Nicole B. Posted December 15, 2017 Share Posted December 15, 2017 That was a stupid joke, by the way. I now consider myself as demisexual, but I kinda used to be a super repulsed asexual. I didn't get attracted to people throughout highschool and in about ninth grade or so, I learned asexuality and I raised my hand and said "Hey, that's me!" Any mention of sex in that time period absolutely disgusted me. Porn and stuff didn't, but I suppose it was because it was more fictional to me. Although when someone mentioned pornographic things and such, it was off-putting. Fast forward a few years and I'm just floating and a little confused. Sex doesn't disgust me as much, maybe because I just got used to talk of it or some other thing. I still don't like the idea of people I don't know being sexually attracted to me. I call myself demisexual now, because at a certain point, I had romantic feelings towards my best friend and it led to me thinking about kissing them and holding their hand, and eventually becoming comfortable with the idea of being with them in that way if ever my feelings were returned. They weren't, and somehow, it is now more of a sibling relationship, but I digress. I'm female, but I'm not too stuck on gender or stereotypes. It's a little odd to see people around here being chill about broken gender stereotypes (I live in the south), so I'm getting used to it myself, but am personally for people just being themselves-so long as no one gets hurt and so long as people shave when wearing skirts or shorts...or if I can just phase the hair out of my mind. XD I don't know what type of romantic I am, if I am at all, but my personal ideal of romance is probably childish from other people's standards. I kinda just always wanted a fluffy, accepting relationship in which we both become interested in each other little by little-starting as friends. Idk, I suppose I don't want people approaching me with ulterior motives or something. I just want something calm and happy. Anywho, this is super long, so I'm going to stop it here. Questions and comments are encouraged and accepted. :3 Link to post Share on other sites
Tja Posted December 15, 2017 Share Posted December 15, 2017 I'm Perplexed. Nice to meet you! Welcome to AVEN!!! Sounds like you have a good handle on things. Enjoy AVEN! Link to post Share on other sites
Lichley Posted December 15, 2017 Share Posted December 15, 2017 "As long as they shave when wearing skirts" but what if they use tights to cover up the fact that they haven't shaved?? Link to post Share on other sites
Lia Posted December 15, 2017 Share Posted December 15, 2017 Hello there, and welcome to AVEN! As part of my welcome to you, I'd like to point out some important threads that might be helpful in your first few days here. The Terms of Service is here. We recommend you read it over, and if you have any questions please don't hesitate to send either myself or any other administrator or moderator (the "admod" team, as we're called) a message. Also, there's a handy forum called Site Info, which has some useful information including a thread outlining who moderates which forum. If you ever need something done in or have questions about a specific forum, please message the mod of that forum. And if you have problems with the site in general, or any single member, please message any admod. The following are also nifty links to take a look at: Welcome Lounge Mini Manual | Welcoming 101 | Quick Guide to the Forums | Asexuality FAQ's Again, welcome to AVEN and I hope your stay is everything you hoped! Link to post Share on other sites
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