Warsaw Posted November 27, 2017 Share Posted November 27, 2017 I actually am just crazy enough that I'm in a relationship with myself. I go on dates with myself, legit dates, high end dinners, movies, go to Pikes Place Market, the Space Needle all by myself. I love these activities. Past me buys present me presents. I love me. I am awesome. I'm so awesome I'd marry myself if I could be bothered. Although I haven't said I am Asexual to anyone, I have told them that I'm in a relationship with myself. Link to post Share on other sites
she_doesn't_use_jelly Posted November 27, 2017 Share Posted November 27, 2017 lol thats how i feel too, my biggest solitary activity is riding my bike. I feel like if i bring people with they disrupt the peace and I can't really enjoy myself as much. I like to just cruise out by the beach with my ear buds in listening to music. I would much rather do that than hang out with some annoying person full of drama and issues. I go to the beach alone too and sometimes i hate it because i'll see all these people either with their significant other or kids and it just kinda feels awkward. The only people i see alone is some old pretentious bag with a big floppy sunhat reading a book...lol which will probably be me someday. Link to post Share on other sites
Warsaw Posted November 27, 2017 Author Share Posted November 27, 2017 I'll admit one thing I've thought about but never could do. I've always thought about wearing a simple gold band on my left hand. Just to show how invested in me I am. I just can't bring myself to fully accept the symbolism. Also afraid to drive away "the one for me." Link to post Share on other sites
Shadow007 Posted November 27, 2017 Share Posted November 27, 2017 10 hours ago, she_doesn't_use_jelly said: lol thats how i feel too, my biggest solitary activity is riding my bike. I feel like if i bring people with they disrupt the peace and I can't really enjoy myself as much. I like to just cruise out by the beach with my ear buds in listening to music. I would much rather do that than hang out with some annoying person full of drama and issues. I go to the beach alone too and sometimes i hate it because i'll see all these people either with their significant other or kids and it just kinda feels awkward. The only people i see alone is some old pretentious bag with a big floppy sunhat reading a book...lol which will probably be me someday. The best time to go to the beach for the peace would be during the early winter. My family did that when I was growing up because one of my relatives absolutely hated crowds, so that was the only time we could go to the beach as a group. We were the only ones there and, although it's windy as heck out there during the season, we'd have heaps of fun exploring rock pools, watching the tide and gathering seashells - even found an octopus once. I agree with you; I wish going out with yourself to places didn't feel as awkward as it sometimes does, especially to restaurants (the odd glances I've gotten sometimes). We can go places alone if we want to... Link to post Share on other sites
she_doesn't_use_jelly Posted November 28, 2017 Share Posted November 28, 2017 7 hours ago, Shadow007 said: The best time to go to the beach for the peace would be during the early winter. My family did that when I was growing up because one of my relatives absolutely hated crowds, so that was the only time we could go to the beach as a group. We were the only ones there and, although it's windy as heck out there during the season, we'd have heaps of fun exploring rock pools, watching the tide and gathering seashells - even found an octopus once. I agree with you; I wish going out with yourself to places didn't feel as awkward as it sometimes does, especially to restaurants (the odd glances I've gotten sometimes). We can go places alone if we want to... I go to beach in the winter sommmeetimess...but it's a whole different dynamic lol I gotta wear like 5 layers of clothing and a lot of it is fenced off because of shelf ice. But there's this one part of the beach that always has naked elderly ppl skipping rocks so I tend to go there because then I know they'll detract all the attention away from me lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Shadow007 Posted November 28, 2017 Share Posted November 28, 2017 Wow, never been to a beach with ice before; it's just never been cold enough whenever I'd visit. Lol, definitely one way to avoid awkward attention. Link to post Share on other sites
she_doesn't_use_jelly Posted November 28, 2017 Share Posted November 28, 2017 9 hours ago, Shadow007 said: Wow, never been to a beach with ice before; it's just never been cold enough whenever I'd visit. Lol, definitely one way to avoid awkward attention. Yeah Lake Michigan can get pretty arctic at times lol. Link to post Share on other sites
she_doesn't_use_jelly Posted November 29, 2017 Share Posted November 29, 2017 On 11/27/2017 at 11:36 AM, Shadow007 said: The best time to go to the beach for the peace would be during the early winter. My family did that when I was growing up because one of my relatives absolutely hated crowds, so that was the only time we could go to the beach as a group. We were the only ones there and, although it's windy as heck out there during the season, we'd have heaps of fun exploring rock pools, watching the tide and gathering seashells - even found an octopus once. I agree with you; I wish going out with yourself to places didn't feel as awkward as it sometimes does, especially to restaurants (the odd glances I've gotten sometimes). We can go places alone if we want to... How big was the octopus!? And what lake was this???? Link to post Share on other sites
Shadow007 Posted December 1, 2017 Share Posted December 1, 2017 It was on the coast, Pacific side. The octopus wasn't too big, its body was probably the size of a fist at most; I only really know about it because it's on an old home video I remember seeing a while back. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted December 1, 2017 Share Posted December 1, 2017 I never want to go on another date again, even with myself. Link to post Share on other sites
AussieIsAce Posted December 1, 2017 Share Posted December 1, 2017 i do this stuff to although i go on my kinda dates. i go camping and fishing and go hiking and all that kinda stuff and i do it alone and i love it. im in love with myself. i kinda think im prefect. Link to post Share on other sites
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