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Good god after reading this the loneliness around me screams I want a cuddle buddy :)

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:D I would like to cuddle during watching a movie, or waiting at the bus stop...but not in bed. I wouldn´t fall asleep. :lol:

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Thats a bit hard situation misscuriosity, maybe in some moment he will want to get a bit more of you :angry: But you should try to explain, to se how that works, the worse that could happen its that you fall in love of him and he will have another gf because he cannot be with you :( -_-

Im up for cuddles!!! Just for people to know, i can send myself in a box if you are far of me :wub: LOL

YAY! ill pay the shipping!

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Im up for cuddles!!! Just for people to know, i can send myself in a box if you are far of me :wub: LOL

Damn Yummy, you are my dream girl :wub:

:wub: I'm letting my hair to grow :lol: :wub:

Thats a bit hard situation misscuriosity, maybe in some moment he will want to get a bit more of you :angry: But you should try to explain, to se how that works, the worse that could happen its that you fall in love of him and he will have another gf because he cannot be with you :( -_-

Im up for cuddles!!! Just for people to know, i can send myself in a box if you are far of me :wub: LOL

YAY! ill pay the shipping!

Now Only i need its to find a big box LOL :lol:

All i ever wanted to hear :wub: haha :lol: :P

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Sounds nice...but then I'll be sad when they run off after I start tossing, turning, moaning and screaming from nightmares and sleep paralysis.

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Qutenkuddly

I miss cuddles. Maybe not the sleeping together so much, as I prefer having freedom of movement in my sleep, but someone to snuggle up to on the sofa whilst watching a film and munching on popcorn...

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herpaderderderderder

Yes. I wish I could cuddle with my boyfriend, but he's in the US, and I'm in Canada. Distance is hard.

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FrozenCherry

:wub: I'm letting my hair to grow :lol: :wub:

:o Marry me :cake:

...Why is that men just do not get that... One thing, to grow hair and that is too much to demand... :P :lol:

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Blunderbuss

Sometimes I would love to have somebody to cuddle with :D

But nobody wants to. So I cuddle with my favourite doll and when it's hot outside and inside and all around,

I like to be alone in bed. But I'm definitely ok with somebody to cuddle! ♥

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Cuddles me for free + a free portion of cake, offer just for tonight! :lol:

...tomorrow I would have ate all the cake LOL

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All i can say is, when my mum wakes me up in the morning, she often mistakenly kisses my cat instead of me. On account of her having her head on the pillow lol

And yes, 21 and being woken up by mum with a cup of tea and breakfast in bed for my kitty - and proud of it :P

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Only on the bed? ;) I'd happily cuddle anywhere with anyone who isn't sending off creepy "I'm going to sneakily grope/molest you" vibes. :lol:

On the couch, on a bus, under a tree, in the tub....Ok now I'm feeling lonely. :(

I change my answer to this actually.

................in the tub?

Never said anything about being naked. And it's probably cooler in there, temp-wise.

You care so much about temperature. That is funny.

:lol: Wait, so you're weirded out by bath-tub cuddles, but you crossed out avoiding cuddles with someone who might be inclined to molest you??? :huh:

And the tub thing...um...well that would be with the "ideal ace relationship" scenario. XD I secretly think it might be fun to take a bath with somebody in a non-sexual way. :3 It's kinda like when a pair of critters groom each other affectionately....or something. *suddenly feels sheepish and hides face under sleeve*

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Only on the bed? ;) I'd happily cuddle anywhere with anyone who isn't sending off creepy "I'm going to sneakily grope/molest you" vibes. :lol:

On the couch, on a bus, under a tree, in the tub....Ok now I'm feeling lonely. :(

I change my answer to this actually.

................in the tub?

Never said anything about being naked. And it's probably cooler in there, temp-wise.

You care so much about temperature. That is funny.

:lol: Wait, so you're weirded out by bath-tub cuddles, but you crossed out avoiding cuddles with someone who might be inclined to molest you??? :huh:

And the tub thing...um...well that would be with the "ideal ace relationship" scenario. XD I secretly think it might be fun to take a bath with somebody in a non-sexual way. :3 It's kinda like when a pair of critters groom each other affectionately....or something. *suddenly feels sheepish and hides face under sleeve*

Well, I'm one of those never-nudes, but it'd be totally cool if we had a giant tub and swimsuits on. Maybe some plastic boats... 8D

I crossed out the people who might be inclined to molest me because I already have the one person I want to cuddle with. I don't want anyone else, molest-y or not.

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Qutenkuddly

Yes. I wish I could cuddle with my boyfriend, but he's in the US, and I'm in Canada. Distance is hard.

Irony. I'm in Canada, my girlfriend is in the US.

I feel your pain.

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AdmiralAddax

I hate being touched, but there comes a time when I feel that loneliness too. Strangely, the times I feel like hugging, cuddling, being held, are when I'm sick and stuck at home. :blink:

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I love naked cuddling , but you cant trust anyone with naked anything, so it never happens. Skin on skin contact , the smoothness , the warmth, always super comforting.

Then again its like soooo hard to find someone you can trust with REGULAR cuddling. My best friend and I used to cuddle, but then she couldn't control herself anymore so i just stopped outright hugging or touching her. Completely ruined the friendship.

Thats why im totally hoping I find an ace friend in Florida sometime.

