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Hahaha...omg...

You see what you've done Birdy?

This thread is full of love and happiness...

:wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub:

(my main plan being something called a "Ruined Orgasm" - look it up).

OMG wow...is he into that idea? It looks interesting but man...I would be kind of pissed if I was on the receiving end of that. I like the idea of domming but more like...teasing him so much that it's ridiculous and painful, having my way with him...but totally letting him enjoy it and have his full release. And then maybe releasing him and letting him have his way with me as a sort of thank you. I'm kind of a switch.

I've never heard of that ruined orgasm thing before, but I love the idea of being teased until it actually hurts. No-one's ever done it to me (in my last relationship, I was more of a dominant by default as my partner was way more submissive) but I quite often do it to myself if I have a bit of time to spare. I always grant myself a pretty satisfying release at the end of it, though.

I've always wanted to actually be restrained, whether that's through being tied down so I can't touch myself, or simply pinned down physically, and then stimulated to the point where I physically can't take any more. The idea puts a lump in my throat :blush: There's a little bit of a humiliation element to my fantasy, too--I kind of want to be told I'm bad, and dirty, for wanting to orgasm...

Sorry, that was a bit of a random rant!

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This is just a little thing, but some nice news - discussing it with my boyfriend, while we've agreed that we wouldn't take it too seriously, we've brought up d/s play. And he's SO enthusiastic about it. It came up because I decided to ask him what the kinkiest thing he's done is, at which point he admitted to occasionally acting as a dom for his ex...and I told him that while I like the idea of being a sub, I ALSO really like the idea of being a domme for him as well. At the time he was like "ah, okay - I'm totally game for that". Yesterday, however, he suddenly told me that he was really happy I'd suggested it, and he wanted to know if I had anything particular in mind - I got to tease him by giving lots of hints as to what it might be, but not actually saying it (leading to this exchange: "Oh, don't tease me, just tell me what it is." "Oh, there'll be teasing alright. >8D "). So yeah, I'm totally looking forward to it (my main plan being something called a "Ruined Orgasm" - look it up).

Ruined orgasms are awesome (assuming you've already got consent, otherwise it's not nice). They can be kind of tricky though. It helps to know how your guy reacts during a bj first so you know when to time things... but it might be different if you've got a willing sub- then you can demand he tell you when he's about to come :lol:

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Great Thief Yatagarasu

Hahaha...omg...

You see what you've done Birdy?

This thread is full of love and happiness...

:wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub:

(my main plan being something called a "Ruined Orgasm" - look it up).

OMG wow...is he into that idea? It looks interesting but man...I would be kind of pissed if I was on the receiving end of that. I like the idea of domming but more like...teasing him so much that it's ridiculous and painful, having my way with him...but totally letting him enjoy it and have his full release. And then maybe releasing him and letting him have his way with me as a sort of thank you. I'm kind of a switch.

I've never heard of that ruined orgasm thing before, but I love the idea of being teased until it actually hurts. No-one's ever done it to me (in my last relationship, I was more of a dominant by default as my partner was way more submissive) but I quite often do it to myself if I have a bit of time to spare. I always grant myself a pretty satisfying release at the end of it, though.

I've always wanted to actually be restrained, whether that's through being tied down so I can't touch myself, or simply pinned down physically, and then stimulated to the point where I physically can't take any more. The idea puts a lump in my throat :blush: There's a little bit of a humiliation element to my fantasy, too--I kind of want to be told I'm bad, and dirty, for wanting to orgasm...

Sorry, that was a bit of a random rant!

Oh, I know it's evil as the devil. I know that. And I know for a fact that I might have to restrain him just so he doesn't cheat and finish himself off without my permission. Thing is, my boyfriend's a lot taller and stronger than I am (I'm 5'7'', while he's 6'2'', plus he does a lot of sport while I don't), and he has a ridiculously high pain tolerance (because of a dare, he HAS actually had his ass beaten with a stick before - apparently he barely flinched, even when his friend was giving it his all. he's been run over a few times too, and has sporting injuries - so yeah, he's pretty much indestructible), so I'm limited in what I can do as a domme. I could spank him (and I do intend to, because I know for a fact he wants to do that to me), but his pain tolerance plus my lack of strength might make that a bit pointless. I could tie him up and have my way with him, but I'm not entirely sure I like that idea. Pretty much, restraining, teasing and commanding are the only things that would really work. As well as that, I LOVE the idea of teasing him. I can't wait to see his face when I try this on him, I really can't. And I won't be TOO cruel - I'd let him have his orgasm at the end. But not until he's begging me for it. :3 I love the idea of pleasing him...eventually...so drawing it out as long as possible, making it clear that his pleasure is entirely in my hands and is subject to my own whims...fantastic idea. :D Plus, I think he suspects or has an idea of what I have in mind for him - if he knows, then he's not objected yet.

