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Nowhere Girl

Are only (some) aces anegosexual? I never thought so, but...

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Nowhere Girl

I never agreed with the idea that autochorissexuality or anegosexuality is "a form of asexuality". I think that it's just a parameter decribing a very particular part of a person's sexuality. It happens to be relatively typical for libidoist aces (including myself), but I certainly don't think that it's limited to aces, that allosexual people can't fantasize in third person. I certainly don't think that first-person perspective is the "only correct way" to have erotic fantasies and I think that it would do people good if they questioned the idea that having fantasies about something must mean wanting to experience it.

But, on the other hand, this topic has also been brought up on the Polish asexual forum and some people who did more checking founr out that:

1. Of allosexual people's fantasies they had read, every single one was written in first person.

2. Some allosexual people were genuinely surprised that "there is such a thing" as fantasizing in third person.

Is it really so rare and only limited to aces??

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roland.o

I had only third-person fantasies until I was 46, and I'm not asexual. Then again, having first-person fantasies and questioning my sexuality went pretty much hand in hand. So maybe (exclusive) third-person fantasies are an indicator for the gray area.

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Graceful

What is anegosexual?

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Nowhere Girl
16 hours ago, Graceful said:

What is anegosexual?

The same as autochorissexual. This term refers to people who have erotic fantasies in third person, that is, they don't appear themselves in their fantasies.

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