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slippydooz

The title says it all. I was reading in another thread how some of us are hesitant to start a PM conversation to get to know someone new, just because of how awkward it can be. I have been guilty of that myself. So this is a thread for members who are open to receiving PM's.

Post a reply if you want to participate. Just do it, no need to feel weird about it. Also, be sure to send messages and not just receive.

That's it. Have fun! 8)

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Vorpal Bunny

PM List

Updated: June 29, 2012

This list may be missing some AVENites and/or may contain errors. Please PM either GirlDreamer (the moderator of this forum) or myself if you find something that should be changed.

Please pick someone to PM yourself. Don't just wait for someone to PM you first. The goal is to have a community which PMs each other; ignoring people does not help.

The list works like this:

Clicking the member's name will show their latest status update, basic member information, and buttons (on the bottom, from left to right) for friending, PMing, and finding their content.

A summary of possible discussion topics/interests (if provided) are next to each member's name.

The arrow links to the post each person made in this thread. It is recommended that you read their post to know what they would like to talk about before PMing them.

PM List:

  • @4Psychiatrists – Video games, comic books, horror, animation, F1, sci-fi, geekery. 1937276 [/snapback]
  • – Anything but gossip. 1937350 [/snapback]
  • @aces_wild - Anything but politics and religion. 2049184[/snapback]
  • 2125086 [/snapback]
  • @Akil - Literature, cartoons, anime, books, art, rants, complaints. 2096700 [/snapback]
  • @AmpersAnne - New, looking to meet people
  • @Aloren – Digital art, books, running, audio books, youtube creators, making videos. 1938471 [/snapback]
  • @Altair - Video games, music, philosophy/religion, problems, music, books, movies. 2111134 [/snapback]
  • @amburr - Hockey, reading, baking, political science, caffeine, music. 2064798 [/snapback]
  • - History, Victorian and Renaissance literature, Sherlock, outdoors, music. 2138545 [/snapback]
  • @Ana – Life, religion, music, comedy, political satire, racial issues, goth subculture. 1971449 [/snapback]
  • – Anything interesting. 1937630 [/snapback]
  • @Anath – Music, anime/manga, video games, books, Doctor Who. 1937334 [/snapback]
  • @anniebug – Music, art, movies, cartoons/comics, cooking/baking, books, crafts/hobbies. 1988108 [/snapback]
  • @Aphrodisiac – Anything. 1976695 [/snapback]
  • – Most things. 1938077 [/snapback]
  • @AtheistGuy – Religion, relationships, video games, anime, science, anything. 1946402 [/snapback]
  • @Azanerth 1975065 [/snapback]
  • @biromanticseniorgal – Music, animals, veganism. 1937751 [/snapback]
  • @Borrissey – Music, theatre, films (dark and romantic), books (classics), anything. 2010069 [/snapback]
  • 1990720 [/snapback]
  • @Calcifer – Anime, manga, music, languages, TV shows, films. 1938716 [/snapback]
  • @Caledonia – Cooking, camping, nature, reading, history, re-enactment, steampunk, Doctor Who, NCIS, music, films. 1990615 [/snapback]
  • @Catalyst – Stuff. 1938181 [/snapback]
  • – Anything, music, movies, books, pro wrestling, Pokemon, animals, veganism. 1953726 [/snapback]
  • @cenlyra – Languages, reading. 1950852 [/snapback]
  • @Chelcii 1986683 [/snapback]
  • @cheyenneLS 1938954 [/snapback]
  • @clarity262 – Young aces. 1936915 [/snapback]
  • @cleuchtturm - Music, instruments, sci-fi, books, outer space, german language, word play/games, tea, odd observations of people, anything funny2029573[/snapback]
  • - 2181899 [/snapback]
  • @confused24/7 1966794 [/snapback]
  • @CooCoo - open-minded, sexuality, religion, living in other countries/ international experiences (I'm also VERY interested about you teling me about your own country) as well as anime, music, video games 2168951 [/snapback]
