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Poll: threesomes (68 member(s) have cast votes)

do you like them?

  1. yes (9 votes [13.24%])

    Percentage of vote: 13.24%

  2. nope (44 votes [64.71%])

    Percentage of vote: 64.71%

  3. maybe? (elaborate if you can) (15 votes [22.06%])

    Percentage of vote: 22.06%

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#31 Rivan Vox

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Posted 20 May 2012 - 10:24 PM

Threesomes takes positional planning, is all.

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Posted 24 May 2012 - 03:13 PM

I've tried it once(FMF), liked it, and would do it again given the chance. Though I don't necessarily think it's better than 1-on-1 sex. I believe the main advantages are the social dynamic is quite different as there's more of a sharing aspect, 2 people can stimulate 1 person twice as much as 1 person can stimulate 1 person, there are both voyeurism and expressionism aspects to it for those that are into that sort of thing. For me personally with FMF there is the potential for some lesbian stuff to happen which is a huge turn on and I'm some one who just likes to compare on contrast things in general and in this situation I get to do that side by side with sexual partners.

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Posted 24 May 2012 - 06:56 PM

I've never really had much of a fascination with threesomes in the full sexual sense, but lately I've been intrigued with the idea of cuddle threesomes.

Then again, this is just an ongoing theme with me at the moment - I'm a touch starved cuddle slut. So I guess the idea of cuddling and sharing my bed with two cuddle buddies sounds extra appealing. eg. Between two girls - being both big spoon and little spoon at the same time. :wub:

Note: I'm demisexual, so to get hardcore sexual with someone I have to get into a very particular headspace, I can't do anything too casually. But affectionate contact such as cuddling comes much easier to me.

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Posted 25 May 2012 - 03:50 PM

I don't know how I feel about them really, like I can see how it might be "fun," but I also see how it might not be as fun for all partners. I won't say that I'd never be involved in a threesome, but it wouldn't be in the near future. I am bi-asexual, and wouldn't have a preference of it being a woman or another man, but I would also see there being issues of who would be the third person involved. A particular female friend would be more focused on me whilst taking attention away from my partner. And I doubt I would agree with any of my partner's choices.

I just feel like my attention can only be aimed at one person, not two. And I would probably leave it early.

Guzica brings up the idea of cuddle threesomes, and I would jump on board for that. I deeply enjoy cuddling, and being between two people cuddling sounds amazing!

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Posted 26 May 2012 - 02:26 AM

To be honest, I've entertained the thought before, and I'm actually sort of interested in one someday. I don't know if it's bi-curiosity, I'd want to be in bed (they'd have to be people I absolutely trust, and are best friends with) girl and an androgynous guy. I'm not so sure I'd want to go as far as sex, but I would enjoy lots of kissing and frolicking around. :ph34r:
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Posted 10 June 2012 - 03:38 AM

Then again, this is just an ongoing theme with me at the moment - I'm a touch starved cuddle slut. So I guess the idea of cuddling and sharing my bed with two cuddle buddies sounds extra appealing. eg. Between two girls - being both big spoon and little spoon at the same time. :wub:


This. This was wonderful. May I borrow the line about being a touch starved cuddle slut?

#37 Kitty Spoon Train

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Posted 10 June 2012 - 05:26 AM


Then again, this is just an ongoing theme with me at the moment - I'm a touch starved cuddle slut. So I guess the idea of cuddling and sharing my bed with two cuddle buddies sounds extra appealing. eg. Between two girls - being both big spoon and little spoon at the same time. :wub:


This. This was wonderful. May I borrow the line about being a touch starved cuddle slut?


Heh, I've ripped it off anyway. :P

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Posted 10 June 2012 - 05:57 AM

To be honest, I've entertained the thought before, and I'm actually sort of interested in one someday. I don't know if it's bi-curiosity, I'd want to be in bed (they'd have to be people I absolutely trust, and are best friends with) girl and an androgynous guy. I'm not so sure I'd want to go as far as sex, but I would enjoy lots of kissing and frolicking around. :ph34r:


That would be my idea of a threesome. ^_^ Except I'd add lots of cuddling as I'm not interested in the sex part of it.

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#39 Kitty Spoon Train

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Posted 13 June 2012 - 06:17 AM

Speaking of Cuddle Threesomes, this Urban Dictionary definition is comedy gold:

**TMI**

1. Cuddle Threesome
when a group of 3 people, typically one guy and two girls, join together in some cuddling action. The guy tends to be in the middle of the two girls and rotates back and forth with some spooning and touching of the female body parts or some light rubbing all over her body.

John goes to bed with 2 girls and can't decide which girl he would like to cuddle with, so he turns left and spoons Veronica while stroking her breasts. Then after he gets bored, he turns over to Penelope and wraps his arms around her while his boner touches her backside from the first cuddling action with Veronica. The entire night becomes an awkward cycle of switching back and forth between Veronica and Penelope with a result of absolutely no sleep as well as no further action from the girls; thus, you have a cuddle threesome.

