Jaime Smiles Posted November 20, 2017 Share Posted November 20, 2017 I was left deciding to myself, "Do I want to stay labeled separated from a failed marriage? Or marry another for the family I did not have in my first marriage?" I contemplated and chose to try a brand new marriage. With high hopes, maybe my partner would be able to notice I am more than a sexual object. Separated yet again, I have realized I am selfish to want someone to look at me intimately, innocently. I hope now the years can go like months with the sound of strings. How dare a partner cause shame, humility or guilt on an asexual. Divorced-2. Dignity-1. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted November 20, 2017 Share Posted November 20, 2017 Onward to happier times! Link to post Share on other sites
plasticapollos Posted November 20, 2017 Share Posted November 20, 2017 Welcome to AVEN!!! Have some cake!!! You'll find understanding and solace here. :3 You're not selfish at all. Really. Don't give up okay? TO HAPPINESS! <3 Link to post Share on other sites
Laplace Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 Sorry you’ve had to go through that twice. Even though I’m a child of divorce, I still can’t really fathom how painful it is as one of the participants. Hopefully things start looking up 😇. Link to post Share on other sites
Blondbear Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 On 20/11/2017 at 11:27 PM, Jaime Smiles said: I was left deciding to myself, "Do I want to stay labeled separated from a failed marriage? Or marry another for the family I did not have in my first marriage?" I contemplated and chose to try a brand new marriage. With high hopes, maybe my partner would be able to notice I am more than a sexual object. Separated yet again, I have realized I am selfish to want someone to look at me intimately, innocently. I hope now the years can go like months with the sound of strings. How dare a partner cause shame, humility or guilt on an asexual. Divorced-2. Dignity-1. Well, I am of the opinion that mixed relationships doesn't make sense at all unless massive compromises make both happy, but still. Next time try an asexual. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Jetsun Milarepa Posted November 23, 2017 Share Posted November 23, 2017 I don't think you're selfish to want that intimate innocence, but probably you're not going to find it with a sexual person, so as @Blondbear says, look for someone who can appreciate your need as the same as their own. Link to post Share on other sites
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