  • @CornOnDaCobb – NHL, sports, video games, lots of music, foreign languages, being a teenager, cultures, chess, anime. 1991992[/snapback]
  • - Questions, general chat. 2150404[/snapback]
  • @Dendritic Trees 2112815 [/snapback]
  • @dezdimona - Movies, food, psychology, philosophy. 2149840[/snapback]
  • @Disco+ – Computers, games, hobbies. 1937332 [/snapback]
  • {member="divisionten"] - cosplay, sewing, painting, video games 2164570 [/snapback]
  • @djembegirl - Loves to meet new people
  • @Doctor of Tardis Doctor Who, rock, books, circuit bending, parkour, gender. 1978193 [/snapback]
  • @Doppel – Most things. 1937931 [/snapback]
  • @DracoBorealis – Music, running, fitness, martial arts, cats and dogs, science, mythology, tea, astrophysics. 1937929 [/snapback]
  • @dragonflyy - Loves to talk, wants to meet more people like her 2168850 [/snapback]
  • @dreams.lord08 - Dogs, drawing, doodling, journaling, music. 2110758 [/snapback]
  • @Durandal - Photography, dogs. 2103686 [/snapback]
  • @eamonn – Anthropology, philosophy, music, video games, vegetarianism, sexuality, running, alcohol, fiction. 1943965 [/snapback]
  • @ehna650 - Travelling, history, books, music (rock or classical), photography. 2040300[/snapback]
  • @Elis 2138050 [/snapback]
  • @Elo - Free cake and tea. 2102656 [/snapback]
  • @emberwing - 2178691 [/snapback]
  • @Esoteric – Comics, motorcycles, writing, art, gender, music, real life, anything. 1937293 [/snapback]
  • @Face – Travelling, coding, economics, science, people. 1939611 [/snapback]
  • @Faelights – PM for email. 1945980 [/snapback]
  • @Faybee - Music, books, life, animals, art. 2055978[/snapback]
  • @Feather – Anything, Sherlock, Doctor Who, activism, reading. 1954999 [/snapback]
  • @FenrisWolf - Religion, culture, animals, things so bad they're good. 2055989[/snapback]
  • @Flour Confessor – Book, stuff from the 90’s, music, ghosts, hunting of ghosts, SNES/N64 era video games, coffee, cat juggling. 1992565 [/snapback]
  • @Fourier 2116741 [/snapback]
  • @Frederika Berncastel 1968535 [/snapback]
  • @FrozenCherry – Dogs, studying, handicrafts, sporting, hiking, nature, writing, weddings. 1937018 [/snapback]
  • @Gabriella 1938348 [/snapback]
  • @Gambist 1936918 [/snapback]
  • @Gatita Pequeña - Anything 2089375 [/snapback]
  • @GirlDreamer - Most things except gaming and anime. 2064877 [/snapback]
  • @Glaw Scriven – Writing, art, music, philosophy, psychology, life. 1949999 [/snapback]
  • @glitchunter – Anything. 1950511 [/snapback]
  • @God's Wolf – Music, wolves, nature, learning. 1937077 [/snapback]
  • – May not be prompt in answering. 2003588 [/snapback]
  • @GreyAngel – Writing, reading, science, history, anime, mysteries. 1939284 [/snapback]
  • @guitar sunshine – Guitar, art related topics, anything. 1991270 [/snapback]
  • @Gylfie – Games, literature, philosophy, astronomy, outdoors, music, art, design. 1937059 [/snapback]
  • @Haruka – Writing, science, cartoons, philosophy. 1939443 [/snapback]
  • @Hailtheplatypus – Everything, music, politics, anime. 1988119 [/snapback]
  • @HeidiUK 1953374 [/snapback]
  • @Hermione – Medicine, politics, steampunk, body mod, 80’s metal. 1937959 [/snapback]
  • @HighwayToHell 2149374 [/snapback]
  • @Holding Hands 2090563 [/snapback]
  • @hydepark123 2101926 [/snapback]
  • @I'm_just_me 1941705 [/snapback]
  • @infinityhype – Reading, writing, movies, TV shows, philosophy, psychology. 1948587 [/snapback]
  • @Infinity∞ – Animation/cartoons, art (customizes MLP figures), animals and nature, mythology, video games, reading, music. 2003555 [/snapback]
  • @Jadelinne - 2172221 [/snapback]
  • @JackSparrow 1953197 [/snapback]
  • @Jenksy 1949805 [/snapback]
  • @jiezhang – Marriage. 1988398 [/snapback]
  • @Jillianimal – Psychology, animals, visibility, traveling, viral videos. 1946044 [/snapback]
  • @JustLunar – Software engineering, Poi/juggling, creative writing, ANIMU, philosophy, video gaming. 1937620 [/snapback]
