Snao Cone Posted December 5, 2017 Share Posted December 5, 2017 3 minutes ago, LVG said: I always just said hot if I thought I guy was really attractive. Nowadays, I typically just say good looking. I'm moving in the same direction. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Nahteb15 Posted December 5, 2017 Share Posted December 5, 2017 Most of my friends have smallies and whilst I am (apparently) quite good at entertaining them for a few hours at a time I have 0 interest in having any of my own. Spent this weekend with my friends who have 3 girls under the age of 5, 2 dogs and a cat. Needed a day off after to recover and ended up spending the day with my sister-in-law and 4 and a half month old nephew. Last weekend I was at a school Christmas Fayre with my friend and his 2 kids (4&1) which led to some assumptions and quick explanations that I was simply auxiliary au pair for the day. Taste of a "normal" life expected of someone of my age and gender, happier being abnormal in that case...😆 as found it all exhausting! 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
bluedragonwings Posted December 6, 2017 Share Posted December 6, 2017 19 hours ago, borkfork said: I never understood people trying to show off pictures of their significant other I remember some of my older friends came home during xmas season showing off wallet photos of their girlfriends. It was annoying. So when two of them brought them out at the same time, I picked the friend that would be most embarrassed and said "She's hotter". They both got mad at me for different reasons, but man did it cheer me up to do that. 15 hours ago, Octo Claus said: I cannot bring myself to refer to people as “hot” no matter how good looking they are... I certainly don't use that much anymore. Although I have always used "cute" as a descriptor for physical appearance I liked. 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SaturnOOO Posted December 7, 2017 Share Posted December 7, 2017 So the other day I told my friend (who is gay) that I knew I wasn't straight, that I'm attracted to women (she knew that,) but that I don't consider myself gay because I don't desire sex, romance, or any sort of partnership. She is convinced that I'm a lesbian who just hasn't come into her own yet and that I need to hang out with more lesbians. I told her I'd be happy to, but not to hook up I finally reassured her that if some beautiful woman came along one day and swept me off my feet I wouldn't resist. She seemed pacified by that 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Homer Posted December 7, 2017 Share Posted December 7, 2017 On 6.12.2017 at 3:41 AM, bluedragonwings said: I remember some of my older friends came home during xmas season showing off wallet photos of their girlfriends. It was annoying. So when two of them brought them out at the same time, I picked the friend that would be most embarrassed and said "She's hotter". They both got mad at me for different reasons, but man did it cheer me up to do that. Brilliant stuff Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Snao Cone Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 Given the early lesbian experiences I had, I would've probably figured it out a long time ago if it at all applied to me... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SaturnOOO Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 Yeah, and it's not like I have any reason to be invested in not acknowledging my orientation... It's not like I'm in a heterosexual marriage with kids that would lead to all sorts of upheaval or anything. Plus I was questioning if I was gay since high school so it's definitely not this unfamiliar concept that never occurred to me. I told her she was obviously just part of the gay agenda and was trying to recruit me 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Homer Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 At this point I believe that all these worries about sex among peers is either cultural or I am just exceptionally good at ignoring it. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Snao Cone Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 4 hours ago, SaturnOOO said: Yeah, and it's not like I have any reason to be invested in not acknowledging my orientation... It's not like I'm in a heterosexual marriage with kids that would lead to all sorts of upheaval or anything. Plus I was questioning if I was gay since high school so it's definitely not this unfamiliar concept that never occurred to me. I told her she was obviously just part of the gay agenda and was trying to recruit me I wish more lesbians would try to recruit me. 3 hours ago, Grinchmer said: At this point I believe that all these worries about sex among peers is either cultural or I am just exceptionally good at ignoring it. Probably a mix of both. I think it depends on personalities too. You kind of need someone bold enough to ask outright to get other people to start, at least in group environments like my workplace. Or even families. My family is not inclined to ask personal questions. It took my brother probably the better part of a year to outright ask me if I'm asexual, and after I simply and unambiguously said "Yes I am" we just moved on. There was no follow up. It was great. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Elftober Country Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 9 minutes ago, Snao Cone said: I wish more lesbians would try to recruit me. Perhaps the "gay pirate dog" stuff is confusing them, they think you've already been recruited. