Rhia Posted November 21, 2017 Share Posted November 21, 2017 I have basically worked out that i might be asexual in the last two hours on this site, all because i found out that asexuality can cover those without the desire to have sex with others but still find them attractive. The people in my imagination are the only ones i want any sexual interaction with. I am 20 and have for years told myself that one day i will want to have sex with others and been disappointment everyday that i was not i even forced my self into sexual situations that i did not enjoy in hopes that it would awaken something in me. I'm still not 100% on what my sexuality is but this site is making me feel like i'm not broken that its not my fault that i don't want to have sex. So thank-you for all of you who have posted ran and moderated because i have felt better in the last two hours than i have in years since puberty maybe. I'm sorry if i have mucked this up at all. Link to post Share on other sites
Ronald Race Posted November 21, 2017 Share Posted November 21, 2017 No idea? Lol, count me in on that as well! I'm 43, and have been wondering about this for three decades! Link to post Share on other sites
Lia Posted November 21, 2017 Share Posted November 21, 2017 Hello there, and welcome to AVEN! As part of my welcome to you, I'd like to point out some important threads that might be helpful in your first few days here. The Terms of Service is here. We recommend you read it over, and if you have any questions please don't hesitate to send either myself or any other administrator or moderator (the "admod" team, as we're called) a message. Also, there's a handy forum called Site Info, which has some useful information including a thread outlining who moderates which forum. If you ever need something done in or have questions about a specific forum, please message the mod of that forum. And if you have problems with the site in general, or any single member, please message any admod. The following are also nifty links to take a look at: Welcome Lounge Mini Manual | Welcoming 101 | Quick Guide to the Forums | Asexuality FAQ's Again, welcome to AVEN and I hope your stay is everything you hoped! Link to post Share on other sites
Lichley Posted November 21, 2017 Share Posted November 21, 2017 Welcome! Asexuality simply a lack of sexual attraction towards others, and as long as you don't fantasise about a specific person, then by all means you could very well be ace Link to post Share on other sites
Shadowstepper Posted November 21, 2017 Share Posted November 21, 2017 7 minutes ago, Lichley said: Welcome! Asexuality simply a lack of sexual attraction towards others, and as long as you don't fantasise about a specific person, then by all means you could very well be ace Agreed. Whenever I have fantasies, the people in them are faceless and nondescript Link to post Share on other sites
Lichley Posted November 21, 2017 Share Posted November 21, 2017 26 minutes ago, Shadowstepper said: Agreed. Whenever I have fantasies, the people in them are faceless and nondescript That's quite common amount asexuals, and it usually exists when you have a libido but no sexual attraction. Link to post Share on other sites
Rhia Posted November 21, 2017 Author Share Posted November 21, 2017 4 hours ago, Shadowstepper said: Whenever I have fantasies, the people in them are faceless and nondescript I've never thought about it in those terms before but that is incredible accurate way to describe it thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Ronald Race Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 For me, it always been.... null. I can make and hold friendships with anyone. But I've never felt the tug of a sexual attraction. Yet, I admire the beauty in the female form - I just don't wanna have sex with her, lol. Link to post Share on other sites
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