  • @kaetix - Sharing and listening. 2129650[/snapback]
  • – Trans/gender issues, spirituality, meditation, aromanticness, coffee, weather, nature, music, life. 1946409 [/snapback]
  • @Kittybot - Anything 2042058[/snapback]
  • @layla - Anything 2055944[/snapback]
  • @LaMaestra – Crime, computers, history, languages, Aston Villa FC, Henry David Thoreau, Tomas Ledin. 1941135 [/snapback]
  • 1936936 [/snapback]
  • @leonid – Movies, society and culture, languages. 1956731 [/snapback]
  • 1971373 [/snapback]
  • @Liam - Nerdfighters, Sherlock/Doctor Who, music, books/literature, writing, science, gender, anything. 2061388 [/snapback]
  • @loopytheone - Animals, Pokemon, anime, sports, science. 2057121[/snapback]
  • 1937669 [/snapback]
  • @Lorelie Lee Long – Writing, reading, fandom, sci-fi, Robert A Heinlein, astrophysics. 1946654 [/snapback]
  • @Lorriana 1990658 [/snapback]
  • @Lost On Purpose – Open to anything. 2025163[/snapback]
  • @LovelyDusk – Anime, cats, learning about different cultures and languages, J-Pop and K-Pop, anything. 1992319 [/snapback]
  • @Majnun - Cartoons, anime, computers, religion, indie and retro games, creepy/funny online stuff, sexual/romantic categories, fetishes. 2026631[/snapback]
  • @marie18 - medicine, psychology, dogs, music, baking/cooking, skiing, softball, philosophy 2175511 [/snapback]
  • - Would love to meet new people and is looking for a potential partner
  • – Books (especially horror), movies, video games, writing, theatre. 1993873[/snapback]
  • @mid-daymoon - Anything. 2079049 [/snapback]
  • @Miranda B - Anything. 2127706 [/snapback]
  • @Mimzee - Music, guitar, cooking, reading, camping, animals, painting, weaving, spinning, Western Washington. 2065498 [/snapback]
  • - Movies, video games, music, books, rally racing, Transformers toys. 2047423[/snapback]
  • @Moon Thief – Anything. 1937787 [/snapback]
  • @Morty – Music, music therapy, birds, travel, animals, books, Christianity. 1938934 [/snapback]
  • @Narrow Mullen – Anything. 1938714 [/snapback]
  • @Narval - Adventure, outdoors, anime, general Francophilia, physics, science, reading, anything. 2051713 [/snapback]
  • @Natari - Japanese culture/language, sewing, crafting, chemistry, Dr. Who, asexuality. 2149346 [/snapback]
  • @Nathan Blair – Books, writing, relationships. 1946790 [/snapback]
  • @NevadaWolf – Nature, spirituality, sci-fi, fantasy, outdoors, history, travel, archaeology. 1938929 [/snapback]
  • – Linguistics, jazz, energy work, sociology, psychology, languages. 1958446 [/snapback]
  • 1967638 [/snapback]
  • @parity - Anything, theatre, sewing, baseball. 2092663 [/snapback]
  • – Music, gaming, random things, Pokemon, agony aunt. 1937942 [/snapback]
  • @Philip027 – Video games. 1937984 [/snapback]
  • - Music, anything. 2142497 [/snapback]
  • – Music, asexuality, Doctor Who, cooking, books. 1980617 [/snapback]
  • @preciousillusions - Reading (Stephen King), music, writing, vegen. 2049158[/snapback]
  • 1937296 [/snapback]
  • @Questionably Sane 1937566 [/snapback]
  • @Qutenkuddly – Art, anthropology, folklore, martial arts, photography, spirituality, social commentary. 1938289 [/snapback]
  • @Radioactive Goat – Music, animals, video games. 1971907 [/snapback]
  • @rainbowdementia 2137081 [/snapback]
  • @Raquel Castellani – Culture, music, movies, arts, drawing, fashion, sewing, learning languages, anything. 1976436 [/snapback]
  • – MLP, music, TV, politics, religion, animals, anything. 1937322 [/snapback]
  • @Ravenevermore – Poetry, books, art, artists, music, movies. 1980283 [/snapback]
  • @Redbeard – Video games, travelling, stereo photography, software engineering. 1936998 [/snapback]
  • @ReiZK – Anything, math, sci-fi, cupcakes, puzzles, industrial music. 1937053 [/snapback]
  • @Rivan Vox - Life, adventure, romance, math, grammar, mongooses. 2079061 [/snapback]
  • – Travelling, sports, science, astronomy, adventure, internet. 1953154 [/snapback]
  • - Anything 2128658 [/snapback]