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Tyke Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 9 minutes ago, Snao Cone said: I wish more lesbians would try to recruit me. Seriously? Or just as a change from being hit on by men? 11 minutes ago, Snao Cone said: It took my brother probably the better part of a year to outright ask me if I'm asexual, and after I simply and unambiguously said "Yes I am" we just moved on. There was no follow up. It was great. No-one has ever asked me. And in those limited occasions where I've told people, the most frequent reply has been been something along the lines of "Oh, really?". Which is British for 'let's change the subject'. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SaturnOOO Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 4 hours ago, Grinchmer said: At this point I believe that all these worries about sex among peers is either cultural or I am just exceptionally good at ignoring it. It probably seems more common than it is when reading AVEN because here is where we'll share it on the occasions when it happens to come up? 1 hour ago, Snao Cone said: I wish more lesbians would try to recruit me. I've been here undercover trying to recruit you for ages, but you're skillfully evasive. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Snao Cone Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 1 hour ago, Octo Claus said: Perhaps the "gay pirate dog" stuff is confusing them, they think you've already been recruited. True! My shrine to gay pirates probably confuses people. 1 hour ago, Midland Tyke said: Seriously? Or just as a change from being hit on by men? I don't get hit on by men nearly as often anymore. I think it comes down to Canadian politeness, for both unwanted advances and people asking if I'm gay. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Snao Cone Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 5 minutes ago, SaturnOOO said: I've been here undercover trying to recruit you for ages, but you're skillfully evasive. You know I'll do it for the gift registry. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Elftober Country Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 6 minutes ago, Snao Cone said: True! My shrine to gay pirates probably confuses people. You had me fooled for a little while! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SaturnOOO Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 1 hour ago, Snao Cone said: You know I'll do it for the gift registry. See? It's all a big joke to you isn't it? How dare you evade my agenda... Edit : "joke" autocorrected twice to "hole" xD 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Snao Cone Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 I'm also more than happy to fawn over beautiful women. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Homer Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 I was sooo close to making a poor and inappropriate joke Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Elftober Country Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 Spoiler 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Snao Cone Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 40 minutes ago, Grinchmer said: I was sooo close to making a poor and inappropriate joke Don't let me stop you. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Homer Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 But I like you 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Snao Cone Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 I will never take something you say about me as an insult because I know deep down inside you love and respect me as your third favourite Canadian, following SaturnOOO and Celine Dion. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Tyke Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 1 hour ago, Grinchmer said: I was sooo close to making a poor and inappropriate joke were you going to get into a hole lot of trouble? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Tyke Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 1 minute ago, Snao Cone said: I will never take something you say about me as an insult because I know deep down inside you love and respect me as your third favourite Canadian, following SaturnOOO and Celine Dion. It's a good job that Canadians don't play proper football, or you'd all be relegated way down his list 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SaturnOOO Posted December 9, 2017 Share Posted December 9, 2017 5 hours ago, Snao Cone said: following SaturnOOO and Celine Dion. Obvi 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Elftober Country Posted December 9, 2017 Share Posted December 9, 2017 4 minutes ago, SaturnOOO said: Obvi I gotta rethink my Canadian league table Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SaturnOOO Posted December 9, 2017 Share Posted December 9, 2017 4 hours ago, Octo Claus said: I gotta rethink my Canadian league table What's that?? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Puck Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 I'm holding an 8 week old puppy who is asleep and I can't remember a single thing I've ever been sad about. What are tears again? 9 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SaturnOOO Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 Pics please! 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Elftober Country Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 On 09/12/2017 at 5:04 AM, SaturnOOO said: What's that?? My favourite Canadians ranked... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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