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Black rings and other ways to show asexual pride

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besides wearing an aven t-shirt, is there an offical way to display your asexual pride if you are ready to be out about it, if there isnt an offical symbol, flag, ear pearcing, bracelet, etc, how about starting one? I know the stealth triangle on the logo is a symbol alot of you forum regulars like

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Well, there's always the "This is what an Asexual looks like" clothing line.

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I like this idea, a lot.

My problem with the aven clothing is that I'm a little shy, and not completely out, and I wouldn't like to be stopped every five minutes to explain my shirt to someone. So something more, covert, would be cool, in my eyes at least.

You know, a friend of mine wears a ring on her left middle finger. Her explanation being that: your right middle means "currently single", the right ring means "currently taken" and since the left ring means "taken/married" in a permanent sense, then the next logical conclusion would be that left middle means "permanently single".

But that may not work for everyone as some asexuals desire companions and relationships, and some guys don't like jewelry.

Still, I would like to hear the input of others.

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I would realy like something that becomes convention, it would be our secret asexual-dar, so we can spot each other out and about, but its gotta be something some random person wouldnt acidently do and cause confusion

I also like the idea of one of those live stong type bracelets, with aven or something likewise on it

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You mean aside from it getting posted in the paper?

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I also like the idea of one of those live stong type bracelets, with aven or something likewise on it

I don't know, those things are nearing their end, I think they'll be considered kitsch in a few months.

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I don't know, those things are nearing their end, I think they'll be considered kitsch in a few months.

yeah its a good idea not to bandwagon something for the hell of it, but if there a strong demand for it why not,

You mean aside from it getting posted in the paper?

yeah, alot of people I know read those article and have no clue what to make of it. or think somehow we are flawed

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I would realy like something that becomes convention, it would be our secret asexual-dar, so we can spot each other out and about, but its gotta be something some random person wouldnt acidently do and cause confusion

Hey I really like this idea...

I'm not very creative though. If somebody comes up with something to do I'm definitely in....

For a while I wore this really small lock on a chain...I did get asked why I was wearing it a lot, though, even though I didn't think it was that obvious...I figured people would just think I had an odd bondage-esque taste in fashion.

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Yeah it probably would be cool if there was an easy and covert way to spot asexuals but I don't think it's that easy somehow.....

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Chozo was talking to me about the possibility of getting some AVEN / asexual wristbands made up, like the ones you see around for 'putting an end to poverty' and various other causes. It wouldn't be particularly visible though, unless you wear short sleeves all the time.

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I've been trying to find a place that sells black jewelry so I can buy a ring.

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Now there's something! How about black rings? They're simple, not gender-specific...

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I like it! Plus then you don't have to make it "work" with whatever else you are wearing.

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You know, black rings aren't even that hard to find. There's a place here in my own town that sells hemitite ones. Oooo can we use it? Please?

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You know, a friend of mine wears a ring on her left middle finger. Her explanation being that: your right middle means "currently single", the right ring means "currently taken" and since the left ring means "taken/married" in a permanent sense, then the next logical conclusion would be that left middle means "permanently single".

That is awesome. I'm off to dredge up a ring so I can do that.

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Hah! yes! i like the black ring idea too.

(runs off to find black ring)

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Right behind you man! (I think I actually own one already, I hope I can find it.)

Let's give this a few more hours to see what everyone else thinks. If everyone likes it, then could someone maybe make an announcement about this?

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I'm sorry, what? I don't know what that is. I am a hermit without tv so...

Cate

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The Lance Armstrong Foundation sells yellow jelly bracelets that say "Livestrong" on them. The proceeds go to cancer research.

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I'm sorry, what? I don't know what that is. I am a hermit without tv so...

Cate

They were, as I understand it, popularized by Lance Armstrong. They are the size and shape of a standard big, heavy duty rubber band, except they are bright yellow instead of paper bag brown and have "Live Strong" embossed on them. The proceeds go to cancer research, I think, and the basic idea has been fadded about the globe. Think those jellie bracelets from the 80s with a social concience. . . .

[edit: and uh, yeah. What cynic said. . . :roll:]

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...then the next logical conclusion would be that left middle means "permanently single".

I already wear my ring on my left middle finger. 0_o It's not black, though, it's silver, but what the hell.

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The Lance Armstrong Foundation sells yellow jelly bracelets that say "Livestrong" on them. The proceeds go to cancer research.

OH! I've seen those. I wondered why everyone was suddenly wearing rubber bands around their wrists. I thought maybe they were all trying to quite smoking in a heavy duty fashion. I've seen them in hues other than yellow, though, are those the same thing?

Cate

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Oh, those sound very much like what I was talking about before when I said 'wristbands'. There is a website Chozo showed me where you can get text actually embossed into the bands rather than printed.

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Uhhh.... :oops: *didn't add it to his Favourites*

*points* Hey look! There's Chozo - he might know! *runs away*

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The Lance Armstrong Foundation sells yellow jelly bracelets that say "Livestrong" on them. The proceeds go to cancer research.

OH! I've seen those. I wondered why everyone was suddenly wearing rubber bands around their wrists. I thought maybe they were all trying to quite smoking in a heavy duty fashion. I've seen them in hues other than yellow, though, are those the same thing?

Cate

Different colours represent different causes, I think, Cate.

And, wait just a moment. *chases Karl* Thinks he is getting off that easy, does he?

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Walmart's got buckets of them at the checkout stand. For some reason, no one buys the Courage or Sensuality ones.

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I was thinking, there's a sort of difficulty once something starts becoming popular to wear...people who don't know what it means will be wearing it too, so eventually you won't know who is asexual and who is just wearing something because they see other people doing it. That'd probably be a bigger issue with what finger you wear a ring on, or the color of it than those bracelets.

I personally don't have an interest in the bracelets myself though! I wish I could come up with an idea myself...hmm...

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You know, black rings aren't even that hard to find. There's a place here in my own town that sells hemitite ones. Oooo can we use it? Please?

I had a haematite ring once. I dropped it, and it shattered. Thing is, that rings don't really suit me. Although I like the idea.

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