His own plan for when he's acting as the dom is to pretty much pin me down and have his way with me until he thinks we've had enough, and I have no doubts that he'd be able to do that with no problems. He's made it clear that in that scenario, he would use me (that being his literal wording) until he feels good and ready to stop...but he's been nice and has explained WHY he wants to do it, with the why being that he wants to make me feel desired and safe. So even when he intends to fuck me with abandon he's a total sweetie. :3 I adore the idea of being a sub, too, because those are the kinds of feelings I'd want, and I know that it'd probably work.

These are still hypothetical scenarios, really - but it's good to talk through and plan what we like and what we'd like to try. :D

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I wonder how many people masturbate out of boredom, rather than being driven by libido.... I realise these two can overlap, but I'm wondering even still. I dont think I would even bother if I wasnt bored or couldnt get to sleep :P

On a second note, how many masturbate simply to get to sleep?

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I'd imagine a lot of people masturbate due to boredom. I mean, provided that it's a pleasurable experience, it can simply be an activity one does. You know, a list of things people do when they're bored: go on YouTube, read fanfiction/graphic novels/webcomics/whatever, masturbate, count the cracks on the ceiling... that kind of stuff.

I've done the masturbation-sleep routine a couple of times. It can help, but I find if I'm already tired it's sort of counter productive. Plus, before I go to bed, I'm usually too lazy for clean up but I don't like going to sleep all funky downstairs. It also depends on the kind of orgasm I finish with: clit ones tend to make me fall asleep (lol) while anything mixed with that can energise.

@GTY: I think if it's any... er, comfort, I think it's the fact that you slapped his bottom that would turn him on than actually inflicting any pain. Although YMMV and you could probably ask him about it, of course.

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I'd imagine a lot of people masturbate due to boredom. I mean, provided that it's a pleasurable experience, it can simply be an activity one does. You know, a list of things people do when they're bored: go on YouTube, read fanfiction/graphic novels/webcomics/whatever, masturbate, count the cracks on the ceiling... that kind of stuff.

I've done the masturbation-sleep routine a couple of times. It can help, but I find if I'm already tired it's sort of counter productive. Plus, before I go to bed, I'm usually too lazy for clean up but I don't like going to sleep all funky downstairs. It also depends on the kind of orgasm I finish with: clit ones tend to make me fall asleep (lol) while anything mixed with that can energise.

@GTY: I think if it's any... er, comfort, I think it's the fact that you slapped his bottom that would turn him on than actually inflicting any pain. Although YMMV and you could probably ask him about it, of course.

I've done the "I'm really really bored, why the hell not?" thing before. That's pretty much the only reason I masturbate, although I'm more likely to do it if I've just spent the past hour reading slash fiction. I can't do the masturbation/sleep thing because I actually end up falling asleep before I can get anywhere.

I think he totally loves the idea of spanking ME, but thinks it's a strange concept and is unsure about having it done to him. He's made it painfully clear that he's going to spank me, and he's so enthusiastic about the idea that I don't really feel like saying no (it's worth a try, anyway - the masochist in me would probably enjoy it). But with him, he's like "well, okay, but I'd have to get my own back later," (which probably means he'd spank me - oh well?). I think it's worth a try, at any rate - he even pointed out that the whole appeal of being a dom is being able to have your complete say. If he doesn't like it, I wouldn't do it a second time - I'd find something to replace it with. Maybe he wouldn't mind being tied up or something?

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I would just ask him if there's anything he's not comfortable with, Great Thief, and be sure not to cross that barrier. And have a safe word, always let him have a way out if he's not comfy with what's going on.

I used to look at it as "the dom(me) should have the complete say" too, but actually, the sub has a lot more control. They have the power to stop the whole show if they're uncomfortable (as they should).

