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I Need Help Determining if I am Asexual


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So I am a male and I have had crushes on a some people of both sexes throughout different stages of my life. But I just realized thinking back on all the crushes I had there was one  thing that I never thought about -sex. When I had crushes on them the thought of sex never crossed my mind whatsoever but I never realized it when I was crushing on them. I thought about hugging, kissing, cuddling, playing video games, having discussions, going to the movies. traveling, and some heavy petting. When I thought about "naughty things" with boys it was always about being pinned down and us making out, dirty talk/bullying, them biting my neck, and touching my body but never sex. When I thought about "naughty things" with girls it was mostly sucking and touching her breasts, touching her thighs, but no sex I do not want to touch their genitals. I did have a couple of sexual experiences like being fingered and rubbing my genitals with another but I did not like it, there was no spark and it was uncomfortable boring and did not get me excited at all. However I do have a libdo and I do masterbate to porn but I never think of anyone specific when I do. But I also have a desire to be spanked I have no idea why but the thought arouses me. Anyways, I think I am biromantic asexual but I am really not sure. I do not really want sex and never really think about until it is brought up I feel like sex will ruin the non sexual attraction that I have for them as if having real sex will make me lose attraction to them.

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Asexuality is simply a lack of sexual attraction regardless of masturbation, non-sexual kinks and fetishes, and your willingness to participate in sexual acts. Simply put, have you ever desired to have sex with another person? If yes, probably asexual, if no then grey-a, or allosexual.

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Of all the crushes i've had I never had a desire to have sex with them but I did want to do romantic and erotic things with them.

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If you do not desire sex, then that means you are asexual, your crushes may be more of a 'squish' :)

 

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Here ya go. Kitty gives you some pointer links in my signature....

 

Welcome to AVEN!

 

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