LonePiper Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 And again!I feel this topic should keep current becuase there are loads of asexuals as tis thread shows who honestly do not mind others having sex. Just FYI newbies. Should I perhaps sticky it? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Derp Posted November 14, 2007 Share Posted November 14, 2007 zoes ken - it was and is now corrected :) And I agree Lonepiper. Oh...it was? Doesn't change my answer because I think sex for asexuals is fine, too! I admit I think so too. In the (possibly rare) cases where there is zero pressure involved, so do I. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mindlife Posted November 15, 2007 Share Posted November 15, 2007 I'm an avoidant asexual. Not an antisexual. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Amcan Posted November 16, 2007 Author Share Posted November 16, 2007 And again!I feel this topic should keep current becuase there are loads of asexuals as tis thread shows who honestly do not mind others having sex. Just FYI newbies. Should I perhaps sticky it? Up to you LP. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
LonePiper Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 Okay, I used my awesome modly powers and dunked the thread in super glue. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Mith Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 Eh, let the sexuals have their fun. We have our own fun things to do. Like eating cake. I used to be anti-sexual but I'm not really anymore. Sexuals can do that if they want to. I still don't like having sex myself, though. It's just not very fun, but apparently I'm good at it and it makes the people I love happy. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Shinnok Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 To each is own. No one is forced to do it or not do it they can do it or not it's their choice. I gave up on saying how bad sex was because no one really agreed with me so I gave up and now I just say "whatever I don't care what the world does" 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mindlife Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 I'm indifferent to sex. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
CLF Posted November 28, 2007 Share Posted November 28, 2007 deleted Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Saint Destruction Posted December 7, 2007 Share Posted December 7, 2007 Toast to tolerance! As long as no one is hurting anyone else, I say everyone should do whatever it is that makes them happy. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Morgenstern Posted December 9, 2007 Share Posted December 9, 2007 As long as I don't have to have sex I'm totally sex positive. There's nothing wrong with any kind of sex between consenting adults, I don't look down on people because they have other opinions about sex and relationships. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
............ Posted December 11, 2007 Share Posted December 11, 2007 Definitely. I always thought, sex is not inherently good or bad, but, if a person has reason to do it ('reason' includes 'just wanting to') and it isn't hurting anyone else, go ahead. Sex is fine, as long as it is between two people capable of giving informed consent. (Which could be the lead-in to a completely different ramble, but I shall refrain...) Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Goonie Posted December 12, 2007 Share Posted December 12, 2007 what people do is their own business... :) Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Member19416 Posted December 15, 2007 Share Posted December 15, 2007 Sexual people can have sex all they want as long as it does not involve me. And is not hurting anyone. And honestly, if people didn't have sex, the human race would die out, and even though on some days I think this could be a good thing, I would rather that our race continue. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lucy Locket Posted December 23, 2007 Share Posted December 23, 2007 I still consider myself asexual and bordering on the antisexual, but now I've had sex, it isn't as bad as all that. I still say there are better ways to show your affection, and I can't pretend to see why sexuals are so keen on it. But it's tolerable. Certainly not the horror - movie style scenario I envisaged. Other people can do what they like. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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Simplexity Posted December 28, 2007 Share Posted December 28, 2007 ^That's the thing isn't it? I'm not anti-sexual and I'm a tolerant person but it seems the same cannot be said all the time about sexuals. Joy Davidson from the Montel show and the ladies on being an example of this. I know I would feel really uncomfortable if I was in David's position there. Kudos to him and everyone else for trying to lift the veil of ignorance on this in spite of the close-mindedness of some. It frustrates me that many people cannot accept each others differences and let everyone be happy. Its like its part of human nature...and I think it is because of all this that resentment is bred and we end up with some who are actually anti-sexual. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mechafox Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 That's the thing isn't it? I'm not anti-sexual and I'm a tolerant person but it seems the same cannot be said all the time about sexuals. There are a lot of asshole sexuals out there, but there are also a lot of really fucking cool sexuals out there. (Pardon the unintentional pun.) Not to mention the fact that just because someone else is being a dick doesn't mean I have to be one as well. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Simplexity Posted January 9, 2008 Share Posted January 9, 2008 Which is the point I'm making. Sorry if I was unclear about that before. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
natsume Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 would rather have Quote Link to post Share on other sites
E.winEla Posted January 17, 2008 Share Posted January 17, 2008 I can enjoy cuddling, and kissing is okay, although I don't prefer it, but I don't think any of it could arouse me to the point where I'd want to engage in sexual intercourse or even outercourse. There's like some line of awareness concerning the whole situation that is somehow near impossible to cross...I feel like I couldn't consciously allow myself to go there...not because I'm ashamed of it, but because I don't feel like I'd need to. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Apollonian Posted January 28, 2008 Share Posted January 28, 2008 I couldn't care less if other people have sex. It's none of my business. But the converse should be true as well. Why should anyone else care if I'm not having sex? What business is that of theirs? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
thewrll Posted February 9, 2008 Share Posted February 9, 2008 Yeah with the first poster I feel that we are all open to what makes us who we are. So if you are sexual have sex if as society still does not recognize you are asexual then dont have sex, and I mean total asexual not the grey asexual. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ThePieMaker Posted February 9, 2008 Share Posted February 9, 2008 Of course people should be able to have sex, once they are mature enough that is. I don't think sex is bad at all because it's part of nature and oddly enough such a beautiful thing can come out of it. Of course sexuals should be able to have sex just like I have every right not to have sex. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Essay Posted February 11, 2008 Share Posted February 11, 2008 I not only don't mind other people having sex, I have tried it myself. When I was younger, a couple times before I understood my own sexuality. I didn't hate it, it didn't scare me. I just didn't want to. I didn't enjoy it, I never felt any urges. So, I gave up for many years until I ran headfirst into this forum, and met some really awesome people that made me feel like I was sane (well, not TOO sane). But I am not one of those who was effected by a trouble past. My asexuality has been there since the beginning, but I don't have an problems with sex for other people. HER HERE Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Kamtoad Posted February 11, 2008 Share Posted February 11, 2008 I find sex extremely interesting - I'm just not interested in having it myself. So long as it's consensual and everything, then that's great! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
manwithnoname Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 Yeah I believe sexuals should an enjoy sex. Good for them. It's something I desire to be like unfortunately. I also believe that an asexual - maybe not should - but could have sex with their sexual partner to make their partner happy. After all, their sexual partner does lots of non-sexual things to make you feel happy, don't they?? like chatting, going for walks, whatever you like to do OUT of bed. Does that make sense? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
scissorrun Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 i don't mind if other people are having sex, as long as they don't try to involve me in it. whatever they wanna do is up to them. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Ampzr Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 I've always felt this way. People should be able to freely express themselves and do what makes them happy! Go have sex sexual people, with whoever makes you happy! :) Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Goodgrove Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 Absolutely. I don't mind if others do it, as long as I don't have to. I can in a way understand the importance of sex to others. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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