XTriformisX Posted July 18, 2008 Share Posted July 18, 2008 I am a virgin, which isn't THAT surprising as I'm not even out of my teens yet, but I'm pretty sure I will remain a virgin for the rest of my life, and I'm happy with that. Link to post Share on other sites
peachy Posted July 26, 2008 Share Posted July 26, 2008 I'm a 27 yo virgin. For me, I find it very appealing if I die a virgin. Several of my family members, who are now in their 60s/70s never got married and are virgins and they never gave their viginity a second thought and they're perfectly happy. i want to have a family and kids, but have never found any romantic or sexual interest in a female, and have very very rarely been even slightly amorously interested in males. If you would like a biological child, try researching about "surrogate mothers." I don't know much about the subject, but I've heard stories about couples wanting to have children, where one is sterile, but still want to have a biological child, use a donated egg or sperm, which is then implanted into surrogate mother to carry to term. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted July 26, 2008 Share Posted July 26, 2008 20 YO (will be 21 in little over 2 months) virgin and intend to keep it that way too. Link to post Share on other sites
AProud Posted July 26, 2008 Share Posted July 26, 2008 22-year-old aromantic asexual, 100% virgin. I intend staying this way, and as a Christian I would only lose my virginity in the context of marriage; as I'm aromantic and have no desire for any sort of romantic relationship, I doubt marriage is gonna happen for me, and besides I love being free and single too much; I don't have to make any compromises and I can go and do whatever I want, whenever I want (move house, change location, etc, without having to worry about a husband and kids). I intend staying this way; my biggest "worry" is being lonely, although I have a lot of really enriching platonic relationships, so I doubt that I'll ever be very lonely. Link to post Share on other sites
Subie Posted July 26, 2008 Share Posted July 26, 2008 Good on you, Cowgirl, stick to your morals. Society seems to expect sex almost from the first date. I'm 32 and not a virgin. This was important for me as I had to know that I wasn't just afraid of sex and so avoiding relationships to avoid the act. Of course, I say this in hind-sight. At the time I just went with the flow because I figured that's what a person is supposed to do. <_< Link to post Share on other sites
kt8 Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 17-year-old virgin. In every sense of the word. -Katie Link to post Share on other sites
miss flutterby Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 16 year old and not -.- Ah well, helped me discover myself so I feel better for having done so! Link to post Share on other sites
Sarifus Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 18 year old virgin, and I want to stay that way forever just to spite anyone who'd like to make me otherwise :DI never really had a chance for sex anyway. but I think I avoided those chances to begin with, and I bet if I ended up in such a situation I'd definitely refuse. I have better, more productive things to do. Took the words right out of my mouth. Though, I'm 17...but 18 in a month! lol. I often think that relationships/sexuality would get in the way of things I consider important - not to mention I feel some ammount of disgust towards sexuality anyway...I almost have a split personality about this kind of thing though. My mind hates sexuality, but my body has the occasional craving. It's annoying... Link to post Share on other sites
mabooza Posted August 14, 2008 Share Posted August 14, 2008 23, male, non-virgin (just the once though) I always thought i would wake up and start craving sex but it aint gonna happen. I wouldn't mind being asexual if it weren't for the fact it is so damned difficult to meet someone to have a romantic relationship with. Link to post Share on other sites
Chocolatelover18 Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 19 year old male, virgin. Also a christian, part of the reason why. Link to post Share on other sites
FuTeffla Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 20 yr old heteroromantic virgin. Had a boyfriend who I was in love with, but couldn't even have sexual contact with him, despite trying to force myself. I don't know if it's just a phase, or if I'm a late developer. In a way, I hope it is, purely because I'm afraid of being lonely. I want a loving, long-term relationship, but don't know if I'll find one in my current circumstances. P.S. Society sometimes makes me feel that I'm the only young person in the world who isn't 'doing it'. Glad I'm not. Link to post Share on other sites
potentialsurvivor Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 I'm a 27 year old, non-celibate male virgin... I've had relationships, extra-long-term ones too, I just don't care about that which I have never had (sort of like how I don't care about Heroin or Caviar) Link to post Share on other sites
thylacine Posted August 16, 2008 Share Posted August 16, 2008 Caviar is actually gross. Heroin I've never tried, but I'm certain it's very bad for you. Link to post Share on other sites
