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Hellim everyone i was join aven one hour  ago.I’m apogolize in advance fır my baş language, because is engelish not my main language. Im 20 yarata old male and healtly i font haber any ilness and dissaser. My weight is normal. O can not decide im asexual or not .now i am not sure i havle libido or not.formerly, a few year ago i have crossdresser fetish .when my high school i have vere high libido like that normal person,but as time passed it is lost away. When  my high school two time feel very high libido to a grill nothing but her. two and three eats ago i am get erection real woman and im sleep with her but ım not feel anything and i cant ejaculate.today i can feel zero libido but ı want feel libido as before. I m still making masturbation but i am not fell anything . Please help me

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TheAngel(of)Peace

Libido doesn't necessarily have anything to do with asexuality. That means that asexuals can masturbate and get aroused, but they can't actually desire sex with anyone. Even when you had a libido, did you experience the desire to have sex with others? When you slept with women, did you enjoy it?

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Asdasdasd

when i have libido i am not desire sex real person, only have fetish,now all fetish is gone and i fell nothing.theee years ago im sleep with a grill ,I m get erection suddenly im see that grill but i fell nothing and noting fell while sex,i watch porno and im trying fell libido again as before.I dont want sex but ım get erection seeing naked women but i fell nothing

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TheAngel(of)Peace

Asexuals can still have fetishes and the like. It sounds like you might be asexual.

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Confused.Kitten

What if his libido is just kinda bipolar? 

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Star Bit

Are you saying you never desired sex before but used to do it to make women happy? Yah, that's asexual. Your body getting aroused is irrelevant (by woman or erotica/fetish); sexuality is just about WHO you want sex with. No one? Great, asexual! But loss of libido in men is often caused by low testosterone. Have you gotten your hormones tested? Just to make sure it's not caused by something life threatening.

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