  • – Travel, DIY crafts, music, Celtic folklore, fairy tales, literature, otherkin, religion, politics. 1937289 [/snapback]
  • – Games, sci-fi, books, anime, Harry Potter. 1949680 [/snapback]
  • @sd1895 - Literature (especially Victorian, including Sherlock Holmes), politics and current affairs or general chat
  • @Seele – Video games, anime, books. 1946035 [/snapback]
  • @Serrin 1965941 [/snapback]
  • @Shaded - Anime, writing, books, anything. 2078726 [/snapback]
  • @Shadow Link – Sports, art, music, religion, video games, politics, television (Doctor Who, Merlin, CSI). 1955196 [/snapback]
  • @SheridanFaith – Animal lover, vegetarian, sports, movies (especially horror), music (80’s pop), serious sweet tooth. 2019509[/snapback]
  • - Anything. 2071973 [/snapback]
  • – Helping, programming, mathematics, contemporary art, music, anything. 1942017 [/snapback]
  • @skenasis – Anything, Pokemon, crafts, video games, body modification, TV. 1937721 [/snapback]
  • @skmetoff - Fetishes, statistics, country music, music, TV, MLP, impressionism. 2079344 [/snapback]
  • – Cats, dogs, camping, movies, philosophy, law. 1946117 [/snapback]
  • @slippydooz – Anything. 1937612 [/snapback]
  • @Soccer Maniac – Sports, anime, manga, duct tape, video games, stories. 1946020 [/snapback]
  • @Solivagant - Science, literature, feminism/human rights, gender, music, video games, Sherlock/Doctor Who, giving advice. 2129661 [/snapback]
  • @Song Lily -
  • @Sparky29252 - Glad to talk about any subject
  • @Stormharrier – Warhammer 40K, video games, reading/writing fiction, anything bizarre or nerdy. 1937525 [/snapback]
  • @Sweet and Tender Hooligan 2010612[/snapback]
  • 1937656 [/snapback]
  • - Under 30 please. 2104563 [/snapback]
  • @TaDa 1980600 [/snapback]
  • - Video games, art, music. 1976174 [/snapback]
  • @tantopat – Animation, Havemercy book series, prog rock, musical theatre, slash fiction, Tron. 1937914 [/snapback]
  • @TheFallen – Harry Potter, video games, psychology, books, swimming. 1938933 [/snapback]
  • 2102212 [/snapback]
  • @The Pixel Monk – Reading, sci-fi, fantasy, writing, philosophy, classic rock, film/TV, video games, mythology. 1938927 [/snapback]
  • - Music, musical theatre. 2090946 [/snapback]
  • – Helping, psychology, writing, reading, nature, animals, music. 1953379 [/snapback]
  • @Tora - Music, reading, writing, anime/manga, friendship, languages, life, everything. 2086164 [/snapback]
  • @Torraed – Music, TV, movies, juggling, Star Trek, space, time, life, hobbies, travel, AVEN. 1938290 [/snapback]
  • @Touchofinsight - Intellectual things. 2056949[/snapback]
  • @trewdys - Anime, video games, psychology, music, science & technology, gender. 2103090 [/snapback]
  • @Turning Similarity – Pokemon, writing, math, English, fantasy, tennis, Spanish, Scrabble, Pictionary. 1953072 [/snapback]
  • – Music, movies (horror), tattoos, piercings, zombies, computer nerdery. 1943328 [/snapback]
  • – Music, sharing experiences. 1937440 [/snapback]
  • @Urban_Sidhe – Anything, anime, costumes, video games, steampunk, music, random scenarios. 1937091 [/snapback]
  • @vadbaxter 1971398 [/snapback]
  • @Vampyremage – Body modification, metal, tabletop roleplaying, pro wrestling, otherkin, gender. 1937305 [/snapback]
  • @WhatGhost – Animation, books, music, video games, web comics. 1938117 [/snapback]
  • @Wineblood – Music, video games, anime, TV, nerdy stuff. 1938338 [/snapback]
  • @Wookieinmashoo - Art, travel, spirituality, mythology, supernatural, animals, "taboo" topics, philosophy, anime, games. 2137102 [/snapback]
  • @Wozzeck – Classical music, guitars, Pokemon, tea. 1937531 [/snapback]
  • @wulfgar83 – Fitness, comics, fantasy books, reading, Real Housewives of New Jersey. 1954046 [/snapback]
  • @xanthesun – French, Japanese, health, food. 1939586 [/snapback]
  • @YouAreYummy – Women issues, cooking, life styles, trends, sports, mental disorders, economy. 1938161 [/snapback]
  • @Zombie-apocalypse - Random. 2147689 [/snapback]