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I have a body pillow which serves the purpose. It has the advantage of not snoring, not breathing bad breath on me, and not talking to me when I'm trying to sleep. On the other hand, it doesn't cuddle me back. :(

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Hmm. OP, are there not any escort agencies in your area? Sexual people have sexual needs, so they might pay for an escort. I'm sure your money is as good to them as anyone else's, so ask them for an escort with whom you could cuddle-only for the night? The escort gets payed, you get cuddled; everybody wins :D

Come to think of it, I'm thankful that I don't desire cuddling or any other physical or emotional contact. Anyway, the services of an escort agency is only one option. If you have the time and the energy, you could try hunting down a cuddle buddy who works free of charge.

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FrozenCherry

Hmm. OP, are there not any escort agencies in your area? Sexual people have sexual needs, so they might pay for an escort. I'm sure your money is as good to them as anyone else's, so ask them for an escort with whom you could cuddle-only for the night? The escort gets payed, you get cuddled; everybody wins :D

Come to think of it, I'm thankful that I don't desire cuddling or any other physical or emotional contact. Anyway, the services of an escort agency is only one option. If you have the time and the energy, you could try hunting down a cuddle buddy who works free of charge.

Do you have any idea how expensive is an escort??? :o They want more money than women without fucking. At least in my area.

There is idea for asexual male students etc. who needs money. As an escort you get hell lotta money even without fucking :)

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Hmm. OP, are there not any escort agencies in your area? Sexual people have sexual needs, so they might pay for an escort. I'm sure your money is as good to them as anyone else's, so ask them for an escort with whom you could cuddle-only for the night? The escort gets payed, you get cuddled; everybody wins :D

Come to think of it, I'm thankful that I don't desire cuddling or any other physical or emotional contact. Anyway, the services of an escort agency is only one option. If you have the time and the energy, you could try hunting down a cuddle buddy who works free of charge.

Do you have any idea how expensive is an escort??? :o They want more money than women without fucking. At least in my area.

There is idea for asexual male students etc. who needs money. As an escort you get hell lotta money even without fucking :)

I was once so naive to think escorts were prostitutes for people who just wanted somebody to go out to dinner with or such, no sex. I thought that's why they were called escorts, because they escorted people places. I thought the ones who did sex were just called prostitutes. :rolleyes:

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Actually Cherry, out of interest I went and googled the price lists of some well known agencies. An hour seems to cost somewhere around 100-200 euros on average. That's not too bad, considering that you don't buy an escort for every night ;)

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Actually Cherry, out of interest I went and googled the price lists of some well known agencies. An hour seems to cost somewhere around 100-200 euros on average. That's not too bad, considering that you don't buy an escort for every night ;)

When I asked they said 350-500 euros. And if one gets money less than that it IS expensive ;)

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Actually Cherry, out of interest I went and googled the price lists of some well known agencies. An hour seems to cost somewhere around 100-200 euros on average. That's not too bad, considering that you don't buy an escort for every night ;)

When I asked they said 350-500 euros. And if one gets money less than that it IS expensive ;)

My my, just where do you live? :blink:

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My my, just where do you live? :blink:

I am not telling :cake:

Ok :) Anyway, OP, the prices seem to vary greatly so in case you do decide to give an escort a try, remember to compare the prices first -_-

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In my experience with taxis, if you use them regularly, you can get a discounted rate in return for loyalty/frequent use/etc. Could you negotiate the same thing with an escort service?

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herpaderderderderder

Yes. I wish I could cuddle with my boyfriend, but he's in the US, and I'm in Canada. Distance is hard.

Irony. I'm in Canada, my girlfriend is in the US.

I feel your pain.

I hope it works out for you. :)
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cthuvianace

I love naked cuddling , but you cant trust anyone with naked anything, so it never happens. Skin on skin contact , the smoothness , the warmth, always super comforting.

Then again its like soooo hard to find someone you can trust with REGULAR cuddling. My best friend and I used to cuddle, but then she couldn't control herself anymore so i just stopped outright hugging or touching her. Completely ruined the friendship.

Thats why im totally hoping I find an ace friend in Florida sometime.

Naked cuddling is lovely. I'd love to be in a relationship where naked cuddles can happen without fear of them trying to do molest-y. This didn't work out so well with my ex. :[

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YES, God, yes. It's one of the things that gets me the most down - that I don't have anybody to cuddle with.

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Only on the bed? ;) I'd happily cuddle anywhere with anyone who isn't sending off creepy "I'm going to sneakily grope/molest you" vibes. :lol:

On the couch, on a bus, under a tree, in the tub....Ok now I'm feeling lonely. :(

I change my answer to this actually.

................in the tub?

Never said anything about being naked. And it's probably cooler in there, temp-wise.

You care so much about temperature. That is funny.

:lol: Wait, so you're weirded out by bath-tub cuddles, but you crossed out avoiding cuddles with someone who might be inclined to molest you??? :huh:

And the tub thing...um...well that would be with the "ideal ace relationship" scenario. XD I secretly think it might be fun to take a bath with somebody in a non-sexual way. :3 It's kinda like when a pair of critters groom each other affectionately....or something. *suddenly feels sheepish and hides face under sleeve*

Well, I'm one of those never-nudes, but it'd be totally cool if we had a giant tub and swimsuits on. Maybe some plastic boats... 8D

I crossed out the people who might be inclined to molest me because I already have the one person I want to cuddle with. I don't want anyone else, molest-y or not.

Plastic boats, heck yeah! And some rubber critters to act as sea monsters or something. :3

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