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Hello This is my first post in these forums. I'm a 17 year old male and I've had almost no interest in sex/relationships for years.
But I was wondering, do any other asexuals have fetishes? I've seen a post similar to this already but I'd like more specific answers.

If you have any could you please share them? Thank you

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How spesific?

All I meant by that, is the other question was about naming strange fetishes, whereas mine is on how common it is for an asexual person to have a fetish.

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Mine is hairfetish. I am addicted to hair.

I've come across a lot of different fetishes before but never hair! That's interesting, thanks for your reply.

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Accents! Some accents make my knees go all wobbly.

Actually voices in general, really.

Mmm, Vegeta <3

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Lol, I'm asexual because I've never been attracted to anybody before, and I find the process of sexual intercourse disgusting. However!

I love watching/reading porn BECAUSE of that exact reason. People come up with such "interesting" ways to do it. It's hilarious! :))

does this count as a fetish I wonder?

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FrozenCherry

Mine is hairfetish. I am addicted to hair.

It is not just all hair it has to be specific color and lenght and touch.

Lol, I'm asexual because I've never been attracted to anybody before, and I find the process of sexual intercourse disgusting. However!

I love watching/reading porn BECAUSE of that exact reason. People come up with such "interesting" ways to do it. It's hilarious! :))

does this count as a fetish I wonder?

I watched some porn and laughed too hard after yack reflexion was over. Such a weird thing to do... :wacko: No any understanding or interest to that. Just wanted to see what action is. Could not care less.

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@RandomDent

Accents and voices? That's another new one to me. I can see where you're coming from though. I love Eastern European accents.

@Lord James

That's a strange reason to watch porn! But, again, this is very interesting :blush:

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Accents and voices, oh yes.. This is why I would marry Alan Rickman. And just make him talk all day. :wub:

I love hentai and have since I was like 14. I think the fact that it is not live people makes it more appealing to me than real porn.. But if I do watch real porn, it's normally lesbian (see Burning Angel type lesbians, not the fake ones) or BDSM.

I also have a hair fetish. (trichophilia) I adore long hair and dreads. (google Skinny Disco from Deathstars.. I'm too lazy to post pics at the moment)

And as difficult as this one is to admit, I am 100% honest on this board so.. autoerotic asphyxiation. Or asphyxiation in general.

I am sure I would have an interest in vamprism/blood play if my bf were any way into it. I thin kit would help me get over this ridiculous fear of blood I have.

And you have vorarephilia? Interesting.. I have had a couple friends with that fetish! They felt all weird about it but obviously it isn't uncommon.

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I love hentai and have since I was like 14. I think the fact that it is not live people makes it more appealing to me than real porn..

And as difficult as this one is to admit, I am 100% honest on this board so.. autoerotic asphyxiation. Or asphyxiation in general.

I can relate to that. Hentai is much better than 'real' porn because of the same reason.

And don't worry because I think asphyxiation is a common one!

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Vampyremage

I guess one could add me to the list of people with a hair fetish. I love hair, particularly long hair and dreads, but really any sort of alternative hair can be pretty awesome.

Beyond that, I have a blood fetish. Cutting, play piercing, drinking of blood, all of it for both my partner and myself and both in fantasy and reality.

I think I may also have a thing for being tied up, although at the moment it is relegated to the category of fantasy and curiosity. Maybe one day I'll be able to actually experience it and decide if its something better left in fantasy.

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do any other asexuals have fetishes?

As most of the Chatroom may know, Yes. :rolleyes:


Haha, I've gathered that by now! I'm actually very surprised. I though that most people here would not have any fetishes.
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I have a few different fetishes, mostly related to BDSM. And then I also have kind of a medical/anesthesia fetish.

Fetishes are fascinating to me, by the way. :)

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I like legs, and muscles :wub: :wub:

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ConflictofInterests

Hello This is my first post in these forums. I'm a 17 year old male and I've had almost no interest in sex/relationships for years.

But I was wondering, do any other asexuals have fetishes? I've seen a post similar to this already but I'd like more specific answers.

I have a tongue fetish as well as Vore (google it if you're confused!)

If you have any could you please share them? Thank you

:cake:

Also, I'm sorry if I have made any mistakes in posting here!

ANOTHER VORAPHILE! I am so happy I came here!

I wiki'd paraphilias and came up, under the actual list of paraphilias, a technical list for non-paraphilic sexual interests, and this popped out at me, because it described me so well:

Analloerotic: Lacking in sexual interests towards others (but not lacking in sexual drive—see asexuality)

Anyways, yeah, I have a buttload of fetishes. Iunno why.

