glass weegie Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 between the poll and the title description i've pretty much summed it up. discuss whether you like threesomes and why/why not. Link to post Share on other sites
Janus the Fox Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 Perhaps it's my bisexual hive-mind, but I probably wouldn't mind threesomes... MMF (middle guy stuff) in particular I cannot view it out of love or anything unless within an open poly relationship, but something like a chance for fun and that's I believe its all that there is to it. Link to post Share on other sites
Vivi Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 i would never be in one. they are afetish i prefer to read about specifically mmm Link to post Share on other sites
Alan Degas Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 It can be interesting to watch and I'm sure it can be tons of fun for the folks involved but it's not really something I am personally interested in doing. Kinda like skateboarding. Link to post Share on other sites
MadRat Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 I don´t get threesomes at all. Link to post Share on other sites
The Great WTF Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 I have a friend who is very fond of threesomes. Lucky for him, his husband is, too. Currently they're nursing an infant poly relationship with his not-quite-an-ex-anymore that I'm looking forward to seeing develop. For me personally, it's something I am curious about but most likely it will never happen because of my trust issues and my and Gin's differing taste in potential partners. His first pick is down near the rapist end of my "do not want" list and I don't really have any kind of pick, just an ever-growing list of "hell no"s and "do not want"s. I do think having a poly relationship (a REAL poly relationship, not one with a whiny unwilling boyfriend in the middle like how my and Gin's relationship started) would be an interesting experience if we could agree on the person. Link to post Share on other sites
-V- Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 I've been invited to a few (I'd make it 3) but I always turn it down since I don't know the other person at all. Not comfortable enough with the idea of a threesome to not know both other people at least a little. Link to post Share on other sites
Rivan Vox Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 Almost had a threesome with a female best friend of mine and my then boyfriend. Problems was that she'd do it for $10, and I don't approve of prostitution D: Link to post Share on other sites
PiF Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 I have had a three some one night stand in the early days trying to see wether my then unkown at the time asexuality was something that just meant I needed a higher stimulus. As it turned out I enjoyed it but it did not arouse anything in me so I would have to say for me I'm glad I tried it but doubt if I would ever do it again. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 I've done it and find it awkward. I think threesomes are better for the stories than the sex. :) Link to post Share on other sites
never odd or even Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 I've been invited to a few (I'd make it 3) but I always turn it down since I don't know the other person at all. Not comfortable enough with the idea of a threesome to not know both other people at least a little. lol, I've been invited to one a couple of times by this one couple who I am friends with... I dont particularly feel comfortable because I've never had sex, and they are fairly sexual, and I think it could get awkward and messy and complicated, especially being both trans and ace with a cis straight couple.... I've done threesome kissing before... mostly just wet. and awkward. Link to post Share on other sites
R_1 Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 I am amused at this thread. Well, I could picture myself being in a 3some with 2 ladies... Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 I've done threesome kissing before... mostly just wet. and awkward. ROFL... I don't know what threesome kissing is, but it sounds scary/hilarious! Link to post Share on other sites
Great Thief Yatagarasu Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 The overly-curious, filthy part of my brain that often wonders about dirty things has indeed conjured up some great scenarios about threesomes. Mostly me being squished in between two guys who know what they're doing - all I'd have to do is hold on tight and trust them. I think there's something about that scenario which, for me, appeals to my occasional submissive fantasies and my interest in watching men go at it. I doubt I'd ever really be interested in doing this in real life, though - if I do, it'd be purely for curiosity's sakes. Link to post Share on other sites
Notte stellata Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 My boyfriend is quite interested in MFF threesomes, and the best part for him is the FF part. :lol: But I'm not into that. Link to post Share on other sites
Sally Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 My ex-partner used to suggest that when our relationship started. I talked with women friends and some of them said their partners/husbands had suggested it. The guys, however, were not interested in FMM threesomes. :lol: Link to post Share on other sites
glass weegie Posted May 16, 2012 Author Share Posted May 16, 2012 why are threesomes hot? is it simply double the partners=double the hotness? Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted May 16, 2012 Share Posted May 16, 2012 why are threesomes hot? is it simply double the partners=double the hotness? Kind of, because there are things that can be done with three people that can't be done with two. Double penetration... etc. Link to post Share on other sites
BunnyK. Posted May 16, 2012 Share Posted May 16, 2012 Tried 'em, liked 'em, would do one again and probably will because my boyfriend really wants to. My only thing is that I don't like to have sex with people I don't know pretty well, so finding a third (or fourth) is pretty hard. If you're with people you like and trust and think are sexy, a threesome isn't that much different from any other kind of recreational sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Stranger Posted May 16, 2012 Share Posted May 16, 2012 They sound clumsy. Too many appendages in too little room. Link to post Share on other sites
zoidberger Posted May 16, 2012 Share Posted May 16, 2012 why are threesomes hot? is it simply double the partners=double the hotness? Yeah... I've never really understood this. I also don't get the whole "girls making out together" thing that's supposed to be a turn on for most guys. Link to post Share on other sites
abea Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 Ha ha I just DO NOT get threesomes! I always picture trying to plug something into an electrical socket - clearly, one plug to one socket. And then there is this third plug that can be balanced on top in a variety of weird ways, but it's not actually plugged in....no way man. Or like adding a third wheel to a bicycle... you can do it, it just doesn't make a ton of sense! I just think it's hilariously awkward looking. :P Link to post Share on other sites
PiF Posted May 18, 2012 Share Posted May 18, 2012 I wonder if threesomes are more about the risque mental next level of eroticism rather than the actual act. Link to post Share on other sites
Rivan Vox Posted May 18, 2012 Share Posted May 18, 2012 Three makes a group, and that changes the social dynamics of the situation completely. Link to post Share on other sites
Member4445 Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 My boyfriend kept wanting one at one point. I didn't want to. I mean, how would I know who's touching me? And what if someone orgasms first? Most importantly, someone would be blocking my view of the tv. Link to post Share on other sites
Alphaprocess Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 I've had threesomes (MFF)* but always end up more interested in one partner than the other, so it doesn't really work for me. Maybe that's part of being more interested in the 'connection' part than the sex bit. *I think one was technically a foursome. Link to post Share on other sites
Naosuu Posted May 19, 2012 Share Posted May 19, 2012 Sounds kinda kinky. I've been curious about them: watched some god-awful videos, read some "real stories". I could see how it could potentially be interesting. From what I've... er, seen (if that even means anything, hahaha), it does tend to focus on one person. Although.... They sound clumsy. Too many appendages in too little room. This. Exactly. :lol: Two bodies have enough appendages together as it is! Link to post Share on other sites
Starr Posted May 20, 2012 Share Posted May 20, 2012 I like the idea of threesomes. I could see myself in one with 2 guys or a guy and a girl. Though I think I'd get more out of watching one xD Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted May 20, 2012 Share Posted May 20, 2012 My boyfriend kept wanting one at one point. I didn't want to. I mean, how would I know who's touching me? With only 2 other people that's not so much a problem... I've never been in an orgy but in those situations it may be harder to tell. In a threesome, though, the people are easy to keep track of. Most importantly, someone would be blocking my view of the tv. :D I left the two others in my threesome to play by themselves and I went off to watch Electra. So I feel ya. Link to post Share on other sites
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