I have a few ideas for my boy toy and I'm thinking about keeping them mostly as a surprise, but presenting them to him and giving him a chance to say no, instead of just doing it. Like, be making out and get on top of him, kissing him on his torso, and run my hands down his arms until I have his hands extended, spread them out while I'm kissing him. Then pull out a wrist restraint with one arm while holding the other, and raise my eyebrows to see if he's cool with it. If not, just go back to kissing and stroking that chest...

purrrr

As for my riding crop, I was thinking about introducing it when I'm showing off for him in some cute outfit. Whip it out be swatting my own hand and arms and thighs and whatnot. If that seems interesting, tap it with him gently, and if he likes it, keep going with it.

That sort of thing.

I asked him why he's unsure of the idea, and it's literally that he logically finds it a strange concept - he still wants to give it a go, though. It's not something he's violently opposed to, he just hasn't really thought about doing it. I know he SHOULD stop things when he's had enough, and the same goes for me - having said that, the games we both have planned kind of involve having to give up control completely to whoever's acting as the dom. My game, for instance, just wouldn't work if he called it quits in the middle, nor would his idea of ravishing me work. Obviously, the limits exist, and I'll make sure to set them well enough that he understands that (on a general sexual level, though, we've not done anything yet and he's been so respectful of my limits, I doubt he;d deliberately cross them). I think "Jellybeans" would make a great safe-word. :D I do get what you're saying, though, so I'll keep it in mind.

One thing I was going to try, maybe, was dress myself in a fancy outfit involving a corset (I don't have one yet, but I've got my eye set on a lovely black and gold underbust cincher...) and ask him to describe to me exactly what he's thinking (because he's made his high opinion of my already small waist and comparatively large boobs very plain - the idea of me wearing something that emphasises both of those things would be a dream to him). THEN I can tease him about it - "Wow, you really do have naughty thoughts, don't you? You're sounding like such a naughty boy - are you a naughty boy? Do you want me to make you into a good boy?" etc. I can't dominate him through strength, so I'm going to have to do it through words.

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I wonder how many people masturbate out of boredom, rather than being driven by libido.... I realise these two can overlap, but I'm wondering even still. I dont think I would even bother if I wasnt bored or couldnt get to sleep :P

On a second note, how many masturbate simply to get to sleep?

Those are the two reasons I masturbate. Sometimes I wonder if my libido is actually really low or if I've grown accustomed to ignoring it. I mean, when I feel like having sex, I usually have some sort of rationale, like "I need to work out but it's too late" or "It's Thursday and we normally have sex on Thursdays" (I live on routine), to get me in the mood.

One thing I was going to try, maybe, was dress myself in a fancy outfit involving a corset (I don't have one yet, but I've got my eye set on a lovely black and gold underbust cincher...) and ask him to describe to me exactly what he's thinking (because he's made his high opinion of my already small waist and comparatively large boobs very plain - the idea of me wearing something that emphasises both of those things would be a dream to him). THEN I can tease him about it - "Wow, you really do have naughty thoughts, don't you? You're sounding like such a naughty boy - are you a naughty boy? Do you want me to make you into a good boy?" etc. I can't dominate him through strength, so I'm going to have to do it through words.

Dressing up is so much fun. :) I'm not very good at verbally teasing so I wound up layering some lingerie and then telling my partner to find the new stuff I had gotten.

Psychological domination/sadism can definitely be just as effective. My partner and I haven't really done any BDSM (it doesn't appeal to him, and my trust issues plus low pain tolerance get in the way), but once he decided to be mean and take off only one of my stockings. I hate the feeling of imbalance so it drove me nuts... yet I want to try it in a setting where I am not allowed to take off the other stocking (which I did).

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I wonder how many people masturbate out of boredom, rather than being driven by libido.... I realise these two can overlap, but I'm wondering even still. I dont think I would even bother if I wasnt bored or couldnt get to sleep :P

On a second note, how many masturbate simply to get to sleep?

For me, it's kinda neither; more like maintenance, really, to deal with the build up of fluid in the prostate.

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I think I have a unique use for porn, I don't get indirect stimulation from it, but if I can picture myself within the situation, then it gets things going, bisexual threesomes and solo porn has the greatest effect. :lol: Oddly, I'm getting more drawn towards the dick these days... :ph34r:

I wonder how many people masturbate out of boredom, rather than being driven by libido.... I realise these two can overlap, but I'm wondering even still. I dont think I would even bother if I wasnt bored or couldnt get to sleep :P

On a second note, how many masturbate simply to get to sleep?