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ConflictofInterests

Forgive my ignorance, but I've never been entirely sure of what constitutes as a fetish and hence that's why I've always assumed I didn't have once. It was recently drawn to my attention that my fascination with furry characters may count though, so I dunno. :lol: There's some characters I find pretty attractive even though I'd have no interest in doing anything with them if they did exist... just the anthros, mind. Anything that resembles an actual animal is stuck firmly in the "oh, how cute!" category, haha.

But if that's not a fetish, I really can't think of anything else that would count.

Well, you don't have to personally want to have sex with something to become physically aroused by it, and that's what I count as a fetish. Basically, do you become physically aroused, consistently, by something that isn't normal people having sex? Y/N If yes, then you have a fetish.

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Silent_Silver

I love hentai and have since I was like 14. I think the fact that it is not live people makes it more appealing to me than real porn.. But if I do watch real porn, it's normally lesbian (see Burning Angel type lesbians, not the fake ones) or BDSM.

And as difficult as this one is to admit, I am 100% honest on this board so.. autoerotic asphyxiation. Or asphyxiation in general.

I've also had a thing for hentai since I was about 14. Real porn though, ew no thanks.

Breath play is one of my kinks, which is kind of ironic considering someone tried to strangle me as a kid, which in general leaves me with a fear of people touching my neck. Fetish and phobia going hand in hand, who knew?

I think I may also have a thing for being tied up, although at the moment it is relegated to the category of fantasy and curiosity. Maybe one day I'll be able to actually experience it and decide if its something better left in fantasy.

Bondage is awesome, but requires trust in your partner because it leaves you completely at their mercy. Its both erotic and terrifying.

I have a few different fetishes, mostly related to BDSM.

Same here

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I have a yiff fetish. I like furry porn.

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Had a fetish since as long as I can remember. My childhood self now disgusts me sometimes. So it was probably some kind of imprinting thing.

I hate it I hate it I hate it I hate it.

Categorically... it'll be something within the fat fetish region of fetishes, but not that, exactly (and it's nothing to do with any aesthetics). I don't want to talk about it. I wish it would not exist.

I don't find anything about what it is arousing intellectually, but I can't help what my body does even though I wish I could turn it OFF ALREADY.

Found out I'm not the only one with it, though. It's quite specific, but I stumbled across some.. er, written porn? What is that called? Anyway, and I was like.. what.. the.. fuck.

It didn't make me feel better about it, but I felt less abnormal.

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Trolley Girl

The only fetich of which I can think in my case is also a hair fetish. I can't stand having it be any longer than a buzz cut; In the summer, I shave it completely down to my scalp. It's just that my hair is so thick, it becomes uncomfortable too easily.

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Qutenkuddly

You may wish to look through some of the pre-existing discussions on the topic, such as here, (though I'm sure there are others, too).

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Hello This is my first post in these forums. I'm a 17 year old male and I've had almost no interest in sex/relationships for years.

But I was wondering, do any other asexuals have fetishes? I've seen a post similar to this already but I'd like more specific answers.

I have a tongue fetish as well as Vore (google it if you're confused!)

If you have any could you please share them? Thank you

:cake:

Also, I'm sorry if I have made any mistakes in posting here!

ANOTHER VORAPHILE! I am so happy I came here!

*Raises hand* Me, too!

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I think people are heavily confusing fetishes with kinks. A fetish is an extreme thing. You cannot be aroused or turned on or attracted without it. A kink is a trait that you particularly enjoy and can be a turn on for you. A catholic schoolgirl costume kink for example.

I personally like hands. ^-^ They're interesting. And there was a survey done on what people find most attractive and love about other people. The answer? Hair!

Needless to say hair is a big plus, as well as being bilingual or having an accent. :3 You can't beat an amazing voice.

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Clothing.

Ohhh my god, clothing.

I love love love men in suits, vests, suspenders, pointy toed shoes, military uniforms, priest collars, round glasses, ties, etc. Women in elegant dresses or hotpants, floral print layers, stockings and tights, lace, etc.

I just love well-dressed people, and sometimes, as in the case of hotpants, I like women who are dressed sexily but not...graphically?

Also, I love long skinny legs, on men and women, red hair, dark-skinned girls with brightly colored hair, hourglass figures, and crazy haircuts like mohawks etc.

ALSO haha, to go with the person who had the hair fetish, I have such a desire to brush long, pretty hair.

...yeah I have a lot of fetishes for someone completely uninterested in sex. OTL

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