thatonegirl14 Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 Hey! I'm new here. I'm 14 and have had a couple boyfriends. I haven't ever felt a sexual attraction to any of them. I loved one of them but never felt sexual towards him. I have masturbated and loved it. But I've been questioning if I don't feel sexual attraction because I'm young and don't need to worry about that. Or if its because I am asexual. Help? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
TheAP Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 It's possible that you might be asexual. It's also possible that you will become more sexual as you grow. Take your time and don't rush yourself with trying to figure it out. It's okay to identify as asexual for now, even if you're not completely sure. 5 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Laurathenerd Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 If you don't feel sexual attraction, that may mean you are asexual. If you feel comfortable with the label, use it, and if later you decide that another label fits better that is fine too. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ivi68 Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 мне нужен помощь медичина кастрирование Quote Link to post Share on other sites
caetxln Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 Maybe you are too young to feel strongly sexual,I find out that I was attracted girls when I was 12.Before that I always considered myself as a not romantic and sexual person. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
paperbackreader Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 Welcome to the forum! I hope you have a nice time exploring here. Like others have said; take your time to figure yourself out. Have some cake : Quote Link to post Share on other sites
sunmarsh Posted November 17, 2017 Share Posted November 17, 2017 I would say to use whatever labels you think best describe you and that you feel comfortable with, but know that those labels may change over time, and that's ok. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Zyden Posted November 17, 2017 Share Posted November 17, 2017 My sexuality or lack of it wasn't even on my radar at 14. I wouldn't give it much more thought until you are older. I dont know which country you're in, but consider the legal age of concent and dont worry yourself too much about relationships for now. It may all become clearer as you get older, just take your time, don't feel you have to rush to label yourself. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
thatonegirl14 Posted November 18, 2017 Author Share Posted November 18, 2017 Thank you all for your answers. All of this has totally been a big help. I told one of my friends that I’m pretty sure I’m asexual today and she totally was happy. I just felt right in the “label”. I do realize that this label may change as I grow. But for now I’m going to consider myself an asexual. It’s not something I’m going to tell everyone. It will stay within my group of close friends but that’s all that matters to me. It’s not even something I’m going to tell my family. If I still feel this way as I get older I definitely will, but I get it’s not a huge deal right now. Thank you all. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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