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What Qualities Attract You To A Person?


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cosmosredshift7
  • Being outgoing
  • nearby
  • likes/has pets, because I want tons of them (and i have a turtle)
  • funny, quirky
  • well-groomed, dressing well
  • NOT wanting sex but liking sensual stuff
  • Gives me my space
  • someone i have common interests with- anime, cosplay, outdoors stuff, kingdom hearts, etc

for physical preferences i guess

  • i really love big/wild hair
  • unnaturally colored hair gets to me so hard
  • heavier people

I am usually attracted to feminine and androgynous women/men/nb

my dream person is a cute, chubby, feminine girl/nb person with curly, unnaturally colored hair, piercings, and noticeable tattoos tbqh (✿♥ل͜♥)

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VindicatorPhoenix

Personal traits:

  • unconventional, non-traditional, rebellious
  • free-spirited, quirky, crazy
  • outgoing
  • rule-breakers, don't care for social norms
  • empathetic
  • non-judgmental
  • disorganized
  • "immature" and tons of fun, never "grows up"
  • silly, random, and ridiculous with their sense of humor
  • only says nice stuff about me
  • can make anything fun
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El-not-so-ace

I love people who are funny and have an interest in nature (be it meteorology or astronomy, or history? Dinosaurs?) An animal lover and generally a family person. <3

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I'm definitely attracted to people who aren't a lot like me- which means the window is pretty wide. For me, it's not always a question of what I am attracted to, it's what I'm not attracted to that dictates who I end up developing crushes on. For example, since I'm someone who can be pretty up-in-the-air and awkward in social situations, I find myself more attracted to people who are both charming and level-headed. I'll list off some things I love personality-wise, and then physical things I like.

  • A similar sense of humor is key- I love making other people laugh, so he has to laugh at my jokes, haha. He doesn't necessarily need to be able to make me laugh, but we should at least find similar things to be funny so we can laugh at them together.
  • Someone who likes to talk about science with me! Or at least someone who is interested by what I have to say about it. If he's bored when I talk about stellar physics or orbital mechanics, it's not going to work. He doesn't have to be incredibly intelligent, he just has to be someone who can appreciate and understand my love for things like that.
  • As I mentioned earlier, someone who is charming. I can have difficulties when it comes to initiating romantic relationships, so someone who is comfortable taking the charge in the relationship is key.
  • Someone who shows their affection not only in the big gestures, but in the little things as well. Seriously. I love when you can feel someone's love even when they're just joking around with you.
  • Physically, I don't really like guys who are ridiculously buff. That intimidates me. I'm okay with all body types unless you look like you could kill me if you got angry. My favorite body type is medium build, though.
  • Height isn't really an issue... but since I'm 5'5'', I'm usually attracted to guys who are at least a little bit taller than me.
  • I'm undecided on facial hair. But in general, I prefer clean-shaven or just a little bit of stubble all over. I'm not a beard or mustache fan.
  • I LOVE WHEN BOYS HAVE GOOD EYEBROWS. Not sure why, but that's definitely something I adore.
  • I also love good haircuts that are well-maintained. My favorite hair style is shorter on the sides and longer up top. This style is really cute on guys with straight OR curly hair.
  • I've got this weird thing for guys with light to medium hair with dark eyes and guys with dark to medium hair with light eyes.
  • Freckles make everyone look 900% cuter!
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  • 11 months later...

The qualities that draw my interest are things like kindness, honesty, sincerity, maturity, compassion, passive nature, responsibility, respectfulness, warmth, rationality, and thoughtfulness. Along with that, I would like if a person is also funny, brave, supportive, family oriented, down to earth, patient and open minded. They have to be someone I feel I can relate to, who'd share at least some of my dreams, and who I can also admire in some respects. They don't need to be a saint by any means, just an inherently good and decent person. If I could just find someone like that, I'd get down on one knee right then and there! :wub: (He'd definitely need to open minded and secure enough not to have a problem with that either ;))

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Vincisomething

For me, immediate attraction is based off looks, but a deeper attraction is being able to talk to them without feeling awkward, but also being physically attracted to them. Also being in the same vicinity without talking and still feeling comfortable. Other qualities: ambition, hobbies, not being a racist, _phobic misogynist- you know, the simple things.

I've had crushes in the past where I was attracted to their looks almost immediately, but we never talked so I only had an idea of them based on how they acted. This guy I'm talking to now on the other hand... when I first met him, I didn't really pay attention to him, but now we've only known each other for about a week and we're already venting to each other lol (or at least he vented to me first). Oh, and we both think the other is cute lol.

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Phantasmal Fingers

Well, when I look in the mirror I'm not just looking for a nice face. I'm just not that superficial. I'm looking for depth, personality, wit, wisdom and stray nasal hairs.

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  • 1 year later...

If I can connect on an intellectual level; if they're "cute"; and if they can make me laugh 😚

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Optimistic people, people with interests and hobbies/passions. Just "good people"

Small list but surprisingly trivial sometimes to come across.

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  • 4 months later...

I’d like them to actually want to talk to me, and for them to interest me with what they’re saying. Them not to be offended easily, because I treat people that I have a squish/crush the same as I treat my friends. Laugh easily, make bad jokes that are somewhat funny. I have a ‘type’ that is suspiciously similar to the person that I may or may not have squish/crush on.

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Intelligence for one

Must not be allergic to dogs or cats

Must have a green thumb

Not too religious 

Same hobbies as me

Has to be asexual.

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