Out of boredom heck yes! I make is a bi-weekly event, since that's the most I can get out of it. It's either this, or I stay up very late so that I can fall asleep quickly.

Very rarely when the libido decides to switch itself on, that turns into a near daily thing. I've also used it as a sleeping aid, to get as realxed as possible, to settle and burn off the energy that is keeping me awake.

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I think he totally loves the idea of spanking ME, but thinks it's a strange concept and is unsure about having it done to him. He's made it painfully clear that he's going to spank me, and he's so enthusiastic about the idea that I don't really feel like saying no (it's worth a try, anyway - the masochist in me would probably enjoy it). But with him, he's like "well, okay, but I'd have to get my own back later," (which probably means he'd spank me - oh well?). I think it's worth a try, at any rate - he even pointed out that the whole appeal of being a dom is being able to have your complete say. If he doesn't like it, I wouldn't do it a second time - I'd find something to replace it with. Maybe he wouldn't mind being tied up or something?

I know I'm late to the party here, but if he's into being dominant, why try to tie him up at all? It sounds to me like he has a spanking / dom fetish. My friend is really into spanking & dominating too... it's one of the first things he thinks about when he starts up with a lady. He'll accept being spanked but it does nothing for him. Spanking is... spanking is hard to really enjoy unless you have a kink for it, so you may not like doing it to him anyway. Regardless, equality in sex is rarely attainable and even more rarely desired. Don't worry about doing to him what he does to you, or being dom if he's dom.

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I think he totally loves the idea of spanking ME, but thinks it's a strange concept and is unsure about having it done to him. He's made it painfully clear that he's going to spank me, and he's so enthusiastic about the idea that I don't really feel like saying no (it's worth a try, anyway - the masochist in me would probably enjoy it). But with him, he's like "well, okay, but I'd have to get my own back later," (which probably means he'd spank me - oh well?). I think it's worth a try, at any rate - he even pointed out that the whole appeal of being a dom is being able to have your complete say. If he doesn't like it, I wouldn't do it a second time - I'd find something to replace it with. Maybe he wouldn't mind being tied up or something?

I know I'm late to the party here, but if he's into being dominant, why try to tie him up at all? It sounds to me like he has a spanking / dom fetish. My friend is really into spanking & dominating too... it's one of the first things he thinks about when he starts up with a lady. He'll accept being spanked but it does nothing for him. Spanking is... spanking is hard to really enjoy unless you have a kink for it, so you may not like doing it to him anyway. Regardless, equality in sex is rarely attainable and even more rarely desired. Don't worry about doing to him what he does to you, or being dom if he's dom.

I don't think it's a fetish as such - from the way he talks, he knows perfectly well that it's "just a game" and that it's just a little extra fun to do. I don't think it's essential for him, nor is it the first thing he thinks of - but if he really wants to spank me so bad, then I'll give it a try. I kinda dig the idea, anyway. And he actually mentioned that he was really happy about me wanting to try out being dominant - whether that's because he likes the idea (he doesn't seem to think it's a bad idea, anyway) or because he's happy that I'm expressing myself like that, I don't know. I think he's just up for sexy fun times, really. I'd give it a try, either way - if anything doesn't appeal to either of us, then it's something we'd not do again.

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Hey Kiya, maybe your question would be better suited in AVEN's "Asexual Relationships" forum... this thread's used to talk about menstruation, orgasms, the nitty-gritty details of sex and masturbation (of all kinds) etc. If you're worried about being too TMI, putting a small warning at the beginning of your message or putting it in the topic title is sufficient. I'll send you a PM with my humble advice though. :)

I've talked to K about sex and the like... and he's told me about liking.... er, rough sex (or at least has done the scratching and biting bits). Would anyone know how that goes down?! I kinda get that it has a faster pace and it involves some scratching and biting and inflicting minor bodily wounds (don't worry it's just a flesh wound!). Aside from that, I (intellectually) don't get it. Is it considered kinky? Any other explanation or educated guesses about why people would want to bite down on their partner? Scratching I can kinda see, since it seems convenient that your/your partner's hands would be over each other anyway, but everything else draws a blank in my head.