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Posted 13 June 2012 - 10:46 AM

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Posted 14 June 2012 - 01:05 AM

Personally, I don't get them. I have no interest in them, never have. But if other people want to have them, go for it.
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Posted 14 June 2012 - 08:39 PM

Why?? Are we all supposed to have had them? Nobody told me!!


Have you already forgotten that wild night in Alice Springs a few years ago - you, me, and an exotic dancer named Bambi? Shame on you! :lol:

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Posted 15 June 2012 - 05:34 AM

Then again, this is just an ongoing theme with me at the moment - I'm a touch starved cuddle slut. So I guess the idea of cuddling and sharing my bed with two cuddle buddies sounds extra appealing. eg. Between two girls - being both big spoon and little spoon at the same time. :wub:

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Posted 15 June 2012 - 05:58 AM

I have been asked, but I told them I could only count up to two!

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Posted 15 June 2012 - 12:17 PM

Why?? Are we all supposed to have had them? Nobody told me!!


Have you already forgotten that wild night in Alice Springs a few years ago - you, me, and an exotic dancer named Bambi? Shame on you! :lol:

Bambi was a dancer?? I thought she was just too drunk to realize there were people already sitting those chairs. :blink: Did we have a good time? :P

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Posted 15 June 2012 - 09:44 PM

Did we have a good time? :P


Things were going great until you and Bambi got into a violent argument over possession of the TV remote. I tried to break it up and got knocked unconscious. When I came to, you and Bambi were gone and the hotel room was a shambles (thanks for sticking me with the damages :mad: ). I later heard that you and Bambi quickly made up and moved in together. How sweet. I hope that worked out for you. :rolleyes: :lol:

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Posted 19 June 2012 - 03:25 PM

Ew no.

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Posted 23 June 2012 - 10:14 PM

Not interested.

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Posted 23 June 2012 - 10:17 PM

I can't even manage a twosome... :P

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Posted 23 June 2012 - 10:34 PM

I can't even manage a twosome... :P

That's FUNNY! :lol:

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Posted 23 June 2012 - 10:42 PM

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Posted 24 June 2012 - 05:21 AM

You know what's an amusing thing? A threesome is sex with three people, a twosome has only two people, but handsome is taken as a compliment.
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Posted 24 June 2012 - 05:48 AM

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Posted 24 June 2012 - 03:43 PM

I wondered why you weren't answering my calls!


I was in the hospital recovering from my fractured skull. I don't remember which one of you swung that desk lamp, but I wish my reflexes had been a tad faster. :)

I wouldn't be entirely adverse to trying the threesome again, but I have two new rules:

Rule #1: No TV

I'm hiding the remote. :)

Rule #2: No Snakes

I understand that Bambi uses her 22-foot long boa constrictor Snookie in her act, but does she really have to sleep with him? When I showed up in Alice Springs the last time, I was expecting a threesome (you, me, and Bambi), not a foursome (you, me, Bambi, and Snookie). I will never again climb into bed with a snake!

Bambi's claim that Snookie is harmless as long as he's been recently fed was hardly reassuring. Do you remember when that huge black rat that Bambi brought as Snookie's dinner got loose and went rampaging all over the hotel room with Snookie in hot pursuit? And how, exactly, was the sound of Snookie killing and eating the rat supposed to put me in the mood for a romantic interlude? The next time, I'm putting my foot down - no snakes!! :)

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Posted 24 June 2012 - 04:10 PM

I was invited to one by former friends who said they just wanted to add a little spice to their relationship. I declined, knowing I was ace, and so they found someone else. That lasted a short while for them, but there were so many problems in their relationship from having that third person. Suddenly there was someone else's opinions to weigh, someone to be compared and contrasted with, favoritism toward the other, etc. They've been married since then, but still swing as far as i know. I witnessed a couple more of those episodes and it was always the same way. It was obvious to most of us on the outside that she was only going along with it to make him happy, even though she liked the idea of getting to be with another woman. It was like he was cheating on her with her in the mix.

I know that not all group activities are like that, but I'd just feel used. I can't stand the thought of being intimate with anyone other than someone I'd be in a relationship with. And even if I could stand the thought of sharing and being shared, I doubt that I'd ever find two people at once that I'd want, since I've only really been attracted to about two people my entire life.
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Posted 24 June 2012 - 07:41 PM

I can't even manage a twosome... :P

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Posted 06 July 2012 - 07:05 PM

I think threesomes are nasty to be honest it just makes me think it's gross thinking about it.

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Posted 06 July 2012 - 10:28 PM

WHAT!? That's just disgusting and it doesn't make any sense. Porn promoted it.
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Posted 07 July 2012 - 12:07 AM

I would never consider a 'threesome', the same way I don't ever consider a 'twosome' or a 'onesome'. (masturbation, for those who are scratching their head)

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Posted 07 July 2012 - 12:20 AM

WHAT!? That's just disgusting and it doesn't make any sense. Porn promoted it.

Yes I believe that is where it all started porn.




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