Ryan Pawz Posted August 16, 2008 Share Posted August 16, 2008 I'm V, but I waffel on the subject of sex a lot. Well one thing I can say for sure is I don't want to with a female, and if I were to, she would have to be on top, and I would have to be tied or something like that. But I suppose that goes for a same sex partner aswell, so I suppose I could say, any interaction where sex is going to happen to me, I would need to be bound in some way. Thats the only way I would be "up" for it. Link to post Share on other sites
Shockwave Posted August 16, 2008 Share Posted August 16, 2008 (sort of like how I don't care about Heroin or Caviar) Caviar is actually gross. Heroin I've never tried, but I'm certain it's very bad for you. I've tried caviar and actually liked it. I've never tried heroin but I would probably like that too, that's why I've never tried it. Link to post Share on other sites
supergeekgirl Posted August 16, 2008 Share Posted August 16, 2008 I'm a 22-year-old married virgin. :) Link to post Share on other sites
potentialsurvivor Posted August 16, 2008 Share Posted August 16, 2008 I'm a 22-year-old married virgin. :) You are so my hero forever! Or heroine... whatever. You are! Link to post Share on other sites
Judas Posted August 21, 2008 Share Posted August 21, 2008 I've never had a sexual relationship with a girl but I've had full intercourse with another guy on a couple of occasions. It was more his idea than mine and although physically I enjoyed it, mentally I felt next to nothing. Link to post Share on other sites
no.sex.in.my.life Posted August 21, 2008 Share Posted August 21, 2008 Hi! I'm Smartie! Iam vietnamese. I want make friend everybody. Link to post Share on other sites
The Student Posted August 21, 2008 Share Posted August 21, 2008 Virgin Link to post Share on other sites
Talley Posted August 21, 2008 Share Posted August 21, 2008 I'm not a virgin. I don't know what virginity is technically classed as these days, but let's say "any sexual encounter". That being the case, I stopped being a virgin at far too young an age (I couldn't tell you the exact year). If you mean consentual, regular sex, I had that at 19. Which was a shame. I always envisaged that if I did eventually have sex, it would be with someone I spent the rest of my life with. Link to post Share on other sites
Frigi Posted August 21, 2008 Share Posted August 21, 2008 21 year old, aromantic/hetero-romantic (unsure) asexual virgin (sure). Happy with that and planning to remain so for the rest of my life :) Link to post Share on other sites
Jin Kisaragi Posted August 21, 2008 Share Posted August 21, 2008 21 years old, Male, Virgin, heterosexually inclined aromantic asexual. Link to post Share on other sites
Danny77 Posted August 21, 2008 Share Posted August 21, 2008 I love girls! I just hate sex and the thought if sex. Totally spoils the idea of a relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Danny77 Posted August 21, 2008 Share Posted August 21, 2008 I'm not a virgin. I don't know what virginity is technically classed as these days, but let's say "any sexual encounter". That being the case, I stopped being a virgin at far too young an age (I couldn't tell you the exact year). If you mean consentual, regular sex, I had that at 19. Which was a shame. I always envisaged that if I did eventually have sex, it would be with someone I spent the rest of my life with. I'm pretty sure being a virgin means not have actual intercourse. I know a lot of girls out there 'fool around' with each other but they still consider themselves virgins. Link to post Share on other sites
Danny77 Posted August 21, 2008 Share Posted August 21, 2008 I've never had a sexual relationship with a girl but I've had full intercourse with another guy on a couple of occasions. It was more his idea than mine and although physically I enjoyed it, mentally I felt next to nothing. It's not possible for two people of the same gender to have 'full intercourse'... Link to post Share on other sites
ghosts Posted August 21, 2008 Share Posted August 21, 2008 I suppose it depends on what you consider "full intercourse." Also, "virginity" is a really sketchy term... Some may not consider something like oral sex to be something that takes away your virginity, but some would. Link to post Share on other sites
Member21883 Posted August 21, 2008 Share Posted August 21, 2008 I don't consider whether I've had sex or not to be important enough to deserve its own term. Virgin also sort of implies "not yet" to me. Link to post Share on other sites
ghosts Posted August 21, 2008 Share Posted August 21, 2008 Yep, that's another way to look at it. I'm not too crazy about the term "virgin/virginity" myself. Link to post Share on other sites
CrazyCatLover Posted August 21, 2008 Share Posted August 21, 2008 I don't really like the term "virginity," so I will say that I am 20 years old and have never had anal, oral, or vaginal sex, nor "fingering," nor any other type of sexual activity. Side note: I happen to know a sexual person who plans to just masturbate alot if she falls in love with an asexual. Link to post Share on other sites
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