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Hey Kiya, maybe your question would be better suited in AVEN's "Asexual Relationships" forum... this thread's used to talk about menstruation, orgasms, the nitty-gritty details of sex and masturbation (of all kinds) etc. If you're worried about being too TMI, putting a small warning at the beginning of your message or putting it in the topic title is sufficient. I'll send you a PM with my humble advice though. :)

I've talked to K about sex and the like... and he's told me about liking.... er, rough sex (or at least has done the scratching and biting bits). Would anyone know how that goes down?! I kinda get that it has a faster pace and it involves some scratching and biting and inflicting minor bodily wounds (don't worry it's just a flesh wound!). Aside from that, I (intellectually) don't get it. Is it considered kinky? Any other explanation or educated guesses about why people would want to bite down on their partner? Scratching I can kinda see, since it seems convenient that your/your partner's hands would be over each other anyway, but everything else draws a blank in my head.

It's all about sensation. Just having the sexual contact is nice, but a bit bland. There's also a lot of contact during sex and biting and scratching is how it gets when sex gets more vigorous.

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Erm...I may have mentioned this earlier in the thread, but I'm getting really interested in trying out pegging one day. And that's awkward, because even if a guy ends up liking that, it's hard to ask a guy "Would you mind terribly if I anally penetrated you with a plastic dick?" without there being either awkward rejection or the question of "...WHY?!"

And that's the thing - I don't know if the idea interests me because I've heard some guys REALLY like it, or if it's because it allows me to exercise my fucked-up idea of "I wonder what it's like to be a dude sometimes".

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Erm...I may have mentioned this earlier in the thread, but I'm getting really interested in trying out pegging one day. And that's awkward, because even if a guy ends up liking that, it's hard to ask a guy "Would you mind terribly if I anally penetrated you with a plastic dick?" without there being either awkward rejection or the question of "...WHY?!"

And that's the thing - I don't know if the idea interests me because I've heard some guys REALLY like it, or if it's because it allows me to exercise my fucked-up idea of "I wonder what it's like to be a dude sometimes".

Ask, if they know what pegging is they'll either scream "NOOOOO!" or "OK". I'd be the former, but not all that offended. If they don't know what it is, change topic, quickly. You might find more takers w/lesbians if you're really into trying this sort of thing. A lot of them really, really hate it too, though from what I know.

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Erm...I may have mentioned this earlier in the thread, but I'm getting really interested in trying out pegging one day. And that's awkward, because even if a guy ends up liking that, it's hard to ask a guy "Would you mind terribly if I anally penetrated you with a plastic dick?" without there being either awkward rejection or the question of "...WHY?!"

And that's the thing - I don't know if the idea interests me because I've heard some guys REALLY like it, or if it's because it allows me to exercise my fucked-up idea of "I wonder what it's like to be a dude sometimes".

Ask, if they know what pegging is they'll either scream "NOOOOO!" or "OK". I'd be the former, but not all that offended. If they don't know what it is, change topic, quickly. You might find more takers w/lesbians if you're really into trying this sort of thing. A lot of them really, really hate it too, though from what I know.

Well, guys actually have a genuine reason to enjoy it - they have prostates, which are magical lovely things that can make buttsex awesome. CAN - I totally don't mind if he's not into it. But he's been totally open about the concept of going down on me, which is another thing that most guys either go "NOOOOOOOOO!" or "OK" at.

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Erm...I may have mentioned this earlier in the thread, but I'm getting really interested in trying out pegging one day. And that's awkward, because even if a guy ends up liking that, it's hard to ask a guy "Would you mind terribly if I anally penetrated you with a plastic dick?" without there being either awkward rejection or the question of "...WHY?!"

And that's the thing - I don't know if the idea interests me because I've heard some guys REALLY like it, or if it's because it allows me to exercise my fucked-up idea of "I wonder what it's like to be a dude sometimes".

Ask, if they know what pegging is they'll either scream "NOOOOO!" or "OK". I'd be the former, but not all that offended. If they don't know what it is, change topic, quickly. You might find more takers w/lesbians if you're really into trying this sort of thing. A lot of them really, really hate it too, though from what I know.

Well, guys actually have a genuine reason to enjoy it - they have prostates, which are magical lovely things that can make buttsex awesome. CAN - I totally don't mind if he's not into it. But he's been totally open about the concept of going down on me, which is another thing that most guys either go "NOOOOOOOOO!" or "OK" at.

Weeelll ...

