Foxy<3 Posted December 14, 2017 Share Posted December 14, 2017 My friend is asexual. He’s generally a very friendly, cuddly guy around friends (male or female). Nowdays, when we’re just hanging out with friends, he starts to get hard when cuddling with me. But it doesn’t happen when he cuddles with other people. That hasn’t been happening till recently. What am I to think about that? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
TopHatCat Posted December 14, 2017 Share Posted December 14, 2017 How is it that you're cuddling? Does he cuddle that closely with other friends? If he's ace like you say, then it's not the idea of you that's causing the response. It's the style/extent of physical stimulation. It's a normal biological response that's independent of the cause. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Foxy<3 Posted December 14, 2017 Author Share Posted December 14, 2017 He does cuddle a lot. Mostly its whoever happens to be sitting close to him 80% of the time he sits down by me though. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted December 14, 2017 Share Posted December 14, 2017 @Foxy<3 It could mean nothing, like TopHatCat suggested, but if it makes you feel uncomfortable (regardless of whether it means something or not) then I would find a way to address it. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
NotPhoebe Posted December 14, 2017 Share Posted December 14, 2017 Everyone handles situations differently, but I personally would ask him about it, if you haven't already. You know a little "hey buddy, whats going on there?" couldn't hurt. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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