
      9
  7. 7. to whom didn't (doesn't) like sex, why?

    • because I feel it awkward
      10
    • because I feel it unecessary
      20
    • because I feel it disgustin
      9
    • because I feel it animal-like
      2
    • other
      27
    • I like sex
      6
  8. 8. to whom likes sex, why do you like it?

    • because it strengthen my relationship with my partner
      5
    • because it's pleasurable
      4
    • because it's natural to me
      0
    • other
      19
    • I don't like sex
      46
  9. 9. to who hasn't had sex yet, do you think you would ever have it?

    • yes
      5
    • no
      19
    • undecided
      19
    • I've already had it
      31


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gypsy_princess   
gypsy_princess

I don't know if someone has already created it, but i was curious :)

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Reptillian   
Reptillian

Can you add the "if sex happens, okay. If not, okay then. I don't care to decide" option at least?

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CBC   
CBC

Not sure how to answer some of the poll questions, but anyway...

Yes, I've had sex, with my opposite-sex partner (my husband, who's also somewhere on the asexy spectrum). I'm not sure how to analyse why... curiosity, some degree of desire I suppose, the thought that I should because that's what you do in relationships... who knows. I've liked some things about it and hated others, and my overall attitude regarding sex tends toward the negative. Why? Umm... it kind of repulses me from an emotional/psychological/mental/moral standpoint, I find it a little animalistic, it makes me feel like I'm pretending to be someone else... and other reasons that I can't quite pin down or put into words. It's just not an activity I'd rate as providing me with any quality fulfilment. Dunno how else to describe it. Nonetheless, yes, I have been able to enjoy a few things about it at times. Very rare times, but they exist. I guess that's why I identify as grey-a.

Anyway, we haven't had sex in nearly a year and I can't particularly say that I miss it. It just never really enters my mind as something to do, or on the rare occasion that it does, it's kind of a detached thought that's quickly dismissed by the knowledge that actually bothering to do it would be more hassle than it's worth, both from a physical standpoint and a mental/emotional one. Thankfully, those thoughts are, like I say, very detached -- as in, thinking about having sex isn't driven by libido or desire or a need for sexual release of some sort. I'm pretty much a non-libidoist, and thus going without sex is sort of the default for me; getting into the mindset to have it is a lot more difficult than not bothering with it. I don't think I care one way or the other if we ever have it again; if we do, it likely won't be very often at all.

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Melorian   
Melorian

I can't answer the poll because question

with whom would you (did you, do you) have it?

Doesn't give me an option to say 'no-one'

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Vyanni Krace   
Vyanni Krace

Could you put an 'all of the above' option on some of them, such as the 'why don't you like sex' question?

Also, I second what Melorian said.

I haven't had sex, I don't want to have sex, I don't want sex for various reasons, I don't think I'll ever have sex (though one can never be certain of their future).

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Vega91   
Vega91

I can't answer the poll because question

with whom would you (did you, do you) have it?

Doesn't give me an option to say 'no-one'

^^ yeah, this.

(I did answer "partner" though I would never actually have sex willingly.)

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Jace Quin   
Jace Quin

You do realize that it is impossible for someone who has not ever had sex to complete this poll without polluting some of the questions that are directed solely at those who have had sex?

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gypsy_princess   
gypsy_princess

oh sorry i messed everything up!! sorry sorry sorry! how can i delete the thread?

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WhenSummersGone   
WhenSummersGone

I've had sex, mostly curiosity or to please someone else. I found it either boring or just uncomfortable (no pain, just weird). It was just OK but nothing amazing. I liked being close to some of my partners but I would prefer cuddling. Looking back, most of who I had sex with I wasn't sexually attracted to.

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sound_the_bugle   
sound_the_bugle

How about "I'm indifferent" for 7 & 8?

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Lady Ghoul   
Lady Ghoul

This poll is being locked and moved to the read only Census archive for it's respective year. As part of ongoing Census organization, and in an attempt to keep the demographics of the polls current with the active user base at the time, the polls will last for one year from now on. However, members are allowed and even encouraged to re-start new polls similar to the archived ones if they like them.

Lady Girl, Moderator

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