Georgetown Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 Alcohol is often used by sexuals and romantics as a social lubricant to break through awkward communication barriers and facilitate "action", so it makes sense right off the bat that alcohol would be less popular among asexuals and aromantics than among people with different orientations. Nonetheless, I enjoy drinking and actually think drinking together is something worth sharing in any adult relationship, albeit responsibly and properly and all that. So, here's a question for asexuals... do you like booze? 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 Well, I'm not sure about that. I drink wine and beer in moderation because I enjoy it and like to unwind with it. Some people drink it to excess to get drunk, which is alien to me because I think it's nice in small quantities whilst spending time with friends/family. Sure, many then go on to have sex because it lowers a person's inhibitions but I don't see alcohol as being linked to sexual people. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Dj91 Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 I would imagine the reasons for drinking are the same regardless of sexual/asexual. It can help people in social situations regardless of whether it has anything to do with sex. It can also hinder these same things. Sex is a result of social interaction that may not happen otherwise. Just like getting into an argument or fight. Drinking also doesn't just boil around social aspects. People drink for all sorts of reasons. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
everywhere and nowhere Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 Absolutely hate and never drink it. First barrier to alcohol consumption: I just can't stand the taste of any alcoholic beverage. It ranges from "unpleasant" to "revolting" for me. Second barrier: I feel quite much contempt for its effects. On the one hand, I have never actually been drunk, but on the other hand, I have seen and heard enough drunk people to say with quite much certainty that I just don't want to be in such state. I haven't tried any alcohol for many years and I doubt if I ever will again. Even on New Year's Eve I drink non-alcoholic champagne for children (which tastes more like some very artificial lemonade that like champagne minus alcohol). On my mother's wedding the other guests drank champagne and I asked for water in a champagne glass instead. I don't have a generalized anti-drug stance, but I don't think that psychoactive substances which only make you feel better are worth trying. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Groobly Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 Yeeeeah. I love it. I'm gonna get my drink on tonight. Usually only beer, but I like my wine and liquors too. Honestly anything that gets the job done is good enough for me. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Pramana Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 I prefer doing psychedelics at social events. Makes everything seem more interesting. And then I drink a limited amount of alcohol to level it out. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
the_rebecca Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 I’m a teetotaler, but not for reasons related to my orientation. Both my parents were alcoholics, and there would be just too high of a statistical risk that I would become one too. I’m much more a fan of staying up late and getting slap happy (which people often ask if I’m drunk because it induces similar psychological states haha) Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lord Jade Cross Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 . 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 No, it tastes really nasty. Plus the rest of what Jade Cross said, minus the bad smell because I can't smell anything. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Georgetown Posted December 25, 2017 Author Share Posted December 25, 2017 1 hour ago, The Unknown Warrior said: Well, I'm not sure about that. I drink wine and beer in moderation because I enjoy it and like to unwind with it. Some people drink it to excess to get drunk, which is alien to me because I think it's nice in small quantities whilst spending time with friends/family. Sure, many then go on to have sex because it lowers a person's inhibitions but I don't see alcohol as being linked to sexual people. When I went to college and partied with people, there was definitely a sense of drinking so that one could "talk to girls". That may also have been just me when I was still pretending to be straight :). Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 9 minutes ago, Georgetown said: When I went to college and partied with people, there was definitely a sense of drinking so that one could "talk to girls". That may also have been just me when I was still pretending to be straight :). Oh yes, I realise sexual people use it for that reason. I just mean as someone that is asexual I drink alcohol for different reasons and I can't imagine asexuals are less likely to drink. I never went to parties growing up. Didn't fit in etc. etc. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Philip027 Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 No. I actually don't even really like it when others around me drink alcohol unless I know they can be responsible about it, because I have several bad recollections from my childhood involving alcohol that I'm pretty sure left behind some degree of trauma. Plus yeah, it usually just smells and tastes nasty. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Rainking Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 I’ll drink if I’m out with friends or colleagues. I’ll even take a glass or two with dinner from time to time. It can be a good (and tasty) socialising tool, no matter what the situation. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Scott1989 Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 I drink socially, though it did take a while to find something that I like. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Polygon Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 Spoiler Sometimes. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
divided_sky Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 Nevermind. Mods feel free to delete Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Real Estate RICO Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 I used to, but I kicked that out of my life because I hated how I was using it as a coping mechanism, and I especially hated what kind of person it was turning me into. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Muledeer Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 Yes, I like to drink alcohol. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Muledeer Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 1 hour ago, Rainking said: I’ll drink if I’m out with friends or colleagues. I’ll even take a glass or two with dinner from time to time. It can be a good (and tasty) socialising tool, no matter what the situation. Welcome to AVEN! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Alejandrogynous Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 I don't think being asexual means we're any less in need of social lubricants, and I for one am plenty awkward even without sexual motivation being involved. So yeah, I like a drink or two when I'm out, just to relax and have a good time. It also makes dancing a lot more fun in my opinion. Right now I'm kicked back with my third mug of spiced wine and I'm feeling pretty darn satisfied. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
purplebunny Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 I'm generally too anxious to drink enough to get drunk, and I hate the taste of alcohol. When I do drink, I'll mix like half a shot of flavored vodka with juice. The less it tastes like alcohol the better lol Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Ortac Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 No. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
King Al Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 Yes. It tastes rank. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
J. van Deijck Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 yeah, I do. especially cider and wine. I don't mind getting drunk tbh. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
nimbus Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 I'm almost 29 and have never had more alcohol in my life than a couple sips of wine years ago. I dislike the taste, but the main reason is that I want to always have a sharp mind and full control over my actions/decisions. How would I find out my limit? What would I be like or what would I do if I became drunk? And I do think it's related to asexuality for me: if my inhibitions were lowered, would I be more sexual or would other people get away with being more sexual with me than I'd otherwise allow? It's simpler for me to not bother. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Xavy Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 I drink alcohol in moderation; wine and vodka cocktails mostly. I hate beer. Drinking has never made me more interested in sex and/or romance. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Hermit Advocate Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 I mainly drink when I'm at home. The only time I really drink outside of my home is when I am out with family. If I am having dinner with a friend I may have a glass of wine and that's it; but generally it's cheaper to buy myself a bottle than it is to buy a glass of wine at a restaurant so I rarely do that. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Deus Ex Infinity Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 No. No. No. It's been the cause of every suffer and mental/physical damage. Traumatized for life. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Janus the Fox Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 I stopped drinking casually and only have one glass of a select wine on the traditional Sunday dinner or celebration. Since my early stage reversible Non-alcoholic steatohepatitis years ago as a result of heavier drink and obesity, including long term anti-psychotic medication, I’ve been gradually unable to enjoy any amount of alcohol as I once used to. The pain and the lack of good feeling including quite a difficult morning after hangover, migraine, sickness or abdominal discomfort, it is not worth it anymore. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Zacharie Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 Not a single drop. I do though once in a blue moon to remember why I don't do it. Is just not appealing enough and overvalued. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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