If my experience of using anal beads is anything to go by, I will say yes ... prostate stimulation magnifies the intensity of orgasms by several orders of magnitude ... so I can imagine being pegged might have the same effect ...

As for cunnilingus; in my experience, most men view it like Marmite ... they either love it, for the intensity of orgasms it creates in their partners, and other reasons, or they hate it ...

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Erm...I may have mentioned this earlier in the thread, but I'm getting really interested in trying out pegging one day. And that's awkward, because even if a guy ends up liking that, it's hard to ask a guy "Would you mind terribly if I anally penetrated you with a plastic dick?" without there being either awkward rejection or the question of "...WHY?!"

And that's the thing - I don't know if the idea interests me because I've heard some guys REALLY like it, or if it's because it allows me to exercise my fucked-up idea of "I wonder what it's like to be a dude sometimes".

Ask, if they know what pegging is they'll either scream "NOOOOO!" or "OK". I'd be the former, but not all that offended. If they don't know what it is, change topic, quickly. You might find more takers w/lesbians if you're really into trying this sort of thing. A lot of them really, really hate it too, though from what I know.

Well, guys actually have a genuine reason to enjoy it - they have prostates, which are magical lovely things that can make buttsex awesome. CAN - I totally don't mind if he's not into it. But he's been totally open about the concept of going down on me, which is another thing that most guys either go "NOOOOOOOOO!" or "OK" at.

Pegging is like 15 levels up from cunnilingus, hun. You're like 1 level down from Brown Shower at that point. (If you don't know what it is, don't google it). Cunnilingus is like level 1 stuff. Pegging's like 2 steps down from hoplophile level of freak.

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Erm...I may have mentioned this earlier in the thread, but I'm getting really interested in trying out pegging one day. And that's awkward, because even if a guy ends up liking that, it's hard to ask a guy "Would you mind terribly if I anally penetrated you with a plastic dick?" without there being either awkward rejection or the question of "...WHY?!"

And that's the thing - I don't know if the idea interests me because I've heard some guys REALLY like it, or if it's because it allows me to exercise my fucked-up idea of "I wonder what it's like to be a dude sometimes".

Ask, if they know what pegging is they'll either scream "NOOOOO!" or "OK". I'd be the former, but not all that offended. If they don't know what it is, change topic, quickly. You might find more takers w/lesbians if you're really into trying this sort of thing. A lot of them really, really hate it too, though from what I know.

Well, guys actually have a genuine reason to enjoy it - they have prostates, which are magical lovely things that can make buttsex awesome. CAN - I totally don't mind if he's not into it. But he's been totally open about the concept of going down on me, which is another thing that most guys either go "NOOOOOOOOO!" or "OK" at.

If my um... Anal exploits are anything to go by, with enough forplay, the sensation can get mind blowing at times. I guess few straight guys will ever be into it in the long term.

I'm a little put off by oral myself, tastes and all that but oddly curious for it with other guys...   

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@GTY: You've asked this question before, so I'll just re-quote my response to it.

I would say... it depends on how solid the guy is in his own skin/sexuality and masculinity... more emphasis on the latter, specifically the very last bit.

I've hung out with a lot of flaming hetero guys and they liked to make gay jokes about each other. One of their running gags referred to pegging/anal penetration: "it's not gay unless you push back!" Supposedly, no straight guy likes being penetrated. (watch until 2:35). Something about a penis and a hole, specifically a vagina, being manlier, especially when it's the guy doing the penetrating. A penis up their butt is supposed to question their manly manliness. Or something like that.

I guess YMMV though: obviously guys who don't have that kind of view on their sexuality and masculinity won't be as hesitant to try it out. Although it could be an issue of cleanliness (feces... freaking repulsive shit.) and taboo...ness.

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Yesterday was anniversary, and I was expecting us to have sex at some point. When it was starting to get late and he didn't leave his computer, I decided to seduce him. I thought being subtle (kissing him on the neck, playing with his nipples, and then taking off my clothes to lay on the bed) would be enough. However, when I stopped, he interpreted that as me giving up. -_- I finally said, "So you don't want to have sex?"

I fail at seduction apparently (though looking back, he probably thought I took my clothes off because I was getting hot, something I do a lot). When I asked him what I could've done to have made the message clear, he said to reach into his pants. Then the ace in me kicked in and I blurted out, "What if you thought I wanted to steal your pants?" :lol:

Anybody got seduction stories/tips?

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