This post was originally by Birdwing. Her last update to the list was October 9th, 2011. In order to continue giving you an up to date PM list, I have taken over.

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Wineblood

Oh thanks, a thread made especially for me :P

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Kisa the Maccabee

Ooooh fun ^___^

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Qutenkringley

To PM or not to PM, that is the... oh, sod it, PM away. :)

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Esoteric

I like this idea. I'm open to chatting about anything. :cake:

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CallOfAComa

I like this idea, so I tried it, then quickly decided against it. :unsure: I'm still too deep in the awkward newbie stage. I'll try again in a week or so.

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Seele

Sounds like fun.

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clarity262

I'm up to talk to any of the young Aces out there (or anyone really). PM away!

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Gambist

I'm in awkward newbie mode. PM me if you must.

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Kisa the Maccabee

For all the awkward newbies, I've been here for about 5 months...I'm still awkward :P So basically don't be afraid of us, I promise we don't bite. :)

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Vampyremage

I say PM away. I've certainly PMed people out of the blue just because I had a question or comment about them. Most of us here are pretty open to such things.

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Soccer Maniac

A little awkward.... But totally open to making friends. I'm not very worldly, so I may or may not be able to throughly discuss anything.... Awkward........... :blink:

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WhatGhost

Alright, I'm in. The more random the conversation the better. ^_^

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leeleekitty

PM me :D PLEASE! I'm not good at starting conversations but I can continue them like a boss :D

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AnotherMember

Has anyone send PMs so far? LOL. Time ago, I sent PM to some of the people I have seen in this thread, but for informative reasons. Also I have some of this users in fb or Skype where never talk LOL (I do talk, but... havent happened yet with them). Anyway, if someone wants to PM they can, I will reply (if I understand what they say :lol:)

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Qutenkringley

As this discussion rapidly approaches its second page of comments, I realize there's one flaw with this idea; how are people to find out who's fine with being PM'd without having to seach through pages and pages of comments in discussion?

It might be a better idea, perhaps, to make it clear in one's profile or, as Birdwing has done, in one's signature.

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Qutenkringley

As this discussion rapidly approaches its second page of comments, I realize there's one flaw with this idea; how are people to find out who's fine with being PM'd without having to seach through pages and pages of comments in discussion?

It might be a better idea, perhaps, to make it clear in one's profile or, as Birdwing has done, in one's signature.

Perhaps OP could keep a list up top in the first post? Or I will, in the second post...I can totally watch this thread and do that. I can even link each person's PM clicky button thing to speed up the process! :lol:

*goes to do said thing*

A list at the top is a great idea, so long as someone is willing to maintain it. :)

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NevadaWolf

Heck I'll volunteer! Can't guarantee I'll be prompt in answering, but I'll do my best. I prefer typing over talking so I'm not as shy online as I am in the real world.

:-)

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Wineblood

Also up for getting PMed.

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Faelights

Always up for a PM!!!

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Aloren

Yay this thread is because of me! xD please add me to the list.

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Torraed

Sure, why not? Add my name to the list. :P

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Redbeard

Topics of interest include (but are not necessarily limited to):

  • Video Game Collecting (My collection ranges from a Coleco Telstar up through a Nintendo 3DS)
  • Places I've Been (Western US and Canadian Rockies, so far)
  • Stereo Photography (In 3D!)
  • Software Engineering (C#, testing, occasional random foray into Atari playing robots)

Topics such as music or sports are likely to result in blank stares.

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